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Why do non virgin girls seem so disgusting to me?

I dont know what it is maybe im just uncomfortable with sex in general, but the idea of the girl im with letting another man inside her is just disgusting to me. I wouldn't want to marry a girl that has had sex with someone else. I feel like she's taking on the germs of all those guys she has slept with. and those men in some ways are her i dont want emotional baggage. I dont even want to have sex with non virgin girls they seem disgusting to me. I dont know how these celebraties can date these hores and think they are getting the prize they are gross but they can do them and ill do me. I just really seem alone on this and i dont know why im so freaked out by a girl that has had sex with others its normal it just really repulses me i won't seriously consider non virgin girls to date.
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  • I don't think you have a very good grasp on biology. While you have every right to have your own preferences, you're working off falsehoods.
    Let's talk about the 'germs' the girl is 'taking on'. Germs (bacteria, viruses, etc) cover every single surface, and our bodies. They do not stay in the vagina. The only time a girl could, in any way, retain 'germs', is when she contracts an STI, which she can be tested for, and protected from.

    Date who you want, but I really think you should educate yourself on the subject, before judging people based on false information.

    • a hoe fucks a dirty dick she's dirty and takes on all the girls that guy fucked its a very intimate emotional act and i just would feel more comfortable with virgin girls the idea of my girl sucking some else's dick is a nightmare

    • Like I said, your preferences are your preferences, and that's fine. But saying that she's 'dirty' and 'has germs' is just false. You may not like the idea, and that's totally up to you. Calling her a hoe is pretty awful, and calling her dirty is just nasty. You can sleep with and date who you like, but don't condemn others for doing the same thing.

    • your crazy for saying sex isn't an exchange of germs your becoming one with someone else and are letting another person inside your body and saying it doesn't spread germs?

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  • I don't know are you hanging out with the slutty crowd? And you sound like a hypocrite bc it's as if you're implying you've had sex before you just prefer to have sex with virgins. Not so much germs but there's newer studies suggesting male DNA can still be present in a woman after she's had sex, and the genetic materials from a previous sex partner can stay in her body for some years. There's also Microchimerism which I guess can be defined as the same thing but more typically defined if the woman was pregnant but it's the same concept I guess.

  • Do you know what your main problem is? You're seeing a girl as YOURS.

    No, friend. Women are PEOPLE. They are not there for YOUR NEEDS and your needs only. We are our own people and no part of us belongs to you and we don't owe you anything.

    Women are not fucking objects, or a computer where you want certain specs. We're PEOPLE, actual human beings that should do things for ourselves, not for your desires. Have some respect for that.

    • It could be said that women who jump from dick to dick are by their own behaviour objects, sex objects...

    • i agree all I'm saying is i personally don't want a dirty girl i look at people holistically i do bad things i too. I look at dirty girls as people just like me I just wouldn't want to be with one forever.

    • @TheFurstyFerret of course. because we can't do things because we enjoy it. nope. its all about what the men want. seriously starting to lose faith in every single man on the planet.

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  • Well first of all, germs from previous partners don't stay inside her body. Secondly, are you a virgin yourself? Because if you're not, this is a hypocritical question.

    • no I'm not on that bullshit i practice what i believe but yeah i would imagine if the guy has fucked a lot of girls he's dirty and then he gets his germs in the girl and i think girls take on more germs like stds then men because the women is letting someone in her body but who knows I'm just not feeling girls with a lot of sexual partners for some reason

    • I don't get what you said in the beginning... so you're not a virgin? Wouldn't that make you just as gross as you think other non virgins are? Only wanting a virgin partner when you're a virgin (to wait to marriage or for whatever) is fine and totally understandable since you're holding yourself to the same standards. Your idea about the germs is wrong, by the way. They don't stay with you forever and ever.

    • "i think girls take on more germs like stds then men because the women is letting someone in her body" Are you trolling or just a freaking idiot?

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  • You're insecure and sexually inexperienced women intimidate you.

    It's not sexually experienced girls you need to worry about it's those who go jumping from dick to dick or vagina and then choose you to settle down with. Those women are fucking disgusting, not a woman that has sex in loving relationships. They're sound women.

