Guys, when you see a beautiful woman do you get a slight boner everytime you see her?

Guys, when you see a pretty/cute/gorgeous girl in class or where ever, do you usually get boners or get horny ect? Do you think about wanting to date her? Do you get less horny when your actually talking to her more regularly or you see her every day, then when you saw her for the first time? How would you feel if she touches your arm in a friendly way. When you talk with a girl who you think is pretty do you usually try and play it cool hoping she makes a move? Though you probably dont show your feelings outwardly on what you think about her, how do you feel on the inside? I want to flirt better with guys so I want to learn more about what goes on in their heads.
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  • Slight boner? Not usually but it's happened before when I've seen a girl who's wearing something I like or the way she carries herself. There have been times when I've seen a girl and just thought damnnnnnn she's beautiful. Some have just got it.
    If she touched my arm it would send a few little sparks flying inside me lol.
    Yes I try to play it cool and have a casual conversation and make her feel like I'm interested. And I love to make her laugh. I also hope I won't blush which has happened before too.
    If I'm really attracted to her and have feelings I'll think all sorts of things like what it would be like to kiss her. Hold her hand. Go out and do stuff together if we actually got together. Be intimate with her. Do things for her. Lots of stuff.
    I remember liking this girl I worked with once and I was showing her how to do something and I was standing just behind her and I remember looking and thinking what beautiful hair she had.

    You want to flirt better? Be really bubbly and smile and take an interest in what he's saying. Compliment him. Make him feel like you like him for who he is and mean it.
    It's happened to me twice this week when a girl I've randomly met has just said hi with a smile. They both spoke first. It was just one word but it made me feel really good. Like wow she's talking to me. It's amazing because this usually doesn't happen very often but twice in the same week it happened.

    I love girls lol

    • Thank you :) such a helpful answer!

    • You're welcome! And thanks for MHG

  • 1.) No we don't get boners. But we get aroused. (I hate doing this but...) if you see a hot guy do your nipples get hard right away?
    2.) If I see a super-model I do not think about wanting to date her... if she is a tall brunette with a figure I like then yes I would think about wanting to date her.
    3.) It's possible to get less horny. But that might be because we know more about them and it's less appealing, that would be one way to get less horny.
    4.) I would be very excited and aroused, no boner tho.
    5.) I like to be like myself and I don't need her to make "the move" but show interest in me so I can make the move since I believe that ladies like to be "chased" (or see that we are working hard for their attention).
    6.) If she is the woman of my dreams then I would feel very excited on the inside and it may show through and then she will see it too.

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  • Nope. Only when I think sexual thoughts.

  • No I might just think to myself "Damn she's good looking", to get a boner from something like that Id need to seriously think sexual thought about her. And just someone being pretty isn't enough for that.

  • No but at times I wonder what it would be like to date her introduce her to my parents and friends. What it would be like to be with her for a life time... erections are usually on the back burner. Unless she's dressed very provocative in heels then I'd think of her like "daummmm!!!"

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    • Why?

    • Why would i?

  • There are plenty of beautiful women, need more than just looks to get me started. Friendly gestures and/or flirting isn't that meaningful to me, just good fun. I might have wished if I could date someone I thought was beautiful, but then I thought that I knew nothing about her to begin with so I was just being silly. Had to make a move myself and find out whether we actually click and such, there is no use for "playing it cool and Hoping..". If you wanna get something done, do it yourself.

    I feel nearly nothing on the inside for someone I don't know/ know well. I leave emotions behind the door when I'm hooking up with someone for a one night stand / doing friends with benefits.

  • Gosh there's a lot of questions there lol. If she's wearing or looking sexy then yeah

  • i might do. especially if i fantasize about her

  • I do not get a slight boner every time I see her
    I just wonder watch she is like and that's it.