I can't find my clit! Help?

I've looked with mirrors and spread apart my pussy lips and I still can't find it. I'm starting to think I don't have one 😭
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Sometimes the clitoris is hidden underneath the clitoral hood, which is essentially a flap of skin that covers the clitoris (think of it almost as female foreskin). It's located near the top of the vulva, below the mons pubis and above the urethral opening. When touched, the clitoris is firm and small, though when sexually stimulated it can swell up to twice its original size.

    • Thanks for MHO.

  • It's literally right at the top in the middle, it's above the vaginal opening and the urethra! If you get turned on it gets erect like a penis and should feel a bit harder and easier to find even though it's small.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wHAwRSmFjjk
    • Really liked that video!! Lots of cool information I didn't know

  • OP. You worry me. This is like actually asying saying "I can't find my tongue. help."

    Go google "vaginal diagram". Here. I'll even help you. Please educate yourself about yourself. www.google.com/search

    • Considering that the vagina is INSIDE the body, I don't think looking up a vaginal diagram would help.

    • @iamshelly Shelly, darling, go follow the link and see what comes up in the image section. Do you think that there is information OP will find useful and pertinent to her situation?

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    It's under the hood, If you pull the very top part of your vulva back you should see a tiny lump

Most Helpful Guys

  • Open your lips wide right at the top. Carefully start to export the exposed area with your fingers. You will find it.

    If your careful you will be able to completely pull the skin back and expose it.

    Just hold open at the top and work your finger. You will find it ;-)

  • Do you know when you are aroused and horny?

    Get to that state and then look for it. Clitoris is an erectile tissue and will become erect with arousal. Stimulate a large area around the hood of the clitoris, then focus to a specific spot where you feel the most pleasure.

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  • Join the club. Mine is small. But it's there. You'll find yours too.

  • Where were you while everyone else was taking sex ed? -_-

  • It's at the very tip of your vagina where the split forms. It's probably covered at least partially by a hood of flesh.

  • It's probably just small. Wait until you are already aroused by something and help it along by masturbation.

  • Some people have small clits.

  • Relax. Breathe. Get some lube. Gently play with yourself while watching someone dreamy on TV.

  • Well that scenario can happen then a girl don't shave down there. :D

    • I do shave thanks very much

    • Well if you live in Egypt you might not have one, thanks to female circumcision.

    • Don't live in Egypt. Haven't been circumcised.

  • Hold on. Let me help here. :-p

  • Why did this description turn me on 😅😅
    I really can t help you with this from here dear.
    You sure do have a clit, go see a gyneco if you really can t manage on your own.

  • Did you look under the hood?

  • I can help you <3 :)

  • Maybe it ran away

  • Get to rubbin'

    • That is the answer.

  • Keep rubbing, you'll find it eventually.

  • Some have it under their skin they have to grt surgery.

  • It's above it

  • lol. meet a gyno doctor

  • Lies, you know where it is!

  • i can help with that

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