When people think your gay, when your not

[Anonymous]

Ok, this is how f***ed up my life is rite now. 1) I like this girl but been too shy to talk to her and people know I like her and they think since I have not talk to her then I must be gay. 2) one of my friends found Adam Lambert "What do you want from me" on my mp4.I did not know he was gay until after I already put it on there. 3)People have not been seeing me with too much girls lately and I have had a bad relationship with a lot of girls in the school. These are all the reason people now think I am gay, how can I convince them otherwise.

[ddudleya]

You don't need to convince sh*t! If you know your not gay then you shouldn't take in bull crap from people who still haven't grown up enough. I have been called gay all the time just because some people didn't like me. Who cares if you get called that. Its not like you are going to turn gay just because they are calling you it am I right? I am guessing your still in high school or grades lower and let me tell you that hell hole only last for so long. Your always could to be called stuff in school. Face it some people just enjoy spreading stuff until they feel good about themselves. They want to spread stuff about others so they aren't getting called stuff like you are being. If you give in you are just giving them what they want. If they start to talk sh*t to you again about this stuff just be silent and walk away so they look like an idiot. You can't change a person mind like your trying to do. It is like me trying to convince you that gravity is not what keeps us on the ground, but glue. Stupid is it not? So just be silent and walk away. It is not worth the energy to talk to low lives. Also get the girl! Talk to her the next chance you get.

[The_Box]

Who cares? It's not like you're actually gay. You don't need to prove anything.

[Anonymous]

ok so there is a pretty GOOD chance that this girl you like also likes you back-not even joking, its how girls think. delete the adam lambert song or make a specail playlist for gay songs like that and name it ur sisters playlist or something.

this is what you need to do to get the girl: take care of yourself. get a new haircut, shower, put on deodorant and cologne(not too strong). wear hot clothes, brush ur teeth, wash your face, etc and just go up and talk to the girl. don't be rude or a jerk. just say hey what's up...blah blah blah I saw you in this class, blah blah blah. don't call her hot or sexy--she will figure out that ur just a stupid player. be nice. tell her you like her shoes or something.dont be gay and say you like her purse. comment her on something she can comment you back on (earrings, shoes, backpack, etc).

Then, you have the girl, your friends don't think you're gay, and you don't have to worry about adam lambert songs showing up! :D good luck!

[Asker]

Wait what do you mean that's how girls think and why would I make a special play list for gay songs when I am not even gay. 0_0 THATS WHAT I am talking about.

[Opinion Owner]

Um girls don't have any gay lists of songs-those are considered girly songs anyway.n no I'm talking about "ok so there is a pretty GOOD chance that this girl you like also likes you back-not even joking, its how girls think". if you like her, she prob likes you too!

[cadbury]

You don't have to prove anything to anyone. Like one of the other responses, high school is a cruel and stupid microcosm and has no bearing on what your life will be like when you leave it. Listening to or liking Adam Lambert doesn't make you gay, it makes you a person with diverse musical taste. You'd probably be surprised to know how many artists you--and your teasers--listen to are either quietly gay or bisexual.

It can be very frustrating when you know who you are and can't make the rest of the world see it. Definitely let the girl know you like her, though. Even if she's not interested, girls like to know that they are liked, and hopefully she will be kind to you either way. Good luck.

[Anonymous]

All I have to say is, if you want to gain respect and not have people think you're gay, what you want to stay away from is being an overt pig.

Not that you are.

But I have a friend who seems to be in the same situation.

And the way he thinks he's proving people wrong, is by being overly masculine, talking about sex all the time, and beign a complete jerk to girls. Don't do it, it's a bad move.

Just make sure you sure a sincere interest in girls.

A sweet side is the furthest thing from gay. :D

[Anonymous]

I actually really like Adam lambert but I am a punkish girl so that might have somthing to do with it but I don't see anything wrong with it. I listen to pretty much everything so you should listen to whatever you want.

[Jocko]

Once you finish HS you realize how stupid it is. Now there isn't a single person that hasn't been picked on or called gay throughout those 4 years. The more you sit there and say but I'm not gay the more there going to call you gay. That's how name calling works the more it bothers you the more it happens. You can't convince them otherwise, it bothers you and they know it so even if you prove your 'straightness' theyll just call you something else.

[ambermarie]

True that dude

[MrWizard]

I found school much easier once I quit caring what other people thought about me.

Once you get over that, go ask this gal to grab coffee or something. Best case: she says yes. Worst case: she says no and people will drop the gay thing since you tried. Win-win.

[xingyi_fighter]

start acting like a man, simple. act masculine, start doing weights, start taking up sports, be more aggressive, ask girls out, and never be seen with your hand floppy or wearing pink.

[KINGZERO]

Whoa man,having Adam Lambert on your playlist is pretty gay. Anyway don't worry about trying to prove your heterosexual nature to people,if you try too hard then they may think you are gay even more. There's no way to prove to people you aren't gay because they are going to think whatever they want to anyway. But probably the best way to prove it is to tap one of the hottest girls you can get,make them jealous that you got what they couldn't and make sure they actually know you got it for a fact.

[POTAME]

Go up to the girl that you like and go for it don't be a jerk if you don't do it now you will never get the chance.

[Asker]

What you mean don't be a jerk is it really my fault that I suck at talking to my crush?

[Anonymous]

Be your self.

[Anonymous]

Just get a girlfriend dude.

[Anonymous]

Who the duck cares if your gay or not? its none of their business, and if you like a damn song who gives a duck. you don't have to have a girl on your arm everywhere you go, it doesn't make you gay.

as long as people don't treat you different (ie shove you in the lockers and stuff) just tell them your not. If someone is being an a-hole and asking your how gay you are or something like that, memorize these big words: "My sexual orientation is of none of your concern, but if you're inquiring for personal reasons, I must decline."

The ones that insist your gay the most are probably so deep in the closet, they're having adventures in Narnia.

[Asker]

I DONT care about gay people, and don't want any sort of relationship with them, and if someone ask me what's my sexual orientation my answer will be STRAIGHT.

[Opinion Owner]

I DONT care about gay people, and don't want any sort of relationship with them, and if someone ask me what's my sexual orientation my answer will be STRAIGHT"-- say that.

[Anonymous]

They're just tools, tell them to f*** off.

On a tangent, did you really not know Adam Lambert is gay?

[Asker]

NOPE, had no clue. When I first heard the song I though he said "Baby your beautiful and there is nothing wrong with you..its me ..I'm afraid" I did not know he said he is a freak until I listened closely.Then I did further investigation of what he was saying and found out he was Gay.