How long should you wait to cuddle with a guy?

[Anonymous]

Sex is OUT of the question. Say you just meet a guy , how long should you wait for cuddling? And how long should you talk to a guy before you make it official?

[waves_skylines]

Cuddling is plenty intimate. It's the right time when you both want to snuggle, and you know enough about the other person to be sure you like them and trust them. I don't think it's more complicated than that. As far as teasing / cuddling leading to sex, consider having a talk with your guy and let him know you're not ready for that. It shouldn't be an issue. I never thought of it as a prelude to sex, but I guess when you're older it means something different.

[Pat8707]

Whenever the chance arises, it's just like a really big long hug. People hug each other all the time, even when they aren't in a relationship. Whenever you go over each other's house or something is the perfect time to cuddle. By the time the relationship progresses to inviting each other over, it is totally acceptable to cuddle.

[Anonymous]

I cuddled with my crush who is now my friends with benefits. Very slippery slope! If you're actually talking/dating then whenever you're comfortable lol it doesn't always lead to more but ya know, contact can make other enotions come out as cuddling is very intimate in itself.

[ElissaDido]

I don't know, never been in a relationship, maybe like, a couple of weeks after being together?

[waves_skylines]

@ElissaDido How about a number if dates? Like 4-6 dates. I've never been in relationship either, but a couple weeks could be a long or short time, with few or many dates.

[ElissaDido]

@waves_skylines yeH true I agree, I think it depends on the number of the dates, maybe the 5th something like that 😁

[waves_skylines]

Sounds good

[Lyndsielee666]

I cuddled with my boyfriend the first day we hung out 0_0
When you know you know. lmfao

[HeGotMe]

Cuddling is an indication that sex is in the table. If it's not, don't cuddle at all.

[yeah_baby]

Yes i agree. I love women at your age btw:)

[HeGotMe]

@yeah_baby thanks:)

[yeah_baby]

You are very welcome:) So could you message me? i am xper1 so i can't message :D

[HeGotMe]

@yeah_baby no I'm sorry I cannot, I'm expert 1 also

[yeah_baby]

Hey you are xper2 now:))

[ShayanMortazavi1]

Netflix and chill

[Anonymous]

Cuddling = potential boner

[Anonymous]

honestly, I think cuddling should wait until you're ready for sex. weather or not you get horny from it, he definitely will. so, it's kind of unintentional teasing

[waves_skylines]

It depends on the guy.

[Opinion Owner]

@waves_skylines if ever you cuddle with a woman and don't get at all horny take that as a sign you're not really into her and/or you're gay.

[waves_skylines]

Well, that was harsh, but I can honestly say that I try to keep my feelings and my sexual feelings separate so that I remain objective. Maybe I would get horny, maybe I would be able to control myself. Either way, I would just try to enjoy the intimate moment.

[waves_skylines]

Unfortunately, I've had a very long time to think about what really matters - sex or love.