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Why do guys like sex so much?

To me it always seemed weird that guys express liking sex way more than girls do. I imagine sex from their perspective and I think, "What is so exciting about putting your penis in a hole?". I know it is exciting to be with an attractive girl and I can see girls and understand how they are very attractive to guys, but I have never understood what is so interesting about the female anatomy. It just seems so boring compared to guys' genitals since penises are the actual physical part needed to make sex happen (compared to an empty space). I know guys like the feeling of their penis being rubbed but they can always do that with their hands or with anything. Sex always seemed very exciting to me as a girl because guys actually have parts that hang between their legs which I do not have which are necessary for having sex. It is kind of hard to explain what I am thinking, I hope it makes sense. I just want to know why sex is so exciting to guys.
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Update: This isn't meant to be aggressive or accusatory, I just honestly wanted to know out of curiosity
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  • I always had a really high sex drive until now. Today something happened to my soul and brain and now I've turned asexual. Sadness takes over my soul and brain because I will never experience a sex life like a happy human being.

    Sex heals the brain and body. The release of oxytocin from each session of sex will always make any person stronger. So, anyone with a regular sex life will always be stronger than someone without a sex life. Humans with a sex life will always be happier than humans without a sex life.

    In order for me to unlock my potential without a sex life, I had to find alternative methods of unlocking my potential. League of Legends has allowed me to unlock the potential of my brain very slowly. It was a very painful process both physically and mentally, my brain will finally fully unlock it's potential on 11-11-2015. My Spirit will finally have full access to my brain. Sex would've made this process of unlocking my potential infinitely easier and painless. Since girls do not find me attractive, I had to resort to League of Legends to unlock my potential. I was very suicidal for almost four years now because of playing League of Legends because of extreme physical and mental pain, I still have to play for a couple of more weeks. Once I unlock my potential, I can finally finish off Nikola Tesla's work. I will probably not last much longer after unlocking my potential, though. Sex doesn't damage the body. What I did to myself with League of Legends has damaged my brain and body, I will probably never heal again. Once I unlock my potential, my lifespan will steadily decrease and I will die. I hope humanity will use my finals gifts for benevolence. I don't know why I've been chosen to save humanity, I don't feel that humans deserve to be saved, but the Spirit World believes that humanity deserves one more chance. I am getting no benefits from this world and I have no sex life, everyday my entire body hurts, but I will do anything for God and the Spirit World. Please, do not disappoint me, humanity.

    • Nevermind, I'm not asexual. I still have a very high sex drive.

  • I understand why you had trouble explaining it - its hard from the other end too.

    Female anatomy gives a feeling of comfort and luxury. A pretty girl just looks warm and inviting. The sex itself is, in addition to being erotic, similar to the better parts of a massage and a hot bath, both on the most sensitive parts of your body.

    • Pretty quick BA there, QA. It's as if you're looking for this answer, yes?

Most Helpful Girls

  • Sex is 'so exciting' to guys for a few reasons. Not that it isn't exciting to many women, myself included. Men have always just been praised on broadcasting their sexual prowess for centuries on end. Women, on the other hand were shamed. Laws and traditions were created to ensure women would stay with just one man, give him children, look after him and them, etc..

    So those sorts of customs having stuck around for so long, in addition to some religions forbidding women from showing their body, not having sex till marriage, etc., leaves some men in frenzied state. Hard to contain when they're hard-wired to 'spread their seed' as much as possible for the survival of our species.

  • Well, let's imagine we go to an exotic massage room, so first select guy/gal as who's to serve you. Get lost in this hour massage, aromas, sounds, sensations, pleasures you wish would never end. Your mind soars and wonder what could be better? You concede, even desire to extend this to your sexual areas to elevate pleasures. One thing leads to another until all your boundaries have evaporated, even begging for more intense pleasure. Finally you orgasm and all your senses are slowly caressed & put to rest, your time is over.

    Guy or gal, who wouldn't want more of that? Gals are most the talker than guys, except for sex.

  • So is there nothing about the male anatomy that you enjoy? No sex act with your man that you enjoy? If not, maybe you're asexual and have no sexual feelings.

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  • So, this is bioligical. As you may know, a guy can probably impregnate over 50 women in a month if he tries hard enough. A girl however can only get impregnated once every 9 months. Since evolution is a real thing, guys who want to have more sex are more likely to pass their genes on to the next generation, therefore their kids are more likely to want sex too. Girls however, only being able to have kids once every 9 months, are less affected by a sex drive, but they still are slightly. Those effects over a few thousand years have ended up causing guys to be way more into sex than girls, it's literally biological and not a choice we make, although it can be repressed if try hard enough.

    tl;dr It's biological, our minds make us want to have sex more than females would want to.

