What are your opinions on Femdom?

Femdom is a type of BDSM kink were the female is dominant. Dominant Female=Femdom. Anyways, I'm wondering about your honest opinion of Femdom...
I participate in Femdom!
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I participate in a similar kink.
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Femdom is okay...
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It's weird but whatever! you do you.
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Gross! GTFO!
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  • Femdom is something that I've certainly thought about and considered before. When I say femdom, I'm referring solely to the woman being dominant in the bedroom, as I'm aware for some guys it can extend way beyond this.

    I have made some slightly half-hearted attempts to try out femdom before. However, I never really had a proper chance to, as by the time I was 18, with the opportunity to properly 'get myself out there', I was pretty much off to uni, where I quickly met someone who I'm happily in a committed relationship with.

    Anyway, as a guy that is not particularly bothered about stereotypes, and about how a guy 'should be/act', I don't have a problem with trying out femdom from that point of view. However, now that I'm in a relationship, I'm not sure whether it's something that I want to try, simply because I'm worried that it'll alter the dynamic of the relationship, and that's if my girlfriend would even be up for trying it in the first place.

    Mostly, I'm up for trying things like being spanking and, and her just generally taking a bit more control, up to the likes of being tied up and pegging. But, as I say, I don't want our relationship to change or her to treat me differently in bed all the time, its just something I'd like to try and potentially have as a way of changing it up in bed now and then.

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    • It won't create a profile. Oh well.

    • @mistress_zoe Wow, that sounds really interesting!

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  • I pray that femdom is real everyday! I have a lot more sub fantasies than dom ones. Just the thought of a girl sitting on my face, pinning me down, or spanking me gets me so hard! I totally want bondage and the strap too ;)

    • OooOoo just my kind of sub ;)

    • I'm loving this like McD's lolol

    • I agree, I fantasize about pinning a man down and dominating him and I dream about finding the submissive man of my dreams

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  • I don't like to dominate or make people do things they didn't want to. Now, that being said, I love feminizing guys and turning them into girlfriends, shopping buddies, cuddle buddies, and sex partners to go out clubbing with and have girls nights out etc. They become so sensual and make the most interesting creatures. Some would say that's dom, but most guys that say they want to be forced feminized just really want to feel out their feminines side and the sensuality of it like these lovely gurls with their girlfriends in the pics.

    What are your opinions on Femdom?What are your opinions on Femdom?
    • Wow. I just got a boner. Where do I sign up? I would like to participate

    • Hey can message me once please don’t main I don’t have enough cp please message i am a sun

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  • I think it is hot to watch. I feel so dirty when I do because i'd like to have one go at me with some toys. I'm hetero but maybe a little flexible.

    • That sounds really hot! I would love to read more about your fantasies on the topic.

  • I think that it is relatively normal and there is nothing great about it or bad about it, it's just what it is.

    • Hi princess, Can I be your slave please? You can humilate me in message if you want.

  • I love reversing roles and being in charge. It's hot hot hot hot hot!

    • Hi princess, Can I be your slave please? You can humilate me in message if you want.

    • Hi there, I would LOVE read all of your fantasies (when it comes to you calling the shots in the bedroom. If you're interested, you can reach me directly at: nothingtosee@yahoo. com

    • That's hot! I would love to be a sex coach for a woman. Being with a couple and teaching her how to be dominate, how to use a man.

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  • I think it's a very hot role-playing scenario! It's a chance for the woman to act out ALL of her wildest, kinkiest, sexual fantasies. The chance for the woman to objectify the man, using him like some sort of remote control sex toy. Calling all the shots, making him ask for permission to cum. That way the sex can last as long as she wants.

    It's also the perfect time for her to initiate a threesome! She gets to choose who the third party should be (a man or a woman) and that person should also be submissive to her as well. Then, she can also decide how kinky the sex should get. No holds bar.

