My girlfriend vagina is too shallow, should I dump her?

[Anonymous]

My dick isn't overly long, it's completely average, it's 17.5 cm (6.7 inches) so it shouldn't punch her cervix. But every single time I can't go halfway through before bumping into the wall, and she says it hurts and she doesn't like it. She'd rather us finger eachother like lesbians. Well fuck that. What good is a woman if you can't fuck her pussy? Yeah yeah I know all you girls think cuddling and watchibg netflix together (plus him buying you free shit) is more important than sex, but here's the thing, idgaf.

[GingerBear]

The vagina is only a few inches long, but it becomes longer and stretchier during childbirth, menstruation, and sexual arousal. As I'm pretty sure she's not giving birth, and you don't seem the type to have sex while she's on her period, I'd hazard a guess that you're not doing enough to get her relaxed and turned on. That's your fault, not hers.

And fyi, the 'wall' is the cervix. Knowing so little about female anatomy doesn't bode well for you.

That all being said, it's really not going to help you, since you're clearly trolling.

[BellePepper]

Preach.

[Anonymous]

That means you are a lame guy and can't turn her on. Vagina stretches and gets wet when we get horny. Also you don't need to put your balls inside the vagina to have good sex.
I don't know but maybe she should discuss with the doctor if it hurts. Even though you might be the reason it hurts because you propably push too hard. Either way, I think you are the problem. Not her vagina. Dump her, she deserves better. We gitls love to have sex but only with guys who make us feel good.

[Asker]

So you're saying her vagina is shallow cause I don't arouse her? Wow! I was just kidding before, but now I really AM gonna dump her! She's not even attracted to me! Bitch just wants me for money

[Opinion Owner]

Vagina usually isn't very deep or wide. It gets larger and stretches as we get horny and wet. She might not be able to relax. Sex propably worries her and it will more difficult to get aroused. You don't care and just want to get down to business. Have you ever heard of foreplay?

[Asker]

I do foreplay all the time! If I dont turn her on then this relationship was dead from the start. Thanks for the enlightenment.

[Opinion Owner]

Obvuously you didn't completely understand but she deserves a sensitive guy with brains. So please break up with her. Knowing it is your fault.

[R3d_Anonymous]

He just defended himself with, "I do foreplay all the time," and yet you're still saying it's his fault...

[CapricornSwagL]

@R3d_Anonymous What the hell is your problem? You're defending this disgusting person. I feel sorry for the males/females you sleep with

[JuicyBrain]

@R3d_Anonymous I think we can all agree he doesn't give a damn about her. That must translate into his love making. There is no way he can get that woman wet with that attitude. While I do get your point, I have no difficulty imagining him being bored while mechanically trying to "start" her like an old lawn mower engine until he can finally fuck her. Put yourself in her shoes, I wouldn't be aroused either and probably couldn't wait for it to be done.

[R3d_Anonymous]

@JuicyBrain Understood and agreed.

[Anonymous]

I have to laugh at a pathetic little git like this. You just don't know about what's inside a vagina and how to get past it. Her cervix is NOT at the end of her vagina, it's on the top wall. There's probably a good inch of vagina past her cervix. YOU just don't seem to know how to get there!

This girl is much better off without an immature child with such selfish attitudes and so little knowledge.

[Asker]

"There's probably a good inch of vagina past her cervix." I thought if your penis gets past the cervix you'll rupture her ovaries or something?

[Opinion Owner]

No! Go look up some anatomy pictures. I can't get my finger much past my cervix as they're too short. If you are gentle, you can feel her cervix, feel the small hole that leads to her womb, slide your finger underneath it and there you go. A good inch of virgin territory! It may well be that she has a larger than normal cervix. I'll tell you something very intimate! If you've got the patience to learn how to get past it, it won't half give your dick a good massaging!

[R3d_Anonymous]

I love how everyone is making Asker out to be some big bad guy but when women complain about lack of sexual compatibility, everyone is like, "You go girl. Dump his ass."

[R3d_Anonymous]

Downvoters, care to explain? Okay, I agree that Asker is in the wrong, but this is a definitely a double standard that exists.

