Have you ever been tricked into sex or know anyone who has?

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Obviously, guys are horny a lot and want to have sex and would do a lot just to get it... Have you, or anyone you know, ever been tricked into sex (even just oral) in any way? Tell about what happened.

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Anonymous
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One of my bosses' wives kinda tricked me in to givin' it up when I had been drinking. She's in her mid 60s and I'm half her age. She's not bad looking for her age, but I wouldn't hit it or let her hit it otherwise.

Long story short, went over to visit him after not seeming him for several years. (I worked for him for 7 years for his private business and kind of became friends.)
He always loved to drink, me, him and her got to drinking and BSing for several hours in his kitchen.
I don't fully remember what happened, but next thing I know my jeans and shirt are up on the kitchen table, I'm sitting in an armless chair, she's on my lap riding me, no condom. He's drunk sitting watching me.
I guess it lasted about 10 minutes or so.
For an old lady, she made short work of me. :0
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- Opinion Owner
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  lol I left out the part about her asking me if I ever did anything with an older, older woman and if I ever thought about it or if I wanted to. Somehow she tricked me in to letting her hit it. Damn alcohol.
- Asker
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  Interesting...
- Opinion Owner
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  I never told anyone in person. Only online. It was an interesting night. lol Maybe she tricked me in to drinking, in to fucking. lol I wouldn't have done it sober though, no matter what she said. Does that still count as what you're looking for?
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- Opinion Owner
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  Oh and we did it without a condom because she told me menopause had hit 4 years ago. lol
- Opinion Owner
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  He laughed because he said he lasts longer with her than I did. lol
- Asker
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  Wow I really don't care... that was a boring story...
- Opinion Owner
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  Yeah because you're not sitting a home jerking off to these stories or anything because you can't get any. Loser.

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udolipixie Guru
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Have you ever been tricked into sex or know anyone who has?
I've never been tricked into sex however I know many gals that have. In my opinion they were stupid enough to trust a hetero male especially in regards to sexual activity.

One gal had sex when her left her blindfolded to run out to an emergency. Her male roommate who generally listens in his room pretended to be the boyfriend. To me this rape (aka 'rape' to seemingly most guys) was bound to happen when a gal shares space with a hetero male.