  • A lot of it is about our perspective, like what you said about yours, of men. You have these MYSTERIOUS, internal parts, and soft curves, and a penis and balls kind of gets in the way, sometimes! You have nice, soft little bits, and you wear tight clothing, and some show the contours, and then there is Nature, and innate desire, and guys are supposed to want to have sex with you, so the species goes on!
    It isn't all about your delicious curves, hair, or that flirtatious look, but how you smell like fresh flowers, and feel so soft to touch!!
    Your little 'holes' aren't that important, really, with the whole 'package'!!
    If you have to know about your intimate places, it is the way that all of you are different, that makes you so amazing, and an interesting challenge, to us!
    Yeah, a girl can learn how to please a guy, orally, and it pretty much works for all of us, but LADIES, all of you are TOTALLY DIFFERENT when it comes down to your beautiful pink parts!!
    Some LOVE having their nipples sucked, like a nursing baby; others will kick you for doing it!!
    Some love intimate contact with their clit, others hate it!! Some have BEAUTIFUL, soft, wonderful labia, and they HATE THEM, but they are AMAZING!!
    Some ADORE biting on their labia, but they get nervous, and hate that they get so wet!!
    Everyone I meet, and become intimate with is new, and different, and the only thing that all of you have in common, is that you all have some kind of hatred for some part of your wonderful bodies, that we, as guys don't even notice!
    I would LOVE to meet one woman that didn't worry, or feel nervous if she should have shaved clean, or if she is too wet, or not enough, or if she 'smells' if I go down.
    Could you all just relax, and stop judging yourselves so harshly, because guys don't even notice most of the stuff that you are fixated on!! Just let him make you feel amazing, and tell him, 'more of this, or over there, or that's PERFECT!!'

  • Men are very visual and are the penetrators sexually so we're the aggressive gender and since sex feels so damn good, we love the hell out of it. Does that help?

    • i luv a rough guy in bed ;)

    • @ChanningGal Me, too.

  • Because they are designed to? Of course you find men more appealing, that is the way you are designed. Without these desires the human race would die out.

  • Well I think it feels good to them

  • i probs like it just as much as they do, my record was three guys in one night lol i was pretty drunk

  • It's just how we are made. The same way you can get excited about a guy, we are about girls. When i see another man naked, all I see is anatomy. I don't think of sex. But if you show me a picture of a naked woman, even if intended for educational purpose, it's there, in the back of my mind. I am just being an adult about it

  • yeah you're not making any sense bro. elaborate?

  • Because our nuts are full of testosterone, which makes us want to hook up with a girl. As you say, our dick is dope, and it feels awesome to use it on a girl, and to have our nuts bouncing around as we rock a girl's world. Now I'm about to howl like an alpha boy dog... lol.

  • It's because the female body is arousing, and they are far more sensitive than guys are. I'm certain many would be envious of that, too.

  • Might sound odd to you, i think women like it more. Men just express a be bold about it more where as women are discreet

    Maybe not that women like it more but they def get more sex than guys

  • "I know guys like the feeling of their penis being rubbed but they can always do that with their hands or with anything"

    Masturbation is nowhere NEAR as good as the feeling of a vagina. And not nearly as satisfying. Girls do not need to orgasm to procreate, men do.
    Therefore, we seek it out much more frequently because the level of satisfaction is that much higher.
    Plus as allready mentioned, it feels extremely good.

  • They are biologically programmed to want to procreate, have lots of offspring and impregnate women. It's not their fault.

  • The female body is beautiful, it comes in all shapes and sizes and it is awesome when you find a girl that just fits perfect in every way! This can apply to intercourse, hugs, kissing, everything!

    The female vagina feels so warm and inviting and it comes with different textures and tightness, so something for every man.

    It is a needle in a haystack when it comes to find that perfect fit though!

  • do you like going and shopping for bags dresses and shoes? do you like wearing them? enjoy looking at your new clothes? love how they feel and just generally love playing with putting them.

    i would say its similar to sex for men.

    • i like both ;)

  • Short answer, It's how society trains us.

  • Because the human brain is just wired that way.

  • Because we guys have to work for getting sex and it's sort of scarce for us.
    You girls are making the decision if you want to.

    I remember one picture: A girl can have sex with any guy she want in a group of 10 guys. But the guy however can not have sex in a group of 10 girls.

  • You have no idea how attractive the female body is then. Women generally smell better than we do. Their skin is softer, their laughs are intoxicating, their smiles can stop my heart beat and jolt it back to 100 beats per minute. Their breasts, their thighs, their ass, the legs make my body shake with arousal. And how can you say a vagina is an empty hole? Babies come from there. It's the origin of life. It's the sweetest place a penis could be. Our hands are hard, rough and big. But vaginas are tight, warm, wet and takes us to elysium.
    About penises:
    They hang so sitting on a toilet can be uncomfortable. You can either sit on it by accident or it drops into the toilet water. They are our biggest weakness, so whenever you are in a fight there is a chance your opponent may want to hurt you down there. When they get excited they get so hard that it may even hurt.. They can get caught up in your fly. They hang to close to our assholes. They shrivel up in cold weather or get extremely sweaty in warm weather. Shaving them is risky cause the scrotum area is very sensitive. When you gain weight they look smaller. They come in all shapes and sizes but are mainly judged on outside appearance so it you have a small one you will get unfairly judged about your sexual prowess. Nobody looks at a (healthy) vagina and says... hmm this one may not feel as good as another. Also, the penis can have aa mind of it's own. eg. morning wood.

    In summary I'd say I love women's bodies. That is why I get excited about sex.

  • Either the actual feeling of sex feels great or the ability to make a woman feel good and pleasured.

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