Is it even possible to have passionate sex with a friends with benefits?

Like emotinal love making is that even possible with a fuck buddy?
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I meant more like passionate love making it still counts as sex lol
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  • you can have an emotional relationship with a friends with benefits, since depending on the depth of the friendship, you may still care about them as a person and not just as a piece of sex meat. I'm currently in such a situation. The thing that differentiates it from a relationship is lack of romantic investment. I care about the guy, but I have no intention of making our sexual relationship last, or of building a life with him. It's just fun, support and affection.

  • No. For there to be passion, there has to be emotions from both people who are involved. Usually in an friends with benefits relationship, neither people (or only one of them) has feelings. The sex can be really good still but for it to be truly passionate, you have to have feelings for each other. And at that point you might as well call it a relationship and not a friends with benefits deal.

    • Some don't want to take it out of the friends with benefits zone

    • Then there can't be true passion.

  • Passionate = enthusiastic? Hell yes.
    Passionate = emotionally intimate (i. e. emotional lovemaking)? Not in my (or anyone I know's) experience.

    The point of a FWB/fuck buddy is to get your rocks off, not to form a deep emotional connection. Deep emotional connections are for relationships, and more often than not, end up ruining the friends with benefits relationship.

  • With the right sexual chemistry. I had a friends with benefits in college that I shared some of the most intimate and heated sexual experiences of my life with. The chemistry was so perfect we couldn't control our selves with each other. But never grew feelings beyond friends.

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  • Pros:Short-term?-yes, Long-term?-yes ( Can lead to Marriage ).
    Cons:Women feels jealous when other women are around him ( Through her bragging about his skills in bed ) or feel scared of continuing because of the level of passion is too much for her to handle so they sabotage it.
    Men/women fall sometimes when the sex between friends are on point but he/she doesn't feel that way about it or treat the other like a dirty secret that they're ashamed of.

  • I have a firm policy of no sex until we have an emotional connection so I don't have direct knowledge of your question but I suspect in moments of emotional vulnerability, it could certainly happen, when walls are down and the physical sort of takes a back seat for a little while.

    Others agree?

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  • Yes you can have passionate sex with a friends with benefits.

  • Oh yes, just don't call her after sex to see how she is doing just call her straight to business that's how you keep a healthy friends with benefits. Relationship

  • I am in a loose friends with benefits relationship. We bot are in grad school and far too busy for anything but sex and an occasional dinner or night out. We have incredible sex when we are together which is about 3-4 nights a week. What are your thoughts?

    • I would say you are semi dating since friends with benefits shouldn't include dinners and going out but hey all those are labels do what you are comfortable with

  • Yes, mine tries it but I won't look him in the eye or kiss him.

    • Scratch that... we started kissing and he makes me cum every single time now... lol

  • i dont like the idea of friends with benefits

  • yes, of course you can.

  • Hell no, the whole point of a fuck buddy is for string free sex. No emotional attachment, just raw sweaty get your freak on sex.

    When feeling get involved, a break up is not far behind.

  • yes it is for sure possibe

  • no such thing as friends with benefits
    it's either lover , friend , or bootycall

    people just say friends with benefits to make their booty call feel liked
    and not just wanted for sex

    or to hide their feelings towards their friends which to them are more than friends and too scare to make a move

  • Maybe the best sex of all.

  • Yes. Especially if you actually like the person as a human being, the chemistry is good and they stay in shape...

  • As long as it's an angry passion it's possible but not a loving passion.

  • Most girls usually do it emotionally anyways, don't they?

    I know for a LOT that if there's no bits of emotions there,
    It's like " Why am I even fucking you ".

    • They do it because they want to feel someone inside them and its a change from the hand but its all without emotion so it works fine for them as well

  • Depends on your definition of 'passionate' and if you want to develop feelings for the person.

  • passionate love not , passionate sex yes.
    Girls too can be very horny.

  • Love making with all love aND emotions and care - NO
    Passionate wild sex - YES

  • No because if u put passion or some form if love emotionally its gonna complicate things and one person might have diffrent feelings. friends with benefits is just a physical act to give pleasure to one another if they don't have a relationship.

  • if you call lust passionate, which it is

  • yes of course... have great passionate sex n stay friends..

  • no... get a girlfriend.

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