Why do guys only want me for sex?

[Anonymous]

Im 23 and I still was never in a real relationship before, and I feel like at this point I'll never find that one thats willing to settle down and build a future with me. I have had many guys approach me, but they never really want to take me out on dates or get to really know me, all they want is to have sex with me then dip out. Its like EVERY SINGLE TIME I meet a guy who I think likes me, they always end up talking about how I make them horny, and how they wanna sex me. I really dont believe that I give off that impression that I'm that type of girl that just gives it away to anyone. People always say I'm pretty, but I'm shy and reserved; I dont open up to people easily. I always make guys wait, and it seems like when I don't give it to them on the first night or week, they end up leaving and never speaking to me again. And when I finally thought I found a guy that was willing to wait a little while, they end up using me to get what they want then we end up separating. My last so called 'boyfriend' and I dated for a month until we ended up having sex. I later found out he already had another girlfriend he was dating way before me, and had many other girls on the side. I'm starting to feel like its no good men out there that can control themselves, or have any respect for women like me. Its not like i'm dumb with with little to offer; I'm 23, just graduated from college, and I have a good job, plus I'm goofy with a great personality.

[TommyNorth]

Could boil down to the type of guy you go for. If it's a reoccurring issue, chances are you may be fishing from the same pond. Another thing that may help is making your boundaries obvious, when guys start speaking dirty with you, let them know you're uncomfortable and to take things a little slower. If they can't respect that, move on.

[NhuanVan]

Awww, you seem like a cool girl I would love to hangout or get to know better. Perhaps we can message or text in here once I am level 2.

[MarieLovesIt]

Quit having sex with them. demand respect. men who only want sex, don't stay long if they aren't getting any.

[NerdInDenial]

You have to find a nice guy and//or a pointdexter.

[BreatheMe]

Can it be the type of guy you're going for?

[RichardTheFrog]

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