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Guy I'm seeing came to quickly during sex, but still unsure if he likes me?

So I've been on a few dates with this guy, he's lovely but very shy and laid back so it's difficult to tell if he likes me. He does always complement me and ask how my day was etc and has asked about my family other things in my life etc. Last night I went round to his for the first time, baring in mind I've been speaking/dating him for about 3 months. He lit candles in the room and in his bedroom and wasn't sure if he did it deliberately to create a mood ha anyway we put a film on and after about 15 mins we started kissing and then he picked me up and took me to his room, he was very touchy and cute and we kissed a lot. He also went down on me which was great lol but I could tell he was getting really turned on and by he started having sex with me he told me he was already going to cum and it pretty much happened instantly, he looked quite embarrassed and I was just like oh you must of been excited to see me and laughed it off and he was like yeah I must be lol we cuddled and then went to sleep. Next morning we cuddled again and then again he starting going in and came again within a minute. I feel because he's a bit younger he might not be able to control his feelings as much which is why he came so fast but I'm not sure. He dropped me back home but I could tell he seemed a bit disappointed lol I also find it difficult whether he likes me to because he is shy. Why do you think he came to quickly? And do you think he wants something serious? We have discussed that we kind of do but again I'm not sure if he would just say that to get in my pants lol should I text him later tonight or should I leave it to him? Advice please :)
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  • Based on him finishing twice within a short period of time at around a minute that's mostly like just how he his. Some guys finish very quickly. I don't know enough to know if he likes you beyond sex. I bet you'll figure that out in time. I don't know much about premature ejaculation but strengthening pubococcygeal muscles supposedly can help him last longer. If you like him it makes sense to pursue something and to see if he's interested.

    • Thanks for your advice, yeah I do like him a lot he's just hard to read cause he's shy, but I know he's a nice guy. Just think it may be a bit of a problem if every time we have sex he cums in like 20 secs lol do you reckon once we try a few more times he may get used to me and not cum so quick?

    • Yeah it's possible anxiety isn't helping his ability to last but I bet his body naturally wants to finish fast. I've heard of some guys learning how to last longer and others that keep finishing quickly. This is one reason it's nice to not be a girl lol.

  • Some guys just can't hold back at all and it's always been like that for him and he hates it more then anything makes him feel worthless and like a loser he was just so mad at himself for having it happen he feels like he dosn't deserve u and would never b able to satisfy u and those things he said were real he wasn't just looking for sex one thing just led to another

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  • He probably just is inexperienced leading to him cumming quickly and that's a good sign he is really into you. Tell him you want to let him keep practicing and that you enjoy it no matter what (as long as he is using fingers or tongue to still get you off)

    • Yeah I did think that he is a bit younger than me, just the fact it happened twice lol I just wasn't sure whether it was more down to him have a ejaculation problem rather than it being me lol yeah he used his fingers and tongue and that was great ha think just the sex part was too much for him

  • It may have been a while since sex or you turn him on so much that he had an early release. Its happened to me

    • Thanks, I think it might of been a while for him yeah, just hope that if we keep having sex it doesn't become a ongoing thing lol but I'll be patient with him

  • One time he was excited, two times he needs to learn to last longer. The best way is cardio coupled with masturbating, making sure he doesn't cum right away to build endurance.

    • So if he masturbates more it will actually be better? I just thought If he does that before won't he be less horny? Lol

    • It helps desensitise him a little.

  • Nothing to worry about. He's golden.

    • What makes you think that ha?

    • Too soon is a sign of interest. Guy not c*mming at all, now that is a problem.

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