I'm 25 years old and never had sex?

[Anonymous]

I am 25 years old and I am a virgin. I've never been kissed or had had sex. I feel like when people meet me, they can sense that I am less experienced in that area. That makes me very insecure a lot of the time. This is not something I am proud of or hate. I feel very indifferent about this situation. I guess it makes me think that there is something utterly wrong with me. I know that I am not conventionally attractive. I am sort of a late bloomer. It takes me longer to catch on to social things more than others. The truth is that I don't know what I am going to do. I try to be myself and be genuine when I meet and talk to women, but they don't seem to be romantically interested in this "version" of me. The women in my area seem to want a certain type of man, and since I am different from most guys, it puts me at a disadvantage. Especially, since I am slow on social cues, and I am oblivious to whether a woman is even interested in me. I have a lot of issues socially, and because I can't read women well, it makes it hard for me to know whether women are even looking at me as a potential romantic partner. The funny thing is that if a woman was flirting with me, I wouldn't even know she was. I am that clueless! I have absolutely no idea whats going on. I am not slow, or stupid, but socially dealing with the opposite sex puzzles me and makes it hard for me to read the signals correctly. Anyway, I just hope that one day I can experience sex, love and intimacy with a woman I love. If not, then I will have to lose my virginity in an alternative way.

[waves_skylines]

I'm in your situation dude. Online dating can suck, it's not a replacement for in person convos. Whether online or in person, just go talk to girls. I need to follow my own advice too, but I'm having trouble meeting / finding girls to talk to. This is a like a quest that you need to commit to.

As far as being a virgin, just wait it out.

[Jack_S]

Have you tried online dating? main advantage is that you know what the women are looking for in a relationship and you find out if you are suitable quickly.
Downside is the rejection can hit a lot harder

[Anonymous]

oh honey. dont be so hard on yourself. like a guy mentioned online dating would be a great idea! dont forget to be confident and be yourself and pay attention to what women are saying and you will eventually find someone who likes you.

[Prettygurl12]

Dude. Own it. Own your virginity. Don't view it as something that you need to get rid of but view it as something you get to give to someone. Make a careful choice about it. Take no shame in it.

[Skyline2025]

Why don't you ask girls out for dates rather for trying to read signals from them?

[mememellow]

Dude it's okay. You just need confidence.

[BreatheMe19]

There's nothing wrong with that. I'm not sure I see a question here though...

[CapitanMurica]

This was cringing and gut wrenching to read, man oh man we gotta get you laid get an escort and let her blow your mind with her experience.. banging chicks will be so easy after that and be more confident.. Good luck brah

[Anonymous]

it seems to be more common than we think