Guys, how does it feel to deflower a virgin girl?

[Anonymous]

How does it feel to be the first one inside? To stretch her tight vagina to the exact size of your penis. To break/stretch the hymen and have a virgin's blood on you. How does that feel?

[Orion1015]

I've had sex with two virgins in my lifetime, and it's both fun, and difficult.

It's nice being the first guy she's ever experienced that with, and it made me feel very special to her. It was also very erotic, in a macho sort of way. Being the first guy to explore "uncharted territory" so to speak. They say a girl will always remember her first, so it's kind of interesting thinking about it that way.

That being said, it also puts a lot of pressure on the guy. The girl is most likely going to be nervous as all hell, so we have to take extra steps to ensure that it will be enjoyable for her. Going slow, letting her get used to it, that sort of thing. She'll probably be very tight, so you have to take your time, instead of just thrusting into her, like you really want to.

Of course, once you're past that point, it's just really hot knowing that you're inside of a virgin. The first penis she's ever experienced is the one inside of her, yours. You're the first to stretch her, the first guy she's ever felt filling her up, throbbing inside of her. It's the first time her vagina has ever held, and squeezed, a penis, and it's yours. You'll (hopefully) be the first guy to ever make her orgasm.

It's a powerful feeling.

[Asker]

Is it disappointing to marry a girl who's virginity was taken by another man?

[Orion1015]

Oh, no, not at all. I would never think less of a woman who's no longer a virgin, nor would I ever say that a virgin is better than someone who's more experienced. Every woman is special, and whether she's a virgin, or not, makes no difference. I was only describing what it was like to be with a virgin. There are perks to being eith non-virgin's as well. Both are great, just in different ways.

[Asker]

Well, what are the perks to marrying a non virgin woman?

[Orion1015]

I wouldn't marry, or not marry, a woman based upon her status as a virgin/non-virgin. I would marry her because I loved her, and wanted to spend my life with her. Her virginity, or lack of, wouldn't even be a consideration. If you're asking purely about the physical aspect of sex between the two; non-virgins are usually much more comfortable with sex. They've done it, so they know what they enjoy, and what they don't. They also have a better grasp of what feels good to a partner. This can more for a more fulfilling, and pleasureable, experience for them both.

[Orion1015]

When Christopher Columbus discovered America, he probably thought, "My God, a beautiful, unspoiled land that I can claim as my own, and be the first to explore! This truly is heaven!" If he returned today, he would say, "My God, cheeseburgers just the way I like them, and cell phone reception everywhere! This truly is heaven!" Two different scenarios, but both fantastic, for different reasons. :)

[Asker]

Gosh, that makes no sense. Nice try, though. The effort is appreciated.

[Orion1015]

The last post was a joke, obviously, but I'm sorry if the ones before that didn't make any sense. I don't know a better way to explain it. There is nothing inherently better or worse about a girl being a virgin, or not. One is more experienced, and one gives you the joy of being her first, that's all.

[Asker]

A virgin girl can become experienced from having sex with you. Therefore, she'll be both experienced and you'll be her first.

[Asker]

By the way, you explained everything just fine. I don't have the body part you speak of, so it's more challenging for me to attempt to comprehend male anatomy and the sensations that go with it. Your sensations are so different from mine.

[jonblane]

It's great to know that you are her very first man inside her.
If she says it's her first experience
I prefer to do it in the dark, and the last thing to come off ( as it were ) is my underpants when i'm already on top of her and she is naked : in my experience it is a lot better for the woman if she doesn't see the erect penis until after it has been inside her just feels it poking around her belly and spread out thighs... finding its way in... ... otherwise she thinks it's too big and that can set off a tightening action so it hurts her as it goes in.
Females may dislike me saying this but the truth is it's a great morale booster to know that no other man ever is going to be the first one inside her, and that she'll always remember me, maybe even think about having me inside her in later years when another boyfriend or husband are inside her...
All penetration is a great sensation for the male, of course, but it's a real massive plus point if you're her first :)

[mikemx55]

Wish I could tell you

[Asker]

Why can't you?

[mikemx55]

Do you really have to ask? Do the math

[Asker]

2+2=5

[mikemx55]

I'm just another virgin passing by

[Asker]

Welcome to the club.

[mikemx55]

Oh, I didn't think you were. Thought you were just deflowered and were wondering how it felt for him

[Asker]

Heh, no. I'm just curious about how it feels for the male.

[mikemx55]

Would you care to answer:
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1698036-do-you-dream-t-to-lose-virginity-with-a-virgin

[Asker]

I answered. Feel free to message me if you want.

[AleDeEurope]

I've only had sex with one virgin, and it wasn't anything special. I had to go extremely slow, and after 5 minutes of trying she told me to stop cause it was hurting her too much. So it was kinda boring to me.
She already had broken her hymen due to fingering, so there was no blood.

[Asker]

Boring? Jeez, what did you expect from a virgin? I feel bad for her. She wasted her first time on a jerk like you.

[AleDeEurope]

What do you expect me to say, that I enjoyed it? I knew it wasn't gonna be the best sex I ever had, but I wasn't expecting her to be like that, cause it wasn't just the first time, but 3 times in total where I had to stop after 5 minutes because she was in pain. Call me a jerk if you want, but it is what it is.

