Is something wrong with me , penis doesn't turn me on help ?

[Anonymous]

I tried sleeping with men but no matter how much penises I see they don't turn me on , I hate touching them , sex feels like a chore it's awful. I feel like rather not have sex at all , I'm not even attracted to men nothing on their bodies do it for me. I have to blank out to have sex and still it doesn't help , I usually think about other women during sex to get me off. I prefer just masturbating and thinking about other women. Is something wrong with me do i need help? I can't even form romantic connections with the men I date I just feel I have to sleep with them because that's what I'm suppose to do not because I want to I'm not even attracted. Help someone please tell me what's wrong

[Gentle1Professor]

Well, what is your body telling you? You are not heterosexual and may have lesbian tendencies. If you are so turned off by a guy then why put yourself through the agony of being with one on a sexual level.

Free up your feelings and desires. You are fantasizing about being with a woman when you masturbate, why not masturbate with one? Its time to get over this confusion and allow yourself to enjoy the pleasures of another woman both emotionally and physically. The experiences that await you are wonderful, normal, and mind blowing. Take the step.

[Mesonfielde]

Clearly you're either a misandrist, or you're homosexual.

[Asker]

So I'm a misandrist for not being into men wow just wow I guess I'm just an awful woman aren't I I already can't control how I feel and god knows how awful I feel for my boyfriend thanks you already made me feel worse than I already do thanks

[Mesonfielde]

Hey, if you don't actually resent or hate men and you're just not attracted to them, then you're probably homosexual! Nothing wrong with that, really.

[Berethor]

You answer your question yourself, you don't like penises and you are masturbating and thinking about other women, you lesbian, there is almost no doubt about that.

[Anonymous]

Maybe you're a lesbian and haven't realized it? There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. ☺️ I watch lesbian porn and girls masturbating and all that because it gets me horny. Watching guys fap, I have to work harder mentally to get horny. Why is this? I'm not sure, but I don't worry about it. I do get very turned on though when my boyfriend and I make out, so I've come to accept that I might be bisexual. No one knows of course 😊 But don't feel ashamed or anything✨

[Asker]

I don't get turned on by lesbian porn , just get turned on thinking about other women like using my own imagination. I never thought I would be a lesbian though

[Opinion Owner]

If the only thing that arouses you is women, then you're a lesbian. I think it's irrelevant whether it's women in your head or women on a screen... Sometimes our bodies surprise us. Or maybe you're just going through a transition right now.

[Asker]

I never liked men so this has been going on all of my life

[Opinion Owner]

Okie. You are a lesbian. Congrats :)

[ElissaDido]

Mmm that's weird... I really can't help because I personally would never see myself getting romantic feelings for other women.. But you sound lesbian to me..

[ekc8295]

Maybe you're just a lesbian.

[lePoivre]

It sounds to me like you're gay.

[JuicyBrain]

I have the exact same problem with men ! I am not into them at all ! 😛
I think that means you are a lesbian. Maybe you should give it a try?

[Asker]

but there are no lesbian bars in my town how do I even start where do I start?

[JuicyBrain]

Maybe grinder might help you? Dating sites? If you connect with lesbians on the internet, they will show you the culture and the spots to look for.

[Asker]

Thank you , I got another question how do I dump my boyfriend? he does not know

[JuicyBrain]

Maybe telling him you are gay is a little harsh even if it's true. You might destroy his confidence. Tell him that you don't really feel in love with him. As much as you tried, you don't feel complete. Something is missing. It's unfair to him to keep going and waste his time when he could be with someone who loves him and who would be ready to build something with him. If he finds out later that you are lesbian and asks why you didn't tell him instead, just tell him the truth. You didn't know yet at the time but you did feel different and you really weren't in love with him and now you both know why. Be gentle. It's not his fault after all...

[Asker]

I feel awful

[JuicyBrain]

Don't. It's nobody's fault. Things happen in life over which we have no control. I am sure that if you could, you would choose to be happy in your current situation. Unfortunately, you can't. Happiness is elsewhere. Reach for it.

[abc3643]

You are likely asexual. There are actually a good number of people like this. Two who are famous are comedienne Paula Poundstone and former US Attorney General Janet Reno.

https://www.asexuality.org/
https://www.apositive.org/

[abc3643]

... however, if girls turn you on, congrats! You're a lesbian!

[AceMacCoy91]

First off, dating and having sexual intercourse with various men does not work, so you may consider discontinuing it. If you are a Christian, church-going woman I would suggest finding an older woman to talk about this problem. If you are not religious, it would be my honor to introduce you to a friend of mine. He has helped me out of all my problems, sexual and otherwise, and I have a pretty good feeling he can help you out too. Please message me if you want to know more.

[Maik567]

you're lesbian.

[JSmuve]

You're a lesbian. Surprise. There, I said it. Go munch some rug.

[Asker]

where do I find other lesbians?

[jjmarvin]

Interesting... to discover you're a lesbian when you're completely uninformed of them

We must document this

[AlwaysBelieving]

You're a lesbian and yes it is allowed (even though it might fall into the "she is, there goes that").

[Noxifer626]

Have you tried dating women?

[Asker]

No not yet

[Noxifer626]

Try. It might answer everything.

[Asker]

how do i find lesbians?

[Noxifer626]

How do you find men?

[Asker]

lesbians aren't easy too find most of the girls I know are straight. So it's not the same way as finding men

[Noxifer626]

If you go to a bar, try with girls. Or just literally wear a shirt that says "I'm a lesbian".

[Asker]

People will beat me up if I wear the shirt

[Noxifer626]

Okay, maybe that was stupid. But you should try to talk to girls.

[Asker]

I have been most of the girls I meet is straight

[Noxifer626]

Then keep asking "Have you ever experimented with another girl?" One of them probably wants to.

[Asker]

But i want romantic dates first , and I only want to be with lesbians , I don't want straight or curious girls

[Noxifer626]

Try a dating app.

[Asker]

got any names of these apps?

[Noxifer626]

Tinder, Grindr, OkCupid. Those are the names I hear the most, but I've never tried them.

[Asker]

thank you

[Anonymous]

Do you like eating cunt?

[Asker]

I have yet to try sir

[Opinion Owner]

You might be a lezbo!

[Asker]

What's it like to eat it sir?

[Opinion Owner]

It's gross.

[Asker]

really that's the same way I feel about penises.

[Opinion Owner]

I hate penises too, I hate people, fuck people, people are shit.

[Asker]

That's good

[Opinion Owner]

jajajajajajajaja.

[Anonymous]

No... you're a lesbian then

[Asker]

But I'm feminine and really girly is this possible

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, of course it is, the sam wway that there are manly gay men

[Asker]

Ohhh I didn't know that

[Opinion Owner]

haha

[Asker]

Please don't laugh at me

[Opinion Owner]

That wasn't meant to be aat you, it was just a lone luagh

[Asker]

Okay