    • Experienced not inexperienced*

    • well like a couple long term relationships fine but i would rather a virgin but what i meant are girls that are loose jumping from dick to dick that just is too much i couldn't have someone like that its disgusting but I'm not intimidated by women that shits just disgusting and i know she won't be loyal

    • Sleeping around has nothing to do with knowing if a girl will be loyal or not. The reason I finding it disgusting is these women are hot beds for STD's and I don't want STD's. Your post makes it seem as though all sexually active women are disgusting and that's not true. A woman that has three long-term relationships and has three partners is not disgusting, she's a good woman who teach me and you a thing or two.

  • I'd urge you to take a fundamentals of biology course. Might clear up some of your misconceptions about those pesky germs.

    • what do you mean are you saying you don't spread a lot of germs through intercouse

    • Anything that involves human contact spreads many a germs. However, as long as neither party has an STD, they will be perfectly clean after sex.

    • I'm sure you share everything you got during sex and physically the girl takes in the guy so the girl gets even more dirty shit in her and i just feel like i want a girl thats just been with me and not fucked a lot of guys it would make me feel more comfortable it would be a nightmare imagining my wife sucking some other guys dick i don't want to control others life but i don't want to sleep around either

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  • U r not alone in this bro!!
    & somehtin else... why the hell all non virgin girls r so shamed about it?

    • why people feel unplesant, ashamed and lie if you ask them about body count? . . because they KNOW (although some of them deny it) that they are doing something fundamentally wrong, bad, immoral, and disgusting. If it was something good, they would be happy to talk about that, but it isn't. . . P. S. i'm not disgusted about sexuality at all. I'm disgusted about immoral, sluty, animal-instinct driven sexuality. . promiscuity is BAD for you and people around you. . young people: don't go that way and don't let society and media trick you that it is good and desirable. . .

  • If you are not a virgin yourself you have no right to bitch about girls who are not virgins. If they are "so dirty" then you are just as dirty. Just sayin

  • Because you think sexuality is "wrong" and "dirty" even though it isn't.

  • Who cares to be honest some girls lost their virginities to the jungle gym or a bike

  • You're just like me!! I get what you mean!! They ARE disgusting

  • Well you better be a virgin yourself.

    • hell no I'm not a virgin I'm a guy it only matters that a girl is a virgin non virgin girls are sloots

    • I'm just kidding yeah i practice what i preach so i would do the same as i asked for with my actions

    • Well that's good. It's still not cool to bash others because they choose different paths.

  • What a second. Are you a virgin hunter? Cause it seems like you are saying you only want to sex with virgins (not virgin which means more than 1 girl)

  • When you're in 20s, basically no one you see that is attractive is virgin unless they choose to be for personal-religious reasons or are very shy.

    • yeah i know thats why I'm attracted to barely anyone so I'm fucked

  • Because they have been with other dudes. Plain and simple.

  • 104755555 . . you're perfectly normal man with healthy thinking in obviously crazy world. Don't let people put you down, because you are absolutely right. IT IS gross, disgusting, bad and immoral. You can see by comments how people are lying to themselves. I'm 100% sure that EVERYONE on this chat is disgusted about that, so you are not alone if you think you are. Just look at comments, instead of giving an argument against your opinion they write some stupid stuff like, "you don't know about biology", "it is your preference", "you think of women as sex objects", "you're insecure and sexually inexperienced", and still no valid argument against your opinion. Do you know why noone wants to talk sincerely and openly about that? Because they know they are WRONG, and truth upsets them. Promiscuity destroys people, marriage, family, children and society in the end. You can see that by just looking around you. . . You can choose if you want to live sweet lie or bitter truth. It is up to you.

  • I know a lot of guys like this, I think it's just the thought of that girl touching another guy that freaks you out, I'm sure eventually it'll fade. Or turn to Christianity. 😁

  • So it's OK for girls to date non Virgin guys? You don't think women don't care where a guy's penis or mouth has been?

    • it doesn't seem to girls want guys that have slept around

    • You need help

    • yeah girls like bad boys that sleep around its like a status symbol no girls want virgin guys

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  • Hopefully, you will eventually have sex and you will see that it's not such a big deal.
    Also, I'd suggest you to stop calling women whores.

    • I've had sex with 74 different girls but i only like virgins so it won't change my opinion

    • Then that makes you a hypocrite. How sad.

    • Im a guy though girls need to remain pure but I'm a guy so i can do whatever i want but seriously though girls who sleep around like me are gross but how am i a hypocrite

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