[Asker]

She's in pain.. And, all you can think about is your own pleasure.. Sounds like a jerk to me.

[AleDeEurope]

I'm not just thinking about my own pleasure, like I said, I stopped, but that doesn't mean it wasn't boring. There's a difference ;)

[Asker]

Congrats, you stopped. You're not a rapist. Pat yourself on the back. Here's a cookie.

[AleDeEurope]

Rely on sarcasm when the other person is right. Thank you.

[Asker]

You're welcome. Whatever helps you sleep at night. I know the girl you deflowered will have trouble sleeping.

[AleDeEurope]

Ehh, I don't know, I broke up with her months ago, and still one month later texted me saying she missed me, so maybe you're right, she can't sleep, but I think it's another reason behind that ;)

[Asker]

Yes, because she's emotionally attached to you. She's probably in love with you. I bet she cries herself to sleep every night wondering what's wrong with her. Pft, and you broke up with her because the sex wasn't good enough? She's just a beginner. Do you honestly think you're a good guy?

[AleDeEurope]

She's clearly not in love, no one loves someone after 3 weeks. I never said I broke up because the sex sucked, the reasons were others. Yes, I'm a good guy. Disliking the sex with her doesn't make me a bad guy.

[Asker]

No, but being selfish does.

[AleDeEurope]

Again, I'm not selfish. I gave my opinion about the sex. Just because she was a virgin isn't gonna automatically make me think the sex was great. The sex was boring and I know why it was boring, I understand that and I accept that, I never blamed it on her.

[Asker]

Well, as long as you didn't blame it on her. Cause it's not her fault.

[AleDeEurope]

I never blamed it on her, I knew from the beginning that it wasn't gonna be fun. I also never pressured her, I let it up to her to decide when was the time to do it.

[Asker]

Well, that's very decent of you. Though, let's be honest.. This girl wants you back. I'm female and I know for a fact that no girl is just going to give her virginity to a guy, get dumped by him and then just get over it.

[AleDeEurope]

Well, I broke up with her back in May, and she texted me that she missed me, back in July 4th, she was drunk. I'm pretty sure that 5 month after I broke up with her, she's over me.

[Asker]

That's not how girls work, buddy. My mother is in her 50's and she still tears up when she thinks about the guy she gave herself to. Don't you get it? She gets drunk to mask the pain. And, who's the first person she contacts? You. That's not a coincidence. Deny it all you want. But, you hurt someone.

[AleDeEurope]

Well, not every girl is the same. I know I hurt her, of course I do, but I can't be with someone I don't like anymore, and it'll be worse for her to be living a lie, cause eventually I'd had to break up. I had to break up with her, I had no choice. It was either my happiness, or her her happiness, there was no happiness for both.

[Asker]

I understand. But, you shouldn't have deflowered her if you weren't certain that the relationship would last.

[AleDeEurope]

But I told her that I wasn't completely sure that I wanted to be in a relationship, I even told her this before we started dating, but she said "lets try". A few days before I took her virginity, I told her I was having doubts, she said it was normal and it was ok. When she told me she wanted to have sex, I asked her like more than 5 times if she was 100% sure that she wanted to do it. She knew what I was thinking, but she still wanted to go through with it.

[Asker]

Alright, I guess she made a mistake. Now, she's in pain and misses you. Sucks for her.. Though, it takes two to have sex. You helped her make that mistake.

[AleDeEurope]

Yeah, and I can't say I'm too proud of that.

[Asker]

She can't say she's too proud of it either..

[AleDeEurope]

Yeah, I'm sure she isn't.

[Asker]

Alrighty then. This conversation is over. I suppose it was therapeutic to vent out about your personal matters.

[Metlahaed]

It feels the same as any other girl, although virgin girls are usually more nervous and shy, but that gets better with time :)

[TripleAce]

Sorry to burst your bubble but there's no difference

You sound like such a perv. That was kinda gross to read that

[the_rake]

Nice descriptive language there.

[Asker]

Thank you. I try.

[the_rake]

You should write an erotic novel: the bloody flowering of the innocent angel, Delilah Mary, mother of Christ... virgin no longer Achilleus, slayer of maidenheads etc. etc.

[Asker]

You know what? I might just take you up on that offer. I was actually trying to censor my description.

[the_rake]

Ok send me the amazon link once your rich and famous so I can take the credit.

[Asker]

Hardy har har. It is not my intention to write such filth. I simply stated what happens during this experience. Let's be mature adults about it, eh?

[the_rake]

LOL you can't possibly expect me to take your question seriously

[Asker]

You? No. Mature adults? Yes.

[the_rake]

L ol

[Octavius]

Ok take it easy there. Save it for your erotic fan-fiction.

No I couldn't care less.

[Asker]

"erotic fan-fiction" lol. Hey, I'm not going to sugarcoat it. That's what happens.

[jacquesvol]

It feels like sex.

[jjmarvin]

Um... i don't like how you explained it lol

[Ihav2fart]

Let me answer this later on.

[ThatBritishLad]

I assume it's quite similar to your first shanking at the bins behind Tescos. Wet, miserable, yet strangely satisfying.