I'm gonna take a different approach to this:
I don't think it's a domination / territorial thing at all, like the guys are saying. I think it's the physical worship (not really in the submissive sense, but the appreciatory sense) of someone's sexual gratification.
Let me put it this way:
Say you're masturbating and you're the wettest you've ever been in your life, rainstorm conditions (sorry lol). And you're really close to climax and your boyfriend walks in on you. You're nervous as hell because you're thinking "uhhh oh sh*t this was a private moment" and you think he's not gonna know what to do. And then without you having to say a word he goes "keep rubbing yourself" and then jumps on the bed with you, holds you down and your legs open, and then gives you oral sex right there and tells you how hot he thought the sight of you masturbating was. And then after you orgasm, you watch him lick his lips and lick the juices off his and your fingers and legs, and kisses your body.
I know that is like a porno scene right there (even though I feel slightly perverted I got a little bit aroused tbh and I hope I have to diffuse that situation someday lol) but that is exactly my point. If a guy worships your physical form and sexual essence, that makes you feel amazing. It feels great for the ego and it's extremely psychologically arousing. Not in the same way that a kiss is, but when you know your sexual essence is desired and accepted, you feel good.
That's kind of what a facial is. We know it's uncomfortable for the women and a lot of us are concerned with how you feel when we climax. Women are supposed to be a little more reserved about that stuff in society and because of that, we never really know how to feel. Us guys can get kind of nervous about what the girl really wants because we don't know if she feels pressured to keep her image up.
When we give a facial, it's extremely psychologically comforting and actually, it's extremely visually appealing. The appearance of come is kind of appealing because it's associated with so much fun times. So when someone you sexually look up to shows they accept it, it makes for a great visual turn on.
So really, facials are great for all of the above. Or any time you let us come on an erotic part of your body. It totally beats the hell out of coming in a condom or anywhere else you can think of.
God made soap and water for a reason
You will find that some girls will do it, and other's wont. Some girls find it degrading and other find it sexy. There is a fair bit of domination in play I will agree, so I can see why a girl feels it to be degrading. Not only that but the way it portrayed in some pornos is that the guy is the king of sex and the girl is just filth, which is incredibly wrong.
Now on the other hand most guys don't see it that way they are just trying to fulfill a sexual fantasy, and have the up most respect for the female. They just find it arousing.
What you need to ask yourself is " Am I in a respectful relationship with a guy that really loves and care about me?" If the answer is yes, then have at it. Its all in the name of sexual fun, while you at it why don't you fulfill one of your own sexual fantasy.
Tips: take control and jack him off aiming for your closed mouth. this will minimize the chance of getting it into your hair and eyes. if it does get into you eye flush it out with cold water your be good as new.
Hope this helps
-Deathecutioner
Yeah it does seem like that's what the guys want nowadays. Like I've mentioned in my other question, most recent guys I've been with always wants to come in my mouth or around my face.
Not just blowjobs either, most of the guys I've done that with have been having sex with me and they always tell me they're about to come and wanted to come in my mouth.
It can be sexy for me, especially if I'm really into it as well (and the guys is really hot) because I get turned on knowing that I'm making him feel good.
One tip I do have for not getting in the eye is to actually push your tongue on the tip of his **** when he's cumming. Another tips is to let him do that sideways on your mouth so it'll go from left to right and not straight up into your eye area.
But seriously, usually when that's happening I'm so turned on myself I'm not thinking about actual techniques, it's almost just reacting and doing it out of reflex.
Mmmm.. nothing like a good facial..it may seem gross now but if you let go of your thoughts about it and think about how hot he is gonna think you are when you let him do it..It can be very fun and enjoyable for yourself as well, think of it as if you are that hot porno star and you wanna make your man come soo hard it hurts! Let him come on your face, open your mouth and try to get some in there too, let him shoot it wherever he wants, once he is done, lick your lips and show him the come in your mouth and start rubbing some of it from your face , down your neck and onto your nibbles. Very Hot!
Your boyfriend will be very imporessed, and after awhile you will be asking him to do it to you!
Im glad your not dumb like me and thought about your eyes.. I wasn't thinking about it at all.. and it hurt really really bad! we had to use like a bottle of eye drops to get it out but even after that my eyes still itched and they where red :P
if he's good at aiming.. you could just tell him to do it below the eyes to try and lower the risk.
I know my favorite part about the whole experience is watching the guy cum, but if you think its close to your eye and try and close them, or if your not into watching just keep them closed anyways.
have fun!
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I usually have her swallow. But sometimes I go on her face. It’s just a preference. But worrying about keeping it out of your eyes? That’s going to happen. It happens 100% of the time I go on my wife’s face. He’s not going to be okay with you closing your eyes. If he hasn’t drank or smoked it won’t hurt, but if it does, wait until he is completely finished and put visine drops in. All three girls I’ve been with, none have closed their eyes when I went on their faces. Oh and even if he chooses to go on your face, you still need to suck for a minute after he is done. Otherwise it’s uncomfortable for us. There is residual semen that is past our muscle used to push it out that’s why we need you to suck right after. If you see pornos they typically suck it for a second after by sheer muscle memory and habit. The girls know to do that even if their doing one of those where a million guys go on their face.
