Girls, have you ever taken a guys virginity?

okay i am 20 and still a virgin and im scared to havr sex with an experienced girl because of the fact that the sex might not be good and she will regect me because im a virgin. have you ever taken a guys virginity and with practice he got good at it
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  • Yes. Three of them. First was my high school boyfriend, but not while in high school. Happened Thanksgiving break freshman year of college. We agreed to it was OK to date other people because we were going to different colleges. I did, an he didn't. Well, I lost my virginity to an "older, hot" guy I met at college after about 3 weeks of dating. When the high school boyfriend found out, he was pissed (guess I can't blame him, I wouldn't even let him go all the way on prom night). I suppose he must have forgiven me (I didn't actually cheat, because we agreed it was OK to date others); we met up over Thanksgiving break and he lost his virginity to me. He lasted every bit of one minute once he got inside me.

    Second was a guy I met in college, he was 19, I was 19. Met him at a Cru (Campust Crusade) meeting a friend had invited me to. He asked me out (guess he thought I was a virgin, too, since that group tends to attract the "religious and therefore reluctant" types. I'm a believer, but once you get your first taste of penis, well, you understand if you have. We had been dating about two months, and like most college dating situations, we kept going a little farther and a little farther each date. He liked touching and feeling, but he would always stop before he got to "it." Well, we were laying there, hugging and kissing and taking turns being on top of one another. It was wearing a skirt (we went out to a nice dinner earlier) and he had his hand on my thigh and was working his way up, and like every time before, the would stop when he got to "it." I asked him if he wanted to investigate a little farther. He asked if I was sure. I said I wouldn't have asked if I didn't want you to. And upon that response, he went for it. I could tell it was his first time doing that. I took off the undies so he could see what he was doing, and I unzipped his jeans. The rest is history.

    Third one was a younger brother of one of my college friends; he was 17, between his junior and senior year of high school; I was 20 at the time. He was always checking me out when I go to her house to hang out. One day, the two of us we ended up all alone (his dad was at work, his mom and sister had gone to the store). I caught him checking me out, and asked him if he liked what he was looking at. He turned every shade of red possible. I asked if he had a girlfriend; he said yes but she was working at a church camp that summer. I walked over to him and asked if he wanted to touch me, and took his hand and raised it up and placed it on my breast, then while he was still in shock from that, I kissed him. Had the boy eating out of my hand. I could tell he had a hard-on, so I reached down and grabbed it and asked if he liked kissing me. He said yes. I asked if he wanted to do more than kiss, and he was in even more shock, and didn't answer. I took his hand and led him into his bedroom and shut the door. Poor boy didn't have a chance. I don't think he ever told his sister. I was over there the next summer, and his girlfriend came over for dinner, and then all of us young adults were talking, and he and the girlfriend appeared to be a serious item (she was a sweetie), and when the conversation got to relationships and romance and all that stuff, she said that she Steve* (*not his real name) were waiting until marriage to have sex. I looked at him and said "that's so sweet" and I could tell he was scared to death I would say something. I didn't. They actually did get married a few years later, but I have no idea if they waited.

  • I have. It was normal. He didn't tell me he was a virgin, but I guessed it because of how pornish the sex was at the beginning lol After he came very quickly, I actually asked him if he was one. He admitted that he was, and asked what he did wrong. I told him to just wipe everything he knew about sex from porn, and then I told him that half the fun of sex is working out what the other person likes. I just showed him what to do and it just worked out.

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  • I took my guys virginity.
    He was never bad (not that I was vastly experienced either). But it was fine, and got good quick.
    Just be relaxed and try. That's all it takes:)

  • Yes the first guy I ever had sex with. So we took each others virginity. lol

  • i never have.

  • Yes, I have. But I was a virgin too so...

  • No I've never done that. But any decent person in this situation would be patient and understanding. Everyone has been in this position at one time or another.