Finding your friends with benefits on Tinder: Would you swipe left or right?

[Anonymous]

I found my friends with benefits on Tinder. I have no feelings for him in a lovey dovey way and same goes for him. It was still an awkward moment. I didn't swipe left or right. I froze. Snooped around his Instagram. Double clicked on the big ol' button on my iPhone and swiped up so the app would disappear. It did. Swiped a few more times and he came up again. Repeat process lol! Question is, what would you DO?

[Dillion]

Question for you. My neighbor and I were having sex, maybe a friends with benefits kind of thing. Except I was romancing her a bit, taking her out to dinner/drinks, etc. I told her I wanted more and she said she's very busy and I wouldn't be a priority for her. I just took it as she wasn't interested, so stopped talking to her. Anyways, I think about her and fantasize about her occasionally. She's at the bus stop and she pretends not to see me and sometimes she does she me. How can I re-kindle things?

[Asker]

I just say go up to her. Invite her for dinner and talk things over. You've already had sex so the awkwardness should be gone. If she's not interested move on as there are plenty of fish in the sea 😉

[Dillion]

After her, I've been out with some girls and had some sex.. I bumped into her today, or rather walked up to her to say Hi and we started talking (by that I mean she just chats). Her body wasn't pointed toward me but those eyes kept looking at me. My brain totally farted talking to her. I asked if she was busy, she said she's working late. I asked on the train when we got on if she was busy and she said she has no time except the weekends. For some reason it didn't occur to me to ask her to dinner... got off at my stop. Man she looked hot. Anyways, I digress. I should just ask when she's free. What do I say at dinner? "Do you want to be my fuck buddy?"

[meatballs21]

Swipe right, and laugh about it.

[Glue-Sniffer]

I agree 😂

[Asker]

Now I'm really tempted to do this. I have a feeling he's swiped right and he's laughing about it. He's still appearing on there 🙊 Otherwise I have a feeling he wouldn't be on there still, right? I'm new to Tinder but it's kinda funny!

[meatballs21]

You can't skip people on Tinder (or other dating sites with a random match function like POF or OKC), you'll keep getting the same people over and over until you decide one way or another about them.

[Asker]

Yes I know, which is why I closed the app out and it was refreshed. So I know I'll continue seeing him unless I swipe right or left. Or unless he swipes left and disappears!