  • misclicked meant to vote A. I love having power over my boyfriend, i also love my bull having power over me.

    • Oh, that's really hot! Good for you! I (once) was a bull for a couple. She LOVED having me use her (sexually) right in front of her husband. After I had an orgasm, she would make him lick it up, ALL of it!

  • Nothing turns me on more. Sometimes she'll make me beg to come, and tease me till I'm basically in tears only to say, "No". It's both frustrating and maddening to watch her get off multiple times and I'm usually such a horny mess that I can't even speak...

    • wowowow

    • Oh, I agree. I love the idea of having to ask for permission to cum. I love the idea that my orgasm is for benefit, not mine. I love the idea of her negotiating the terms of my orgasm. For example, she might suggest that I have to eat my cum afterwards, or I have to let her explore my ass. Or I have to give another guy a nice slow teasing, edging kind of handjob, while she watches. Or to eat another guy's cum, or to give another guy a blowjob.

  • My girlfriend is a FemDom, She fucks me in the ass weekly ;3 she is real dominant and just the right amount of butch.

    She still looks like a girl has beautiful long hair and make up but doesn't do conventional girl stuff at all

    • She must be so hot!

    • Wow! That's really hot! I want to know more about how she uses you.

    • Thank you for your time and consideration.

  • I've had 2 women in my life who would dress me up like that. Those were the best of times :)

  • I like to be dominated, by men or women, so I guess I've participated in it without knowing the name. I don't think it was particularly because it was a woman in charge that turned me on, it's more what the dom does.

  • A D/s relationship is the best relationship I have ever been in

    • Awesome! Domme girls are the best

  • I love to try it. I've been interested in it for a while but I don't realistically want to pursue anything so for now, it's just another dream collecting dust.

    • You're very attractive in your picture and I slips I think it'd be incredibly hot if you were to dominate me I've never had a woman dominate me before and let you do whatever you want what comes to mind

    • I would love to hear all of your fantasies about it. Would you like to tell me? If you're interested, please write me at nothingtosee@yahoo. com

    • I would love to know what your fantasies about it are! Perhaps I can give you some tips or ideas what to do. If anything, it might give you some great things to think about as you masturbate. If interested, please write me at nothingtosee at yahoo

  • I have played those games, and sometimes have femdom fantasies. Especially "only she cums" and chastity games.

  • I enjoy it ;)

    • Do you enjoy pm'n and dominating me in ur mssgs

  • Depends on your definition of femdom. If your boyfriend asks you to put on high heeled boots and tie him up, that's not femdom because he's getting what he wants. Proper femdom is all about the girl getting what she wants, the guy doesn't necessarily have to like everything.

  • I think that it's good for when I wouldn't feel like being dominant or was simply to tired, so I just let her take the reigns until I felt like being dominant again. Or I just pretend to be submissive and surprise her later by changing real quick. Stuff like that besides I like a strong women, makes being dominant more pleasing when I win.

  • I absolutely love it

  • I think it adds excitement to your sex life. I let one woman have me as she wished. Spanked my bottom until it was red (but did not hurt), she sat on my face and made me drink her juice. On another occation I let a woman tie me up so she screwed me (that was fun), she also paddled my butt a little (but did not hurt). That's it.

  • I truly enjoy a good spanking/CBT when she needs to let off some steam. There’s so much more freedom knowing that’s she’s in charge and will make the best decisions for us!

  • I honestly have loved it when I have had a girlfriend that was into it and really liked taking charge!

  • I'd like to keep it light and psychological, no chains and whips. I think the mental aspects of this kink would be fun to explore with roleplay and similar ideas. So I find some aspects of it more appealing than others.

  • I am a Dom. so i support Femdoms :)

  • Depends on what is involved and who with. I would not want to be in a mutilate and kill me in the name of female superiority, but I would be okay with some minor things, and even more so if it was someone I really wanted to have involvement with vs someone I couldn't stand.

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