Guys and Girls what is a sexual deal breaker for you?

[Anonymous]

like for example is there a certain sexual act that for you is a hell no, you are never doing but you know people who do it, are into it or would try it. Or like you are with someone (in what ever sense one night stand and beyond) and you discover they like something sexually that would maybe even change your perspective on them and you might even rethink ever having sex with them again? also what is something you would try once or like and you know people think that it is or know that it is taboo, gross or off limits for some? let me knw what that is for you:) hope you understand the question as well... for me i think a man who likes really rough sex and to be dominant, would turn me off, anal sex is out of the question and definitely rimjobs as well but i know people who would or have tried these. anything with whips and chains is a no no also pegging is a strange one for me as well though i never knew anyone who did it nor encountered anyone who wanted it also the peeing on someone and vice versa not for me would make me back slowly out the door on the other hand i would pretty much try having a guy cum anywhere on me or in me (safely) cause cum just doesn't gross me out at all and turns me on a lot whereas i know girls who would think this is repulsive or degrading. also if a guy had a thing (not like obsessed with tho) or didn't mind/liked period sex it wouldn't throw me off . thats all i could think of for now i am pretty boring lol by the way i do not mean obvious outrageous acts but however you interpret the question is fine :)

[godfatherfan]

I dated a woman last January that I broke up with mostly due to sexual incompatibility. She wanted sex to be like 99% intercourse. I am very oral and, if I had my way, would want it to be 99% oral. but I am ok with either 1 time for her, 1 time for me, or meeting in the middle somewhere. I would eat her out and give her an orgasm. but she would only blow me for maybe a minute if that. the first 2 weeks I almost broke up with her as I told her I was not happy with it. I didn't even get a full blow job once just to make me happy.
Finally I was getting to the point where I finished her and I just said "I'm good" and got dressed. that was the last time I saw her.

[Asker]

lollllll whoa! but yeah i understand

[Insecure1636]

I may be in the minority but the idea of anal is not a turn on to me like most guys. I enjoy hitting it from behind but I would still want pussy and not ass. And no way I'm licking anyone's ass, lol. If a girl I loved really wanted it I would try once for her but that's it. I would never let anything enter me however. An odd one that I would do that others might not is for some reason I have had the urge to give a golden shower but would never actually ask a girl to let me.

[Asker]

lol wow ok cool. thanks for answering the weird one you would do. dont think anyone really answered that very much

[Insecure1636]

No problem, I try to answer exactly what is asked if possible even if it makes me look bad.

[Asker]

lol cool

[lumos]

I mean, unless it's something crazily creepy/illegal like being a pedophile or necrophile or something, I don't think there are any "deal breakers" for me that would make me want to end things altogether. I just think that if our views on sex are very different, we'll probably be incompatible sexually. That in turn would probably get us to break up. I'm pretty vanilla and I wouldn't force someone with a more "colorful" sex drive/life feel like they're not getting the experience they want.

[moistycakes]

Would never consider being shit on or shitting on someone or femdom hardcore shit like stepping on balls with high heels or whatever. Also not into foot fetishes.

[Kirah]

If he's dominant in bed. That's just not my thing.

Oh and what really grosses me out is scat. The poop stuff. Gross.

[Asker]

lol hahahaha i wonder if anyone is actually into poop sexually. it has to be a myth

[Kirah]

Some people have a scat fetish. It's just not my thing.

[AustinMan]

Everyone has their limits. You're clear on yours so why do the limits of others interest you?

[Asker]

curiousity i guess and based on conversation (s) i have had with my friends. not to make anyone feel uncomfortable at all.

[AustinMan]

One key element of a happy relationship is compatible kinks and sexual practices.

[vishna]

Currently, if he demanded anal, I would have to say no that.

If he wanted anything with feces or pee or blood, no.

[badboy666]

My girl didn't "demand" anal, but requested it. I wasn't interested, but I went along. She loved it, I liked it. I'm willing to try almost anything she suggests.

[vishna]

I've heard of women who really like it. My boyfriend isn't interested either. So, for now it's likely off the table.