My boyfriend sometimes likes to do this and I let him. It makes him very happy, like I've totally accepted a part of him. And the come isn't bad for you or anything. So just have a lot of fun with it. But yes, keep it out of your eyes. It does sting, I found out.
If you're worried about your boyfriend missing the target, why not get him to come in your mouth? My boyfriend prefers more if I swallow all his come ;P
Not enough women swallow anymore
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make sure he has good aim lol that's like the only way to keep it out of your eyes and if you do get it in your eyes wash it out asap because it HURTS! A LOT! if you wear contacts you should take the contact out wash out your eye and put loads of eye drops in. a good way to do this is if he's on his knees and your laying down. try not to get it in your hair it's hard to get out lol GOOD LUCK!
Well did he finally get to come all over your face?
It's disrespectful to say the least. If it is not to your taste then by all means decline. It would be hotter if he came in your throat and mouth, not on your damn face, that's so unromantic!
Oh wow, aren't you just Captain Romantic! Be quiet dude, and let us real men glaze our ladies chin's.
If by real men, you mean real turdmonkies, I will gladly oblige.
And it's monkeys isn't it.
It's a sense of dominating. Men are territorial creatures, and this is a way of showing your ours. So it's sort of like marking our territory.
Kind of silly, but true.
try it you only live once have fun try new things and if you like and trust this guy be adventures and try new things maybe you'll end up liking it
I occasionally did this with a few ex-es. It was a playful thing. I do not think it is high on the list of what most women want, but many have no problem with it. My ex-wife and I had a routine where when I was ready I would tell her to stick out her tongue. I liked this because it was kind of a combination, where most cum got on her face, but some still went in her mouth, which I prefer. It is definitely something where the man should give the woman a cue just beforehand so she can close her eyes, for example. Some women seem to like to see and feel a lot of cum - it shows a strong bond and is in a certain way an achievement. My current wife does not like to get cummed on a lot, but if she does not see a lot come out, she does not like that either (she associates that with my cumming without her beforehand.)
Yes its fun and very common.
Although my ethics, concerning sex, are liberal at best. This thing I find degrading. However for some guys its a fetish, makes them feel superior and in control.
Ppl like you sometimes look to much into it sometimes its just a fetish fantasy and the fact there girl is being adventures and fulfilling sex fantasies is a huge turn on not about being more dominant over your women
I'm a Psyc major, its a turn on because of the dominance issue. You don't think about being dominate you just have behaviors that show that.
guys like it because its a turn on and some girls like it to best advice to not get in your eyes is to close yours eyes
Much more sexy if she looks at me directly in my eyes and swallows with that lustful look in her face...it's the hottest thing ever.
because it reminds them of a pornstar. he probably watched porn alot
this has been requested a few times ;) but I haven't tried. this seems to be a much more common sex act now. but pornos don't make this look very sexy to me - but some girls here seem to like it. I would think good aim by him is the best prevention of keeping it out of the eyes - I think he should shoot for the cheeks and lips. glasses? ? I suppose. but then again, I haven't tried this. maybe more girls/guys with this sexual experience will respond.
Worrying about your eyes really depends on how your partner cums. If they just trickle or they may be a sprayer, just try it somewhere else first and you can determine how to instruct or guide him yourself. I have a crazy waterhose ejaculation, so it doesn't matter where I aim after sex, I will hit belly, breasts, face, wall four foot behind. But I also have very clear semen that has very little taste (and it has always been relayed back to me it tastes great) and doesn't stick to skin in any unpleasant way. If you find it turns you on a lot more that you thought it would, try to leave the cum there and keep playing. One of my favorite things to do is completely drench someone who is really excited for what is coming and then almost immediately go right back inside them until they cum as many times as they can and until I cum again.
It's totally popular due to pornos. It's not as much fun for the girl because you have to keep your eyes closed and then you are a mess but if it really turns my guy on, then it is fun.
It probably always is a little dominant and macho, but I think it can also show a high level or desire by a woman for a man to want his come that is flattering. Its "dirty" so that's a turn on. Honestly its fun to aim and shoot and your making a big mess you can see while moaning and having this intense orgasm. it does look kinda sexy. I am sure porn has made this more common. Its not a big deal to me but I am not gonna lie I like it sometimes and its hard to explain why this is enjoyable its just a guy thing. I think whether its degrading or just part of a loving respectful relationsip depends on the context it happens in
I think guys like the visual of seeing it on our faces. I've done it a few times - no harm no foul. For me, its okay, but the guys think its awesome. it won't go in eyes if you don't let it- just warn him to aim right or else it will never happen again;) just make sure his d*** is pointed at your cheeks/chin below your eyes.
I have only done this with two guys so far - the first time was a few years ago when I was 14. my current boyfriend loves this. He says he loves the visual. And I can see why. WE did it in front of a mirror once - very sexy. Its not degrading as some would say/think. if you don't have a problem with come in general, then it will be fine. Just close your eyes and stick your tongue out.
Thank you for not seeing it as degrading, I'm glad someone understands (see my reply above)
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