[dangerDoge]

Hmm... Sexual compatibility is important, but I think the reason people are not happy with OP is because he is treating sex as the only thing important. Esp with the comment "what good is the woman if you can't fuck her pussy?" I don't think it is the fact of him stating he needs help about getting sexual help, it is the way/attitude it was all addressed. Also, I can't say anything about double standards. I haven't seen many, if any, "his penis is too small" questions before.

[R3d_Anonymous]

@dangerDoge Understood.

[R3d_Anonymous]

lol thank you mate.

[Anonymous]

Yea go and dump her y try to fix it right? Just go find some loose easy girl to be with, you sir have problems

[R3d_Anonymous]

Stop with the slut-shaming.

[bomba78]

"What good is a woman if you can't fuck her pussy?" yeahhh you're a keeper allright... do the girl a favor and break up

[Asker]

I will.

[kittykatbrat]

Ty for the smiles + laughter xo

[Anno_Domini]

You took the words out of my mouth!

[Mesonfielde]

Well technically if he can't do that, she may as well be a guy. That is a problem.

[bomba78]

@Mesonfielde lol, really? maybe he just sucks in the sack and as a boyfriend/person in general. Ever thought of that possibility?

[Mesonfielde]

Well that depends on the amount of effort she puts into fixing the problem, and the type of effort he puts into fixing the problem (aka, not just shoving against "the wall" and expecting it to not be there)

[bomba78]

@Mesonfielde does it sound to you like he has tried to fix the issue? all I hear from his "question" is a kid whining about not getting his ice cream. There is absolutely nothing constructive in there. He says himself that he doesn't give a fuck, so why do you even bother to defend him?

[R3d_Anonymous]

Sexual compatibility and satisfaction is important though.

[bomba78]

@R3d_Anonymous Indeed, no doubt! But I am adressing a different issue: his general attitude towards a fixable problem. He doesn't care WHY his girlfriend is having problems, he just cares about him not getting any. "what good is a woman if you can't fuck her" doesn't give you any indication of the type of person he is and his motivations? So, like I said, he should do her a favor and break up. That way he can get himself someone he can fuck like a piece of meat, and she can get herself a boyfriend who actually cares about her.

[CapricornSwagL]

@R3d_Anonymous What the hell is your problem? You're defending this disgusting person. I feel sorry for the males/females you sleep with

[R3d_Anonymous]

@CapricornSwagL my point was valid. This opinion owner just clarified though why he is in the wrong.

[CapricornSwagL]

@R3d_Anonymous Did you not read what he wrote :/. Gosh guys are so weird. You defend guys because they're guys even when they're wrong. This guy talking all kind of nonsense and you're OK with that smh

[Mesonfielde]

@CapricornSwagL No, people typically "defend" others because they at least partly agree, not because they're male.

[CapricornSwagL]

@Mesonfielde So you agree that some sicko that can't get his girlfriend wet is complaining how she's in pain is right? I'm guessing she should get through the pain for you guys huh? And the fact that he's a sexist. I guess you're one too. "My dick isn't overly long, it's completely average, it's 17.5 cm (6.7 inches) so it shouldn't punch her cervix" Who tf says that. He knows nothing about vaginas OBVIOUSLY. Guess you agree with him though huh?

[Mesonfielde]

@CapricornSwagL That depends on whether his girlfriend attempted to put effort into fixing the problem rather than just expect him to be okay with cuddling so that she wouldn't have to have sex ever. I can see why one would want to just get unbound from a relationship like that... if you're not satisfied and your partner is totally okay with that, then that relationship will crumble when you will.

[CapricornSwagL]

@Mesonfielde I understand that but she's inexperience. HE ('supposedly experienced') is supposed to be teaching her. That's the point of dating a freaking virgin. Thinking her complaining about pain is annoying, he shouldn't be with her at all. She deserves a better guy that teach better than him. He knows nothing. Probably why he got a virgin, to feel good about his tiny penis. 'Hurting a girl during sex means your big', sorry you're still small

[JessikaSky]

Haha, wow, how shallow are you, you must be some horny af pathetic little 15 year old to have that attitude. Maybe if you talked to her and discussed other things you could do sexually together you'd be right, but from what I'm reading you only care about sex and that leads me to believe you're just using her for sex anyway. Some women and girls can have issues with sex and it can be painful for them, endometriosis is one of many conditions that can make sex hard and it does for me but since my partner isn't anywhere near an asshole like yourself, we've been able to come up with alternate ways to satisfy each other sexually. Smh. Poor girl having a wimpy ass guy like you for a boyfriend.