Another gal was lied to by her male best friend that he was dying and a virgin. Neither were true and she got the parting gift of genital herpes.
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- Asker
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  They both sound really stupid. How can you fall for that? That's ridiculous... I hate hearing about STDs because I have been with more than a few people and even though I have gotten tested just a few months ago... I know there is always a chance that something will show up even though I have had no symptoms of anything... I am also kind of a hypochrondriac, so this adds to my worry...
- udolipixie
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  In my opinion trust in males is how you fall for it. The first gal trusted that it was her by as she didn't't think some other guy who walk in and have sex with her. To her knowledge the only other male was her roommate and she believed he wasn't't a rapist. The second gal trusted her best friend to not lie to her about something so serious. I agree that the gals were stupid as I find trusting a male to not be a rapist or to not lie for sex is sh*t.
- Asker
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  I thought that blindfold stuff was only in porno... how old was the girl? Did she ever go to the cops?
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- udolipixie
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  The gal was 18. She did not go to the cops. Not unsurprising as there is seemingly a lot of guilting of female victims to not ruin the lives of male perpetrators. Plus the whole shame/self-blame. She didn't even tell me this happened the male roommate did. She later confirmed it when high and drunk. I am pretty nonchalant it seems so guys tend to really open up to me about the seemingly true nature of males.
- Dubious
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  An assumption that all males are rapists might lessen your chances of being raped, as assuming all other people are murders might decrease your chances of being murdered. However, the accusation ignores the vast majority of relating issues. Trust isn't the problem. Two selfish and cruel men were. Blatant sexism is not only unhelpful, it perpetuates the problem. In a way that's telling the male children of our society "Sorry, when it comes to sex, you're always going to be deceitful and wrong." There are a plethora of negatives there, but one among them equating sexual depravity with a lack of accountability. Should men be taught their actions aren't their fault because they are men?
- udolipixie
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  @Dubious In your opinion trust isn't the problem. Different opinions. For me trust is earned. In your opinion this 'blatant sexism' perpetuates the problem. In my opinion it is dealing with the hand that is dealt. "one among them equating sexual depravity with a lack of accountability. " Nowhere did I do. Do not push your projections onto me in order to pedal your agenda. "Should men be taught their actions aren't their fault because they are men?" Unsure why you are asking me this as nowhere did I state that. If anything I implied that the men are at fault for their actions due to being male. If you thought otherwise due to me answering the Asker's follow-up question do not project.
- Asker
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  I want to know how on Earth a girl would even fall for that... who the hell lets someone blindfold them? That's just crazy. I honestly thought that stuff only happened in porno. It makes me wonder what other kinds of fucked up stuff goes on that I don't know about... and it kind of pisses me off that I'm honest and don't do such things... yet I'm sitting here watching porno... although, to be fair, if I were a little more social and friendly, I could probably find someone real and I do have a few girls on Tinder that I'm talking to right now... is there any part of girls that LIKES this stuff to happen to them? Any part of them that LIKES to be tricked? Does it activate some part of their brain that "nice" guys don't activate?
- udolipixie
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  I find people who have a fetish, into submission, or enjoy sensory deprivation would let someone blindfold them. "and it kind of pisses me off that I'm honest and don't do such things" I am unsure how being honest and not doing such things correlate to you. Are you under the impression that only/mostly dishonest guys get to do things done in porno? If so you are overlooking the example where the gal was initially doing this with her boyfriend. " is there any part of girls that LIKES this stuff to happen to them?" I have not known any gal that likes this stuff to happen to them. Most gals I know classify it as rape or sexual assault. "Does it activate some part of their brain that "nice" guys don't activate?" This question to me makes it seem as if you see yourself as a nice guy and that is the reason for your sexual failures. I find deception tends not to activate any part of gals brain other than anger.
- Asker
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  So you think that I'm failing because I'm too nice?
- udolipixie
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  No. I think you are failing like because you have an unpleasant attitude/perception towards gals and you are not good looking, appealing, interesting, wealthy, and/or high status enough to make up for it. I have never known a guy to fail with gals because he is nice or too nice. It is usually because he has nothing to little of interest besides niceness.
- Asker
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  How do you know? I don't have a picture... Also, I'm about to start a home building company that will be generating millions per year within 10 years... and about to start a factory manufacturing dietary supplements that will be distributed all over the country...
- udolipixie
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  I can guess as your statements show an unpleasant attitude/perception about gals. Plus if you were good looking, wealthy, appealing, interesting, and/or high status you wouldn't be failing as you implied by how you are honest and don't get to do this stuff. In your opinion the company you may start will generate millions.
- Asker
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  It's not an opinion, it's an established business model... you can't exactly go wrong building houses in one of the fastest growing real estate markets in the country... and it's all about persistence and dedication after that... I am pretty obsessive about my business and I will "handle it" 24/7 for the rest of my life... And, to be fair... I have never really ASKED someone to have sex... I don't have the balls to do that in person... I only do that online and have hooked up with about 30 girls that way... I have never once in my life straight up ASKED a girl to have sex... I think I should... (in person, that is... I've done that online about 99999999999 times)... And I have been told that I'm interesting by many people and I do things on a daily basis that you will never do in your whole life AND YOU DON'T... And if you see where my negative attitude comes in, it is in response to comments like you just made when I IN FACT have 99999 times the value that
- Asker
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  *the value that you do because I am strong and you are weak... and it should be YOU (the female race) that should be trying to impress me and I know this for a fact... how am I strong? I have broken my neck, broken my back, lived homeless for months at a time in places that you would get raped for being for 10 seconds... and still it is me that has to impress these weak little people that have no survival skills other than "having a butt" or the kindness of the majority of males on the planet that will give them everything for free and feel sorry for every little thing that happens to them...
- udolipixie
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  It is an opinion. It hasn't happened yet. Your company isn't making millions. It is your opinion that it will. "And, to be fair... I have never really ASKED someone to have sex" To me that's not fairness rather that is self-deception. As in a way to rationalize your failures. Some people saying you are interesting Doran't make it true. Apparently you are not interesting enough to gals to not fail with them. You don't know my life to claim that you do things on a daily basis that I do not and will never do. The only claim of such a nature you can make is that you per with a d*ck as I do not do that. So it is comments like me telling you that niceness doesn't cause failure but the guy makes you negative. LMFAO. Are you in some lala land were your negative attributes do not cause failures?
- udolipixie
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  In your opinion that you have 99999 times the value that I have. Do tell what are you basing value on? In your opinion you strong and I am weak. Do tell how are you discerning strength and weakness? "I have broken my neck, broken my back"... In my opinion being weak enough to break your body does not equate to strength. "lived homeless for months at a time in places that you would get raped for being for 10 seconds".. excluding your assumption that I would be raped. In my opinion being so lacking in finances do not equate to strength. "and still it is me that has to impress these weak little people that have no survival skills other than "having a butt" Again assumptions.
- Asker
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  Weak enough to be in a car accident? That makes no sense does it... You are weak and I could prove it to you in 10 seconds... I would drop you off in the "hood" at 3AM and you see how long you would survive... What would you do?
- udolipixie
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  "the kindness of the majority of males on the planet that will give them everything for free and feel sorry for every little thing that happens to them..." LMFAO. You really do love in lala land. I guess the historical oppression of gals didn't't happen in your skewed view of reality. In my opinion there is no such kindness towards gals in the majority of males. Otherwise rape, sexual assault, sexual harassment would be non-existent as well as victim-blaming/shaming. Plus it wouldn't seemingly be a commonplace norm to use a derogatory insult interchangeably for the general female population. Listen to gals and many will tell you it is rare for a guy to give them anything for free. Guys seemingly expect and feel entitled to sex merely for being nice or existing. Male offense to feminism decrying that gals have no to little issues shows guys do not feel sorry for everything little thing that happens to gals. I find most guys do not even acknowledge anything negative happening to gals.
