Do you clean up the wet stains after sex? If so how and how often?

[Anonymous]

I've never had sex, but I know when two people are turned on, at least the woman is wet before even starting, and both the guy and girl ejaculate at some point at least once. Sometimes there's round two and so on.. I wonder how people deal with that or if they clean up afterwards at all, especially when it's done at home in different places possibly. Do you sleep on the same sheets now that they are dry? What if you had sex on the couch? In the kitchen? In a car? Or a public place? How messy can it get? Do you use anything like a sheet or blanket to avoid that wet stain or semen smear, ever? I'm pretty sure I sound OCD right now to all of you lol but what is your sex cleanup routine like?

[Anonymous]

Usually just use a couple tissues while I'm lying down then stand up holding them there, and wipe it all away. My boyfriend just wipes his penis off, we've made a wet patch before but it dries pretty fast

[Asker]

Thanks for sharing that :) Do you sleep on it again the next day without washing if it dries? Tissue sounds sufficient in most cases, but I can imagine that being a bit annoying sometimes.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah he lives in a dorm so he can't just easily change them. The clean up is just a part of sex, you get use to it. I was my boyfriends first and he didn't realise how messy it can be.

[BillieJean1070]

OMG we did it on the passenger seat in my car once and I didn't notice that I leaked a bit. It left a stain that I was never able to get out but it reminded me of a night I'll never forget.

[Asker]

Haha, that's awesome and gross at the same time lol Thanks for sharing :)

[KatherineJ]

I just put a towel under my bottom and the next morning I wash the towel.

[Asker]

That sounds good :) simple and clean. Thanks or sharing. note to self: stock up on towels

[KatherineJ]

Also if you go pee shortly after, it will help prevent UTIs.

[Asker]

I gotcha, noticed many say prevents std and sti online, I didn't know how important peeing afterwards is! but I bet I'd feel a need to if ever I did have sex. Just wow, a different experience of the body for sure, during and after sex.

[KatherineJ]

The only way to prevent STD's is to have you and your partner tested beforehand, and have him use a condom.

[Asker]

Can an std be passed to another through kissing?

[KatherineJ]

I don't believe so.

[Asker]

Thanks. Just checking. I sound like a 12 year-old :)

[KatherineJ]

You just probably slept through that topic in school.

[Asker]

Haha, no actually. But I know certain infections could be orally contracted (there was one going around on campus a while back), so in the moment I thought to ask in case there were new developments on STDs :)

[Asker]

And thanks for your answers!!

[Bimbobambo]

Men can also get wet for your information by the way. Its called precum. And it can already come when you only think about your favorite fantasies long enough.

[Asker]

Thanks for adding that info. How much is precum?, I only imagine it being a little, not like women and how it can increase, that's why I didn't think of guys getting wet until ejaculation. Does it happen as long as the guy gets aroused? Like hot making out?

[Bimbobambo]

Yes, its a little and yes it happens when he gets aroused. For example making out or just 4play in general, whatever he likes.

[jakeofalltrades]

I would just leave it

[Asker]

Never wash sheets?

[jakeofalltrades]

well eventually but I do it right then