Is it weird to have a kink for pee desperation/relief but want no interaction with the pee itself?

[Anonymous]

So I feel like I've always kinda had this kink where I'm turned on by guys being really deperate to pee, and seeing their relief when they finally get to go. But I've no interest in watersports, I think the idea of drinking pee is really gross, and I've no interest in seeing a guy wet himself except maybe a tiny spurt. I wouldn't even want to play with this really if I had a partner because holding your pee is dangerous and can cause infections. I have heard that full bladder orgasms can be really good though.. I suppose I kind of associate it with edging which I love the idea of Is it weird? Does anyone have the same kink?

[abc3643]

Interesting, but, no, I don't think it's weird and here's why: Peeing and ejaculating are, from an outside perspective, practically the same thing - a fluid is coming out of the tip of a penis. Now, in your subconscious, it may be that his peeing is being interpreted like a prolonged ejaculation and such a long ejaculation would be hot because it is indicative of his virility. The same thing with the need to pee... His need is analogous to the pent up arousal that a man has during sex as it leads to orgasm.

So, in short, his need to pee and his eventual peeing are subconscious surrogates for of an intense sexual arousal and intense ejaculation.

And, yes, edging is basically the same thing with arousal...

[Asker]

Yeah that is it exactly I think :) . Thank-you for taking the time to write that response :)

[abc3643]

Thank you for having such a fantastic fetish! I can't help but wonder now if you'd make a guy drink a lot and then hinder his ability to pee just so you can watch his release! :)

[abc3643]

@Asker If you don't mind my asking, I suspect that you enjoy watching male masturbation. Is that true?

[Asker]

Haha well that would be hot to see, but like I said in my question I'd be worried to because holding your pee is unhealthy and I wouldn't want him to be hurt - it's not like a bdsm thing 'cause I wanna see frustration followed by a strong release, rather than pain. Yeah I like watching male masturbation but only if the guy moans and/or I get to see his face; if I just watch his hand stroking his dick then it doesn't do a lot for me

[abc3643]

I understand completely and I didn't think of the BDSM aspect. What turns you on - what turns a lot of women on - is the sexual buildup a man experiences. It's that sense of his sexual stress and release that is the turn on, not the actual act. We have something of the same thing - I love to see a woman's face as she "enjoys" my services. Her sounds and facial expressions are hot and part of that is because that means I am satisfactorily doing my job.

[Asker]

Yeah that's right; it's the build-up, and his facial expressions, sounds he can't help but make when he's on the edge; and then his relief + how relaxed and good he feels after

[abc3643]

God bless you!

[JamieLoves]

Pee and cum are definitely Not the same thing. They come out if the urethra, but that’s where it ends. There not even close ! Pee is a waste product that’s being eliminated by you body. Cum has spermatozoa in it to fertilize and egg. Doesn’t anyone know basic anatomy on here? What a said world !

[bifus]

I'm the opposite on pee fetishes. Watching people hold it in doesn't excite me but I've peed/been peed on before.

I talked to a guy online who was very into this, he kept asking me if I had to pee and wanted to know all the times I'd ever had to really had to pee but couldn't... I don't get the appeal of this but I don't think it's weird to like it.

[Anonymous]

I have never heard of this. I don't think it's weird as long as you don't do what you described as gross.

[Wgatap999]

I actually think it's incredibly fucking pleasurable and I know it sounds weird to have to go so bad and then finally release Phil's fucking amazing. I had an ax that was actually into triangle and showers and she got really into peeing on my face or in my mouth or on my cock and she absolutely loved to wrap her hand around my cock while I was peeing letting it out cuz I had to go so bad which was pretty nice feeling her pressed up against the back of me holding my cock looking around me to watch

[Gazzoo]

I have a partner who loves cathing herself but hates to have urine touch her skin. It's not that uncommon.

[TJ-Laser]

its pretty weird to be honest...

GAG really does get stranger every day.

[max285]

I don't think it is weird. I think the more extreme stuff can become more attractive with exposure anyways. But for me I can say the desperation thing makes a huge difference in how horny I am or how fast I get off so pro s and cons. Also edging is great and I have paired the two before with fun results.

[badboy666]

It is weird. i. e. unusual. No big deal though.

[napoleonebonaparte]

Not weird at all... I have the same thing... if you want a little chat I'm really open to...
Hope to hear you

[mather80]

i have a kink for watching girls desperate to pee - i love the whole crossing of legs thing, and holding themselves with their have between their legs. But i also fantasize about getting pissed on as well

[NotNotAustin]

Not weird at all :)

[Anonymous]

I love to watch girls being desperate to pee and holding it for very long and watching their facial expressions and desperation. It's really hot when they wet themselves and sigh in relief too. It turns me on a lot. It's not only you.