My boyfriends dad bought him condoms and we aren't even having sex?

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My boyfriend says his dad always talks about sex. A couple weeks ago he brought it up and was like if you need me to buy anything for you I will. My boyfriend was like no we don't have sex so that's not necessary. Which we really don't so I guess he thinks we do. One time my boyfriend made a comment about not wanting to have sex or that he's not ready. We've been together for about 6 months. Plus he told his dad that if he needed anything he would buy it himself and his dad responded well I'm just trying to help out and you need to "wrap your rascal" hahaha. Friday his dad texted him I put your contacts in your bathroom and some condoms too just in case you need them. Is he trying to push sex on us? Or just trying to be careful and promote safe sex? When my boyfriend got home he snap chatted me a picture of them and said something like I wonder if I'll ever even use them then something like I guess we'll find out. So do you think he's ready now? We both are virgins. I think I'm ready.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I think his dad probably assumes you'll both be ready soon and quite possibly won't have planned ahead; as in it will just be spontaneous. So he's making sure you'll be protected. Or possibly he thinks you're already doing stuff but your boyfriend doesn't want to talk to him about it so he's just trying to help you to be responsible while causing as little embarrassment as possible.

Your boyfriend might be ready, I don't know, you can talk to him about that lol

Cmasterson · Accepted Answer

Just being careful because you never know when you might have it unless you plan an actual date etc. Very nice of his dad and he's just looking out for his son and you. A lot of parents fail to provide information about sex and or access to protection, you can't stop your children from having sex, but you can attempt to stop them from getting pregnant/getting someone pregnant!

MadeInAmerica · Accepted Answer

Well you been together for 6 months and your at the age and point in the relationship where if you was having sex it would be pretty frequent. He is just not wanting to hear that you are pregnant anytime soon. He means well.