Is it possible for a guy to not be able to cum inside a girl?

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Is it possible for a guy to not be able to cum inside a girl? My boyfriend said he could never cum inside his ex even when she gave him permission, even when he tried to. They would have sex for 30 mins. So how is that possible? Most guys can cum inside a girl theyve just met at a party, or even girls they dont really like. Like guys can have sex with a girl and never talk to her again. Because pxssy is pxssy, right? He also said it didn't feel that good when he was inside her but how is that possible? They didn't even use condoms. Because if you observe the world, it seems like not many pregnancies are planned. Probably 50% of the time it was the guy who lost control because it felt good and he came inside. So i don't understand how he can have sex with his ex for 30 mins and not cum inside? I don't know if i can believe him.

Intraluminal · Accepted Answer

Not all men/boys are the same. Some men have trouble orgasming at all and have to "fake it." although far fewer than the number of women in the same quandary. It is entirely possible that he could not orgasm due to anxiety.

As far as the 30 minutes, that is not a particularly long time, as far as it "not feeling good" women, like men are different from each other in size. The Kama Sutra mentions this in several places and has positions designed to help the smaller male satisfy the larger female Yoni. I forget the exact terms they use, but they have at least three sizes mentioned, maybe more.

It's entirely possible that she was large and he was smaller, resulting in a bit of a mismatch. I hope this information helps.

Goforit1010 · Accepted Answer

Just because he was in a pussy doesn't mean he will cum. THE MOST IMPORTANT sex organ on anyone is between their ears, not their legs. If he wasn't into her mentally, reaching orgasm isn't automatic.

Just think how many girls can have full on sex and still not have an orgasm. It can and DOES happen with guys. There have been a couple women I've had a difficult time reaching orgasm with. Just something about them didn't feel right when I was in them. It wasn't painful at all, but the shape of her vagina, the difference in it vs. other women, I just had a difficult time getting there. One woman took me nearly 45 minutes of being inside her in different positions before I finally came. I nearly gave up trying.

throwit · Accepted Answer

He's probably lying lol If he's not then it's definitely odd...

SarahsSummer · Accepted Answer

Do you mean not cum inside or not cum at all during sex?

Leapfrog00 · Answer

Maybe the sex with her was bad. Some girls don't get as wet either, which can make it harder for guys to cum. Especially if she's not wet enough.

psychomonkey · Answer

I wouldn't trust him on that unless his dick is broken.

meatballs21 · Answer

Mental block? Knowing that doing so could result in pregnancy? I was so used to not cumming inside that when I finally could (with a now-ex who was on serious birth control) that it felt weird and mentally uncomfortable to be able to finish inside.

lv4lv · Answer

He was probably worried about pregnancy and therefore stressed him out or caused anxiety in-turn wrecking the experience and sex for him.

LoveSpurts · Answer

There is some issue going on with him but it's not possible to know what it is without talking to him.

99.9% of men will ejaculate within minutes of being inside a woman's pussy or her mouth. That is what we are SUPPOSED to do. The whole purpose and design of a cock and balls is to procreate the species, right? We ejaculate when we come into contact with a woman's pussy. That's what we do. We shoot sperm and we enjoy when our women enjoy what we do.