Guys, does body shape and size really matter?

[PhoenixHeart]

It seems media and society feeds women constantly that their body shape matters when it comes to love, dating, loyalty and faithfulness. Making some of us feel inferior or like we shouldn't even try because we don't posess the coveted pear or hourglass shape. I want to know, is this true? If you are engaged or even dating a woman with a ruler or apple shape, are you more inclined to cheat, fantasize or favor porn over her because of her shape?

[Jay-Are]

Don't read those magazines. They are poison to your mind. And most of all they are written by women. If I wanna know about women I ask a woman. So if you wanna know about men ask a man.

Shape is important and size much less. Scientist were able to find out that just about any size is attractive as long as everything is in proportion. Try and google "Hip Waste ratio" to get a little bit of understanding.

I DJ 4 to 5 times per week in clubs varying from 500 to 1500 people. So I see a lot of interaction. I see the girls that are of bigger frame be just as successful and the girls of smaller frame. What they all have in common is that they are proportional.

I love hourglass figures but if you look at my ex girlfriends you cannot say they all have that. In fact they don't even look like each others. Men might have a desired body type but they are still attracted to other body-types as well.

So don't worry. You are completely date-able.

[micha58]

I have had fun with large (very) and slim women. For me it is about the connection at the mental emotional level. I find most women attractive regardless of shape. Also bbw women are getting a bigger following on porn sites now that slim women. Guys are sick of the media concept as well. Deep down we want someone that loves us. End of story. 8)

[abc3643]

While shape helps, when a woman is holding a man's penis or balls, she becomes the most beautiful woman in the world at that moment.

[psychomonkey]

This was beautifully said

[Anonymous]

Yes shape matters far more than size. But men usually always settle for something less than ideal physically. Most take what they can get. Nothing wrong with fantasizing, girls do it too

[Anonymous]

I just find slim women to be attractive to me as my preference but I don't need to cheat or look st porn much if I'm attracted her