[vishna]

@badboy66

[JuicyBrain]

Nothing would shock me. I might have to say no. But I will never think less of someone because she has different taste or want to try something. I respect someone who wants to explore and if something goes further than I am willing to go, I will simply say no.
Coprophilia is a good example of something that is not for me at all. I don't mind anal, but playing with shit is not for me. fortunately, it's pretty rare.

[Asker]

true that is rare

[Mesonfielde]

Anything involving pee and poop is just NO NONO NONONONONO

[Asker]

hahahah i agreee

[S1lverado96]

I agree with the whole peeing on thing but I am open to pretty much anything my partner wants to do. I would be a little hesitant if she wanted to use a strap-on and fuck me with it. (I've seen that on other posts) I would do period sex as long as I'm using a condom and she's up for it. To me, there aren't many turn offs for sex.

[timbergag]

Children, animals, shit. Most other things I'd at least consider.

[RedThread]

If a woman is like super kinky we wouldn't work out. I'm vanilla as all hell. Like.. I doubt we would be compatible lol

[Asker]

hahaha me too

[badboy666]

Pee & poop. Deal breakers. That is about it though.

[badboy666]

Well, OK, read some others, and yes, animals children, extreme pain (like kicked in the balls) would be a no-no too.

[Gommers]

If she really wants to hurt me during sex or if she's trying to get into femdom shit. It's over at that point until she gets her head straight.

[Asker]

what about if she chokes you, i did this once during sex by accident lol but i get you

[Superfreakpr]

If a chick tries to fuck me with a dildo, finger me, or lick my ass it would definitely be a dealbreaker for me😂😂😂

[Asker]

lolllll if a dude asked me to do it i am running!

[Superfreakpr]

Agree you should run and fast!!!😂

[DamnCurtis]

Maybe if she starts commentating every single thought and action like a sports game. Less words.

[Maxemeister]

kicking me in the balls. OUCH!

[Asker]

hahaha lol

[Bastilein]

I dont have one

[Anonymous]

Deal breaker: sadomasochism... I simply don't enjoy that type of sex.

[Asker]

i agreeeeee

[Anonymous]

I don't like dominant guys and anal...

[Anonymous]

Anal is a deal breaker for me.

[Anonymous]

If she wants to stick something in my butt and attempts it against my wishes then we are done.

[Asker]

i fully agree that is a definite

[Anonymous]

No finishing from a blowjob - dealbreaker.

[Asker]

you mean if she wouldn't let you cum in her mouth?

[Opinion Owner]

Like won't let me cum from a blowjob. She wants me to cum inside of her instead. She could pull away last minute (not in mouth) or let it in mouth and spit it out on me. But not getting me off at all that way. Using a blowjob purely to get my dick hard.

[Asker]

but who wouldn't let a guy cum from a blowjob... lol have you met this kind of girl before?

[Opinion Owner]

I date this kind. Last 2 girls want me to cum inside and not from a bj.. Guessing she's concerned from not getting off if I get tired

[Asker]

yeah thats probably their concern thats understandable. but i guess thats why is sometimes a good idea to make sure the girl cums first :)

[Opinion Owner]

I do! Same thing. Wants me to get off with her vaj or have another O. I would love it if she reached over during a movie and say " I want a snack"

[Asker]

lol well if you do the same from time to time she might be inclined to do that as well.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh, I eat that pussy.. no girl ever complains for the lack of pussy eating with me. except those that don't like getting eaten out.

[Asker]

haha word, but i agree switching it up is always a good idea not every time sex has to go the same way and become routine

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, I mean lots to do or experiment. Liking tying up, side position, against the wall, etc

[Anonymous]

I will NEVER try anal. It's supposed to be an exit point, not an entry.

[Asker]

lol i agree but some are really curious about it tho

[Opinion Owner]

My best friend tried it. She said it hurt like a bitch and all she did when we were hanging out was complain her rear hurt. That was enough info for me

[JuicyBrain]

Haha. Well, if you have never run and you decide one day that you are running a marathon, of course, it's going to hurt everywhere and you will regret it. There are ways to make it pleasurable, she just didn't know what she was doing. It's ok if you don't want to try it though.

[Asker]

haha lol i know my friend said the same that it hurt her and they didn't do it for very long. Whereas a guy friend of mine said his girlfriend wanted to do it and he wasn't that into it because he couldnt go all the way in but she seemed to like it.