[bomba78]

"wimpy ass guy like you" lol right on the mark :-D

[JessikaSky]

@bomba78 😉

[R3d_Anonymous]

His complaint is not invalid though. Sexual compatibility and satisfaction is important.

[Phoenix1991]

Sounds like a really insecure man. Guess what? Get over yourself, go date a virgin if you're so insecure. Your girlfriend deserves better.

[litost]

i think you're the shallowest thing in your relationship, for her sake dump her

[R3d_Anonymous]

Sexual compatibility and satisfaction is important though.

[CapricornSwagL]

@R3d_Anonymous What the hell is your problem? You're defending this disgusting person. I feel sorry for the males/females you sleep with

[Prettygurl12]

Fun fact: The vagina expands to up to like 10 inches when aroused. So... if your 6.5 inch dick is hitting the end... guess who is doing a shitty ass job of turning her on in the first place?

That's right, sweetie, that'd be your fine ass.

Do her a favor and dump her.

[justbanANNAz]

LOL i feel so sorry for u 😂😂😂

[Maggimay01]

what is a relationship without sex? fingering her for the rest of her life? Nope, i am sorry, i agree with you there. that is not on! sex is very important in a relationship. maybe she should see a doctor if fucking is too painful! If i had that problem, believe me I would be calling the doctor that day

but, with all honesty, I think you should move one because you look like a guy who needs a pussy to fuck and if she can not give that to you.

[luvstoned4him]

You are not doing it right and you dont even seem like you are willing to learn or take the time to please her. Its all about you isn't it? Maybe she's better off with you... seriously, do her a favor.

[WhatTheHellAmy]

Try anal or oral sex... If she's not good with bjs then find someone else. If she's not into anal either, dump her XD.

[Whoooooooooo]

what he hell Amy

[R3d_Anonymous]

It's so bullshit how everyone is shaming this man for a complaint that women would be supported over.

[Mesonfielde]

Are you sure that no other angles nor positions work? Of course, if SHE doesn't want to figure out how to make the experience better, then the relationship truly is doomed.

[kittykatbrat]

You sound soooo angry.
Just end it dude.

[NerdInDenial]

If the sex isn't good, and that's what you want, move on.

[Asker]

Indeed.

[CasaNorba]

bro you shouldn't dump her for that, you should dump her for other things that would be considered serious.

your situation on the other hand sounds like it could be corrected. i had this same problem with my ex a while back and her reason was because she tried to be a badass and wanted me to pound her without being stimulated first.

so next time why not try some fore playing first before getting down to action?

[Asker]

We do. Without foreplay I can barely get the tip inside.

[Dandeus]

You should dump her and stick with hookers who will lie to you about how great of a lay you are. Certainly no girlfriend is going to tell you that.

[Sam19XX]

I like the way you think.

[genericname85]

"what good is a woman if you can´r fuck her pussy" that obviously sounds like there is no other quality to a girl. i mean i know you probably don´t mean it like that but the way you put it, is just horrible and outrageous.

of course if you can´t enjoy sex with a person, then it´s probably not the right partner for you but you should step back from judging a persons "worth" by their genitals.

[Marstalk]

You could always cut some off.

[lippy_hippy]

How do u have a gf? Ur shallow and big headed I hope she dumps ur ass u my friend will die a lone untill u can respect woman

[R3d_Anonymous]

His complaint is not invalid though. Sexual compatibility and satisfaction is important.

[CapricornSwagL]

@R3d_Anonymous What the hell is your problem? You're defending this disgusting person. I feel sorry for the males/females you sleep with

[lippy_hippy]

@R3d_Anonymous fine I get that but he does not need to be a dick about it. He just has to grow a pair and talk to her and see what happens. See if they can do any thing to satisfy eachother not take the piss out of her

[AngryHorny]

You could have added a poll. I'm really not sure what to comment.

[TheSpartan]

Tell her to see a gynecologist.