Is it a turn off when a woman takes a long time to cumn? And how much does it really turn a guy on when a girl does cumn?

[Anonymous]

The only way I can get off during sex is if I play with my clit while he's on top of me. Sometimes it can take me a while and I start to feel self conscience because I feel like I'm killing the mood and that I'm a turn off for taking so long. Do guys even care how long it takes us? And how much of a turn on is it when you finally make a woman cumn? Is it worth however long it takes?

[AustinMan]

Her cumming is a huge turn on, particularly if I can put her on the multiple orgasm ride. I esp love squirters.

As for cumming, take a look at this?

Cowgirl tips
Here’s the way I have found, with the help of a very cooperative girlfriend, that a woman can ride her man all the way up the mountain to multiple, increasing powerful orgasms and ultimately, squirting.
• He needs to understand that he can help with this position by grabbing her hips and helping her move. At first, leave to her own devices but as she gets more and more aroused, he should become stronger and more and more forceful in moving her back and forth.
• Put him on his back and mount up with you on your knees.
• Slide him in and settle in so you’re comfortable.
• Rock like you’re riding a horse, slowly at first and faster as you get more aroused.
• When you’re ready for him to help, reach down and put his hands on your hips. For effect, you can beg him in your sexy slut voice to help you.
• When you start to get close to cumming, move like you’re trying your best to break that thing off. Of course, you won’t but the point is to not hold back. Just go crazy.
• When you’re right on the edge, tell him to do you. He thrusts up as powerfully as he can and holds it with you impaled as deeply on his cock as possible, perched on his erection. He also forcefully tilts his hips and slams his shaft into your G-spot.
• As you cum, don’t even slow down. Keep going and you will cum over and over, each time increasingly intense.
• If you have The Big One, as I call it, you may very likely squirt so if there’s a gush, it’s not urine. It’s female ejaculate. Keep going until you’re completely done.
Here are a few ancillary suggestions:
• Pee first so that if you should squirt, you can be confident it’s not pee.
• If you’re into S&M, have him forcefully pinch your nipples as you’re starting to cum.
• He can slap your tits around if you’re into that. One girlfriend of mine liked to be slapped while she was up there with me telling her what a trashy slut she was for being up there in the first place.
• Some ladies like their men to reach around and smack their ass while they ride.

[knotuptoit]

you may be like a majority of other women and not be wired for vaginal orgasms. you may also be a slow starter meaning you require a lot of stimulation or foreplay to get the brain to realize that you are having sex and realize that "i need an orgasm there brain". by the way the brain IS your largest sex organ. some women can only have orgasms with oral stimulation and in some cases they never ever experience an orgasm in their entire life. some women only have orgasms when a large amount of pressure from the vagina being stretched tight at the g-spot. the woman that experiences multiple or sequential orgasms is actually the exception and not the rule they comprise only a small part of the number of orgasmic women. about the same percentage are anorgasmic or never have orgasms. yes men feel a sense of accomplishment when they bring a woman to orgasm especially if it is with their penis. but if a man is truly interested in pleasuring a woman and less concerned with getting his own nuts off he will do whatever it takes to insure that the woman he is having sex with receives the best, strongest, longest lasting orgasm he can bring her to. that way she will come back to him over and over again.
i have been with one woman that didn't orgasm no matter what i did. i was disappointed to say the least but she admitted years later that she never had an orgasm with a human partner and then it only happened once in her life and probably never will again. i don't feel sorry for her, just sad that her body just wasn't designed for that sensation. personally i don't mind doing what it takes to get a gal off the gang plank and get her to the BIG "O"

[Jack_S]

Nope, not at all. As long as you are still enjoying yourself, most men will grind away the night.

[i1T2daty]

When a girl comes it is the single biggest turn on their is. Perhaps just behind her coming again and again after.

[samsw]

you have nothing to worry about... it doesn't matter how long it takes you to cum.
as long as you're both enjoying all the experience and believe me he'll love the fact that you are'playing' with yourself.

[MindIrae]

In all honesty men don't care about whether the girl orgasms or not. as long as we ejaculate we can roll over and sleep almost immediately. its pretty amazing

[SpeakinCLouds]

my girlfriend cums very hard too but depends how much you love a person. If you love her a lot it will be an art making her cum so I guees it shouldn't be a turn off.

[larry69]

Yes its wort it and I love a woman rubbng her clit whike riding me. I also love period se

[Dragan]

Both sexes should enjoy sex, both genders should have orgasm. Women always need more time than men. No matter how much time is required, woman should have orgasm, and yes is big turn on when she have orgasm.

[SlightlyCrazy]

Always worth it my dear.

[Lukeee]

No? It's great, gives me something to work for

[MisterDude007]

What does it take for u to cum and how long.. it's my goal everytime to make her cum... we just want to please u

[Rickyg78]

It's worth it

[Anonymous]

No, The Longer You Take The Better!
Huge Turn On!
Sometimes I Take Longer Than My Wife To Cum, She Loves It When I Take A While!

[Anonymous]

As long as you're going, right?

[Anonymous]

I am apathetic about the female orgasm.