How can I tell him that I want to give him a blowjob?

I really like this guy he dosn't know I like him I didn't tell him and I want to give him a blowjob so badly I want to please him but I'm afraid of rejection and I don't want to risk loosing him and seeing me as a creepy horny girl I want to hint him and then see his reaction towords it if it's good then I'll be forward and tell him let's do it. How can I say it as a joke without seeming very forward about it.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Be flirty with him, if he responds maybe start rubbing his inner thigh toward his crotch, see if you feel him get hard, then just ask him if he wants one. If he doesn't respond he might just be too shy, try advancing until he stops you. He will say no at some point if he doesn't want it, otherwise keep proceeding, I know some guys can be super shy, they would really want a blowjob but dont know how to ask for it, so unless he stops you pretty much take it into your own hands and keep escalating until you unzip him, take it out and start sucking. If you're still unsure maybe ask him as your unzipping him if he likes it.

  • Get him to ask you out for a date. Do you know how to do that?

    Towards the end of the date, tell him, "I know some guys expect to have sex on a first date and I'm really not that kind of girl, but if you need some relief, I could help you with a hand job. . . or a blow job if you'd really rather have that."

Most Helpful Girls

  • you can just go straight to the point.
    or you may ask for help. guys love to help!
    I would like you to help me with something. I feel unsecure about my blowjob skills. would you mind helping me?
    something like that.

    • Oh that would be a huge turn on if a girl ever said that to me...

    • @Joelmiller you all like to help :) and we love your teaching

    • Just hear to help you ladies have fun and keep it simple ! Guys are very simple humans it's crazy how simple we really are :)

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  • Why do you wanna put yourself in this situation.
    Start dating him and make sure that he likes you to.
    Don t you want the feelings to be reciprocated. Or else you ll just feel used.

  • You don't have to tell him, just make your move. Kiss each other passionately and get all turned on, then go down on him. It's usually sexier that way.

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  • Don't go down on him unless he's into you. That's not smart.

  • No guy ever turned down a BJ! At least from me!

  • Well maybe he don't have an problem with creepy horny girls what would to suck his dick without even being in relationship with him. You can ask him if he likes blowjob and if he say yes, then you can offer him one, and you can say it in "joking" manner.

  • He doesn't know you like him? As in you two are not together or anything? If that is the case, then I'd avoid making sexual advances.

    • But of his reaction was good then he'll think about it I guess and that's a good start. I don't know...

  • Just grab his dick and suck it

  • "I want to suck you d*ck.. NOT... Or do I? Hehehehe ;)"

  • You just tell him. Or nuzzle his crotch with your face making weird slurping sounds.

  • Wait till after work and ask him if he would like to have a drink with you sometime :) if he says yes then You know he likes you then while you are sitting together tell him how bad you have been thinking of giving him a bj !

  • Is easy tell him that you love him.

  • Just slowly slide your hand down his pants and see how he reacts. Saying sorry will get you out of a lot of situations if things go bad

  • Say it out loud with other friends present. It will seem like a joke, but watch his face and you'll know whether he wants it. Prediction: he will want it very very much!