When I married my wife, she wore a size 44J bra. I did not think they were too large. (I'm not sure I even thought they were 'large'... I just really liked them. It's kind of like going to Starbuck's and always ordering a Venti coffee. Large loses it's meaning as a relative term when it's the only choice you make.) I'm one of those few guys that doesn't have an upper boundary on boob size.
Now for the "yeah buts".
Yeah but they're saggy... - I prefer saggy. Yeah but they have huge areolas... - I like them that way. Yeah but the nipples point to the ground... - totally cool with that. Yeah but what about stretch marks? - What about them? Yeah but what if they're not the same size? - No boobs are ever the same size. Your point? Yeah but what if they show veins. - I hope they do. Yeah but what if they're bouncing all over the place during sex? - That's what dreams are made of.
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Asker
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If you had to pick an ideal size what would it be?
Asker
+1 y
And do you prefer women who are bigger in general?
gray_sailor
+1 y
Yes, I do like larger women. My wife was a BBW when we met, since then she has lost 175 lbs. Consequently, she has lost mass in her breasts. She now wears a 36G cup. Still quite large by any standard. Yet they are entirely proportional to her body. That's part of the reason that I have to laugh at the idea that D cups are large. My wifes boobs changed in size by the amount of a D cup. That's the rounding error, not the absolute size. Remember that I said that I like saggy breasts. The amount of sag is not specifically determined by cup size. What do I like in a pair of boobs then? - I like the smallest dimension to be the point of attachment to the chest wall. This would yield a tear drop shape. - I like the breast to hang down about as low as the woman's elbow when her arm is relaxed at her side. (People talk of cleavage & side boob... I like a breast to have "under boob" as well.) - I am indifferent to nipple placement. Pointed straight down is fine. [continued]
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gray_sailor
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Given the previous discussion, the concept of an ideal cup size doesn't really apply. I could show you women that I find equally attractive across a range of cup sizes from an E cup all the way out to an M cup. Go figure.
Asker
+1 y
But its definitely very large that you like.
gray_sailor
+1 y
Tear drop shaped and saggy across a range of sizes that are proportionate to the woman they belong to such that on given particular woman they appear large. How this works out on a woman that is petite and 4 foot 10 is going to be different than on a woman that is 6 foot tall and thick in her build. If I were talking to a skilled sketch artist, they could put together a common build that would scale across women of different sizes. The answer is not simple to give. Mostly, I don't try.
MrOracleInfluencer
+1 y
While they aren't "too big" in that I couldn't be interested in the girls, they are definitely bigger than I'd prefer and they would be distracting.
Yes, lots of guys are interested (almost certainly lots of YOUNGER guys, for whom "bigger/more is better" is a simple concept that they understand - lacking experience enough to know that this isn't always true), but most guys wouldn't choose a girlfriend with such big boobs. They might want to have sex with these girls once - just for the novelty value - but most guys wouldn't want such huge boobs on their girlfriend that they were with all the time.
Many guys FANTASIZE about huge boobs, but fantasizes are "safe" - just like pretending to be James Bond is fun, but in real life, James Bond would have a very short life expectancy, and his lifestyle would be massively stressful.
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Asker
+1 y
It just makes me, someone who's barely a B cup, feel like I'll never actually live up to a guys desires without huge boobs.
MrOracle
+1 y
Again, even most of the guys who are fascinated by huge boobs like these would only want these girls for JUST SEX. Do you want to be used just for sex? Most guys would prefer that the girl they actually date is closer to the average in size, and you're well within that range, so you'll be attractive to the largest amount of men who are interested in a relationship. Sure, you might not "do it" for the guys who really love big boobs, but those are maybe 15% of guys (and that number decreases as guys get older and more experienced). Most guys would be perfectly happy with your "barely B's."
IMHO, absolutely. Anything over DD is a bit gross in my eyes but I'm in the huge minority.
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ShadowStaffXper 5
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I'd say the 1st is fine, the rest are pushing it. I feel sorry for their backs lol. For me anything bigger than DD is too big, and even DD is only right on the right women.
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Asker
+1 y
1st is a lot bigger than a DD..
CurmudgeonMaster
+1 y
I LIKE big boobs, but those are just freaky. It's not the absolute size that matters, but proportion to frame.
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BerethorMaster
+1 y
Yes there a such thing, and those guys can't still say no after they would see Mayra Hills. :)
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