- Asker
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  Well you're probably right... but I have never done any of that stuff... and maybe most guys do expect sex, but a lot of them don't even ask for it and just talk about dumb stuff instead... "historical" has nothing to do with the present... and maybe I just lack female role models because growing up, I have been surrounded by females who get everything for free so they can sit around and watch television and other equally meaningless things...
- Asker
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  And it's hard not to think about sex as a guy... think about all the blood, sweat, and tears in your whole life... and then there's a sopping wet vagina right in front of you separated by nothing but a thin piece of cloth...
- udolipixie
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  "Weak enough to be in a car accident? That makes no sense does it... " It is also not what I said. You said breaking you neck and back makes you strong. I said breaking your neck and back doesn't't suggest strength to me. I doubt your reading skills. "You are weak and I could prove it to you in 10 seconds... I would drop you off in the "hood" at 3AM and you see how long you would survive... What would you do?" Same stuff I did in elementary and middle school. Again this is where your assumptions fail you. LMFAO Do you think you are some special snowflake that survived the ghetto? You're not I know horror stories you likely could not conceive going by your statement of rape.
- Asker
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  What statement did I make of rape? Breaking my neck and back and paralyzing parts of my body... you have done something like this? Tell me your horror stories... actually, I don't want to know them... does it have to do with being kidnapped or something like that? I don't want to think about that kind of stuff... that is just sick...
- udolipixie
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  Dude do you just rant and ramble. This is the statement you made of rape: " lived homeless for months at a time in places that you would get raped for being for 10 seconds..." So along with your reading skills I doubt your memory skills. So you done with your seeming emotional temper tantrum over being told likely it is not being nice but not being appealing enough that has you failing?
- Asker
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  Cause you would get raped at 3AM in certain places... do you doubt this? I think my problem is that I don't go for it... I am not aggressive enough... it's not like a hot girl is just going to jump on me if I don't take initiative to initiate physical contact... I am plenty interesting... I have often been told I am one of the most interesting people that certain people have ever met... other guys just watch television all day, bla bla bla... I do interesting things on a daily basis... I am more interesting than most of the girls that I meet... their life revolves around doing the same job over and over again... and their looks... and that's it... nothing changes with them... my life is constantly in motion, while they seemingly make no progress month after month...
- Asker
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  Most of them is something like... "I go to school, I go to my job," bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla "guys hit on me and that makes me think I'm hot," bla bla bla bla bla even though there's 1000 hotter or just as hot girls in a 10 mile radius...
- udolipixie
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  "Cause you would get raped at 3AM in certain places... do you doubt this?" I doubt that it is a truth that the places you've been homeless in. That is a toss up. "I have often been told I am one of the most interesting people that certain people have ever met.." Again that doesn't mean you are interesting to gals or interesting enough to negate/compensate for your unpleasant attitude towards gals. "I am more interesting than most of the girls that I meet" In your opinion. Apparently you are not interesting enough to not fail with gals or to have them generally be interested in you.
- Asker
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  Well I don't really try to "close the deal" very often... I have had success online on sites like Tinder... and I KNOW I have more value than the girls that I talk to because I am going to be a millionaire soon and then a billionaire in 30 years... that puts me in rare company... and I talk to so many hot girls that they don't even look hot any more... it has been lost on me... I mean they DO look hot, but it fades very quickly... And... if starting a home building company in one of the fastest growing real estate markets in the country... which will eventually give me enough cash to start putting down payments on large commercial properties like hotels... and eventually owning a multibillion dollar real estate investment firm... if that's not "interesting" to some people well then fuck them... I guarantee it's more interesting than what they do, which for all I can see mostly is go to their job, go to school... But actually, I am usually pretty nice in person...
- Asker
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  I tend to just get mad when I'm sitting by myself... but then when I go out and look people in the eye... I'm not really all that mad... I think if I would be a little nicer and more mentally stable... things might work out for me a lot better... But it's also true that I very quickly look for sex... and would probably not be willing to wait around for any length of time to get that... who are we kidding here? I'm only going to be young once... and I'm just getting richer and richer... and I'm not sure I could ever settle for monogamy to be quite honest... and I sure as hell would sign a prenup... (ranting, no... but I just drank a few energy drinks...)... which is one more reason that my business will be so successful, because I have energy off the chain...
- udolipixie
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  I tend to just get mad when I'm sitting by myself... but then when I go out and look people in the eye... I'm not really all that mad..." This may be because when you are alone you are honest and when you are with others you are trying to get something from them. "I think if I would be a little nicer and more mentally stable... things might work out for me a lot better" Most likely as I find most like mentally stable people. Meh your view on sex and monogamy seem like typical male views. Different opinions on the only young once but as I find you old to me young is 16-24.
- Asker
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  But take into account that I plan to be very wealthy... look at Hugh Heffner... is he old? I don't think so... he looks young to me...
- udolipixie
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  Wealth doesn't negate age to me. I imagine most people would agree that Hugh Heffner is old. He is ancient to me. Unsure what your point is in disagreeing with my opinion. unless it is just to be contrary or your are being emotional. (?)
- Asker
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  Yes but I need to find the balance between what I'm mad at and what I act like in person, because most likely... my negative views are not based in reality... For example... I find myself "mad" at people that have done nothing to me... it's not fair to them... why should I be that way? Complete strangers... they don't deserve it... like they don't have enough going on in their life than to take shit from some stranger who is mad at them for no reason at all? But like I said... IN PERSON... I am not that mad... I can look at them and actually like them... and not just their bodies...
- Dubious
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  Hugh is pretty damn old, for the record.
- Dubious
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  "If anything I implied that the men are at fault for their actions due to being male." To me that sounds as much like taking away accountability. All the same results are implied if you trace through what you said. It sounds too much like when people say "it's her own fault for wearing a short skirt" to basically say that trust in men equates asking for rape. I've never been a big fan of anti-feminist/anti-equality view points, however it's interesting to see the mind set. I can definitely see where you get it with how some people are, though.
- udolipixie
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  @Dubious "To me that sounds as much like taking away accountability" Great that you are admitting that my words didn't state any taking away accountability. "All the same results are implied if you trace through what you said." Whatever implications you got are on you. I am not responsible for how to interpret my words or what you project into them. ". It sounds too much like when people say "it's her own fault for wearing a short skirt" to basically say that trust in men equates asking for rape." In your opinion I basically said trust in men equates asking for rape. Nowhere did I state that. Again I am not responsible for your projections. Try addressing my actual words
Anonymous
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I know a girl who doesn't remember losing her virginity because some guy had sex with her while she was blackout drunk after walking her home... Does that count? I know another girl who was raped by a stranger who then robbed her while she was drunk.
And I know a different girl I was at a party with who had just broken up with a boyfriend and she went upstairs and one of her exs friends was up there and kept saying he was the ex and he got her pants and bra undone before she got away and came downstairs screaming and crying saying the guy tried to rape her and that she was drunk but she knew it wasn't the ex boyfriend and she kept trying to get away.
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Anonymous
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i had two friends say they'd give me a ride home from a party when mine left me and they stopped in the middle of nowhere and told me to take my clothes off of they wouldn't drive me home.

