Threesomes and NSA sex are fun but I can only do them with people I have zero feelings for. I am completely selfish when it comes to someone I love or care deeply for. Perhaps, if our relationship evolved into it and we both trusted each other immensely and identified boundaries then I would consider sharing him or sharing myself. It would take time to get there though and you'd definitely want to make sure both parties knew the risks involved and if they could truly handle it afterwards.
So you're saying it't not something you will likely do while you're in a relationship?
@CheerGirl38139 I wouldn't say thats entirely accurate. I am not against marrying the good girl/bad girl in my relationship. Honestly I see myself in my current relationship forever so I'd love to be able to do this with him as a way to enhance our forever relationship. It would just take a minute to square everything up. He may not be ready to see me in that light yet.
makes sense. Do you think he could eventually handle seeing you with him and another guy?
This just seems odd to me in practice. Do you just ask mutual friends? What are the boundaries? How do you have a normal interaction with the third person after that? I think it can be hot fantasy wise (read: 'wild things')... and horribly messy and awkward in real life.
Nope. To each their own, but it's not something that I personally would ever be comfortable with.
I'll do at least once to satisfy my double penetration curiosity.
Right! I'm nervous. But excited at the same time lol
I mean, you haven't lived until you've had two dicks at once, right? 😂
EXACTLY. Though I'll settle for one right now lol
Yeah, been there. Pretty fun.
Would I do it with a girl I had feelings for? I REALLY doubt it. I'm a selfish bastard, I don't even want to share her with another girl (despite the hotness factor).
No i am not sharing my girl Hannah I actually dont think she would want to do it she would likely say "No sex is for my SO only hannah is vip! and there is only one pass"
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If YOU desire it, and he desires it (not just whatever guy who you are with wants it), AND you are NOT in love with the person, AND they are not a blood relative, and NEITHER of you is at all possessive or the jealous type, AND you have no psychological or problematic sexual history that is the key motivator, nor would prevent you from fully enjoying it without reservation or guilt... then yes, by all means, if you want to, go for it.
Remember that unlike equilateral triangles, humans can never truly be equal in their makeup or feelings. Not only that, but they conceal and omit many of the things they think. And if a 33% split is what you're looking for, it's unlikely to happen.
Pick your partners very, very carefully, and be flexible and adaptable to whatever may happen. The novelty and unpredictability are two of the main enticements.
If you can say yes to all of these variables... it can be fabulous. So much fun. I highly recommend it. But it's certainly not for everyone. Egos are fragile things, just remember that.
Sure, I've had a number of threesomes.
Damn i wanna try one at least once with nsa though, how do you come across the opportunity? You say you've done it more than once?
@thisdudejimmy A few were with people I met on online dating/hook-up sites. A few were with friends (I happen to hang out with a lot of sexually open-minded people).
Damn... hey i have an idea lets hangout ;)
I have had one with my ex fuck buddie and best friend. All three of us are still friends to this day and its not weird.
your friend girl or boy?
Girl
Did you jealous of your friends?
I am in an awesome relationship right now, for years... and we are soul mates, sex is incredible, and we talk about everything. The idea of adding another person to the mix is exciting to both of us... as a fantasy, but how to do that in real life and avoid complications? We both question that. If you are going to do something like this, its really important to understand who, and how, boundaries, etc.
Part of me might be turned on to see her with another man, but then a part of me would likely be bothered by that as well. I would love to see her with another woman... but who? If it was someone we knew - it would be... weird in real life, afterward. And she is not really into women... but admits she might be in the right situation?
Obviously I would be turned on to see her with another attractive woman, the idea is hot, but what would it really be like? I guess maybe one day, with a stranger as a one time thing, in the right circumstances we might try it. But both of us love each other and we don't want anything to damage our relationship - and quite frankly we have such a great time sexually, we don't need to seek multiple partners.
Its a fun fantasy to think about but actually doing it... I would say its not for everyone, and be very careful about what it means to your relationship. Its an individual thing, some couples are obsessed with the idea and are bound to do it eventually, some would NEVER consider it, and some are sort of curious and maybe open to it, but with a lot of questions. One thing is for sure, there is a big difference between fantasy and reality, and people need to understand that.
I'd have a 3some FFM or MMF
with whom?
I was willing to have a threesome once for a guy that I cared about
Exactly what you shouldn't do... huge chance he will far for the other girl... thats why you'd have to do it with NSA people
No, I wouldn't regardless of how "awesome" it may be.
Hell yeah, I'm sure most guys have too. Like 90%
No. Way to weird.
I want to have a threesome one day. FFM.
I never would, no. Don't want it, don't need it, not at all interested.
Maybe, never say never.
But never while in a relationship though.
F-F-F... in my dreams.
I would with two girls or me a girl and another guy
I've done one twice. I lost my virginity in a three way
I couldn't do one whilst in a relationship or with a couple in a relationship
I've done it a few times. It's fun, but it destroys relationships.
I always thought that
I've had one already
How did that arise?
MFF yes.
MMF no.
I've dumped a few women who have had threesomes
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