I don't know why but I don't really enjoy being eaten out... Is something wrong with me?

[Anonymous]

Okay so I've been eaten out by 3 different guys and I just don't get it. They have always tried to make me feel "amazing" but it's like I don't feel anything... I know this sounds weird but, I mean they get to the clit... I just feel so different because I just don't really care for it. I just don't understand why I don't enjoy it. Most girls say it's the best but I find it time consuming and it gets me no where... It's like I get bored. He's not doing it wrong... And the thing is like I'm not nervous about him seeing it or anything. I think I need help. It feels good when we do other things (me and my current boyfriend) and trust me I love everything else. But I don't like being eaten out... It's like a mutual thing. I don't hate it but I don't love it..

[Boston_Dylan]

Many girls are in your boat. I think the main reason is that females get a little self-consious having a guys face so close to them... some girls are pre-occupied with how clean they are, how they smell/taste and just how they look overall. I think it's a pretty normal response. Not until you completely relax and let yourself go will you learn to enjoy. Good luck!

[oldanddecrepid]

There is nothing wrong with not liking it.. if it does nothing for you and you prefer other methods, then so be it!

You may enjoy other methods that other women might not like, it just makes you unique!

[Asker]

Thanks it feel better knowing I'm not a freak..

[oldanddecrepid]

Not a freak at all... You may come around to liking it once you have it done properly someday.

[RansomDraven]

Please don't take this wrong, but with you being so young, it might be the guys. I was like that until I started dating a guy that was 10 years older than me... i liked it. He also had a tongue ring... I liked that. But either way, it definitely doesn't mean something is wronf with you. Everyone has their own likes.

[Asker]

Thanks (:

[PippiL]

I think a lot of the pleasure from oral comes from mental stimulation--that is, how "naughty" it is to you. If the idea of it doesn't turn you on, it can be kind of meh. The stimulation of a tongue on your clitoral area in and of itself isn't that strong. I've never cared for it much, myself.

[wingattebaby16]

If you don't like it, then you don't like it. It is okay to not like it.

I do anal to make my boyfriend happy, but i don't like it nor do i get pleasure out of it.

Do what you like... are you doing it to make our guys happy? If so, like me i just do it and not complain.

[emmabee11]

It's fine, your fine, not everyone enjoys the same things, and every female has different vagina's, some are more sensitive, some less sensitive, you obviously aren't as sensitive down there, you need more pressure to get off, it's all perfectly natural.

[onewoundedgal]

You don't like it and that's that! Don't force yourself or allow him to talk you into it either. Accept your limits and make sure he does too.

[SarahsSummer]

whst other things do you do that you enjoy? do you enjoy masturbating?

[Thor696]

Believe it or not... I don't really enjoy BJ's myself... I would just rather get on to the main event.

So no, you're not abnormal.

[BertMacklinFBI]

you're probably too young to really appreciate it.

[Asker]

I mean you could be right...

[annoyymouse]

It's one or two things. Either they were just not good at it, or you just don't like it, which is fine by the way. Just because other people like it, doesn't mean that you will. I have yet to be with a woman who got off the same way as another one. Each one takes something different.

[greycadillacs]

I've been with a girl like that before. Do you prefer being penetrated?

[Asker]

Honestly yeah.. I just feel like if I don't like it there's something wrong with me..

[greycadillacs]

No, not at all. Different strokes for different folks. I've been with girls who prefer being eaten out and could only come that way, and others who don't care for it at all and would rather just skip it. I mean, honestly, sometimes for a guy that's a relief.

[RebeccaSJ]

No, I like it.

[93stepsawayfromhome]

Maybe they don't do a good enough job, or you just don't like it. It's possible.

[Nick_D]

I had girls not liking it, and exactly as you said they were getting bored no matter what I did. There is nothing wrong with you , find some other way that rocks your boat

I had a girl that didn't enjoy eating her but came within minutes each time I played with a little vibrating egg on her clit and licking her

you have to experiment a bit more and tell your boyfriend to try something else

[jakeofalltrades]

some people just don't like oral. some guys feel the same way about blow jobs

[creamylover]

if its not your thing, its not..
try other things..
evryone have his own preferences

[tall-one]

In my non medical opinion. NO. Nothings wrong with you. I have heard of women who can only reach orgasm certain ways.

I recomend finding non rushed time to explore your body. By yourself. And then later with a partner. And find what works for you.

[Anonymous]

You don't know what real sex is about... just yet

[Anonymous]

I don't enjoy being eaten out that much either. I personally think it's a mood thing, because there are instances where I am totally up for being eaten out because I am just that much in the mood. I have to make sure I am willing to let go and relax and just enjoy myself when he wants to do it (my boyfriend really likes it). So no, I don't think there's anything wrong with you.

[Anonymous]

No, there's nothing wrong with you. There shouldn't be any "eating out" anyways. People do it, but that doesn't mean they should.

[tyber1]

Thanks for the input gramps

[Opinion Owner]

@tyber1 You're welcome, kid.

[Anonymous]

I completely get you, I don't really feel anything either and Im bored as shit the whole time.