I've heard about a dozen variations of this type of bullshit through the years. It makes me want to stab people.
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- Asker
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  So did you do it? Did you have sex with them? Why didn't you call the police after? How did it go?
- Opinion Owner
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  Not sex, no. But I was still so angry and betrayed. These were guys I'd known for years. Very few people bother going to the police. What's the point? You'll only end up ridiculed and shamed even more.
- Asker
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  So what did you do? Just got naked? What was the extent of what happened?
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- Opinion Owner
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  I don't really care to go into details, but I managed to get it under control without sex. If you're secretly thinking shit like this is cool (I read your other comment) - dude, it is SO fucking not cool.
- Asker
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  Well good thing you got it under control... So what IS cool then?
- Opinion Owner
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  Treating girls like people. Not putting them on pedestals and then resenting them and not degrading them. Just relating human to human.
- Asker
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  but isn't it hard to be completely equal? Doesn't most sex or relationships involve some sort of power struggle?
- Opinion Owner
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  Are you really one of those guys? Damn... My mistake.
- Asker
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  One of what guys?
- Opinion Owner
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  Who thinks overpowering or tricking your partner is necessary. No, it isn't. If you happen to get sroused by BDSM, find a consensual partner and play safely. Otherwise, there is no justification or rationalization for it.
- Opinion Owner
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  If that is your thing, though, there are a few dudes on here who go that way and give tips and starter guides a lot. It's all consensual, mutually agreed upon role play, though. Not just forcing yourself on someone and saying they secretly like it.