So women liking dad bod's or skinny guys is all BS?

From tinder studies which took a wide selection of women of all different background.
https://www.girlsaskguys.com/sexual-behavior/a22977-girls-on-tinder-do-smash-a-lot

They all found the following attractive:Muscular, well-endowed relaxed and (surprise!)

So women liking dad bod's or skinny guys is all BS ?

So your probably asking why is it women then say they are turned off by muscular guys all the time, and say they like DAD bods, or skinny guys, or chubby guys.

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So women liking dad bod's or skinny guys is all BS?


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So women liking dad bod's or skinny guys is all BS?

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So women liking dad bod's or skinny guys is all BS?


Question: Why do women say their physically attracted to one thing but go for the complete opposite (even if it's behind their boyfriend backs) ?

Well after coming across this Question of a guy who works out and is muscular from gym fucking a girl's boyfriend

My theory to my own question is as followed:

Women secretly are attracted to muscular, handsome guys who appear very masculine. It's ingrained in their Biology. They however know these guys have multiple girls going after them and unless they are top shelf have 0 chance of locking this guy down as a stable boyfriend. At best they can hope for is to be the guy cum dumpster.

So women say they like skinny guys, dad bod's, fat guys because:

1) it helps make them look less shallow than men (women are all about appearance and what people think about them). It's no different than girls still continue to preach about how personality is so important.

2) It's a way for them to convince themselves (kind of like talking in a mirror over and over) to forcefully find these kind of guys attractive because these are the guys who would actually commit to them for LTR in general/BF. Think about tinder/casual hookups it's the guy in first pic women go for 8/10 times, not any of the guys in pics 2),3) or 4).

3) It helps make these guys in LTR feel assured that women who are in relationship with them finds them very sexual attracted, and are not just settling for them because they couldn't get the hot guy. I think most women have seen the effect of spitting in a guy's face and acting like your better than him, only for when they get old, to look for these same guys to wife them up. (No shooting yourself in the leg).

4) Similar to how a little kid who plays pokemon, and loses then shrieks "I don't even like pokemon anymore". Women say this to get back at muscular/masculine guys for not committing to them, by trying to hit their ego by saying they are not attractive.

You can bet your bottom dollar though that women though will sleep with these guys behind the dad bod, skinny guy, or fat guy's back if given the chance.
Updates:
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Found the bb who is smashing out the girlfriend of guy who goes to night school and work to support his family:
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1771358-smashed-a-girl-with-a-boyfriend-of-9-years-a-kid-gag-please-get-me
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  • I wouldn't say it's BS. Averages are just that, averages. Sure plenty of women out there do like muscular guys, but there are also plenty of women out there who don't, me being one of them. I personally have a preference for skinny guys with little to no muscle and I know plenty of other women who feel the same way, and plenty who like the dad bods or slightly chubbier guys. There are so many people in the world who like all sorts of different things, anyone concerned with not being the ideal in a tinder poll should know that they are still the ideal in someone's eyes.

  • I'm sorry but I really don't like skinny guys or fat/"dad bod" guys at all 😖
    I work for my body A LOT so I think it's only fair to expect my partner to do the same.

  • I like skinny guys, like I’m very attracted to them... but just because they’re thin doesn’t mean they’re not masculine.

    • What if they are not masculine at all

    • Depends on what you deem masculine. I’m not into muscly, hair or brooding guys. So I don’t mean an alpha male. I just mean being thin doesn’t make you feminine, so it wouldn’t be a worry of any guys. Honestly somebody who is funny and kind is the perfect combination, body matters less than personality.

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  • As a skinny guy I couldn't care less what women like? I am what I am and if women have a problem with that, that's on them.

  • Personality doesn't matter on Tinder because the whole point of it has devolved into getting easy on night stands. If that's your goal then looks might as well be the only men and women care about. But there are plenty of women who are looking for more than cheap sex. This whole obsession with Tinder studies is pseudoscience to justify resentment for women. It's an excuse to remain a victim.

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  • I'm 54Yo Male and in very good shape and I get compliments all the time from 20 something girls

  • Instead of being overly concerned about muscularity/dad bod or skinny guy , why won't you test the results on yourself? Get bigger and more muscular, cut down a little to see those abs. Depends on your height but 180 lbs at 10% at 6'0-6'2 is just about right. For my height about 160 lbs at 10% is just right. Women might recognize the raw, primal appeal in a muscular guy, but if his actions do not back up his physique, he is as lame as a dad bod or a skinny guy. So looks get in you in the door, but your personality does the talking. And online dating heavily favors the good looking, genetically blessed males.

  • I don’t care about a guy’s body type, but I want him to at least put in effort. I consume so much protein that I’m constantly farting - in private, where it’s funny, and in public, where it’s funny but a little embarrassing. I do that for the sake of fitness. My diet keeps my belly tight, but it keeps gas flowing out of both ends constantly, whether I want it to or not. I make sacrifices for fitness. The least a guy could do, then, is a couple of bicep curls every now and then.

  • I'm not a cheater, and I feel like every single one of those body types are attractive