Girls, what would you do if you walked in on your boyfriend/husband jerking off to porn?

[Anonymous]

I like watching porn, and have often used it as an aid for the release of sexual tension. After a long and stressful day at the office, I sometimes like to pull up a porn scene on the internet and jerk off to it until I come. Releasing the sexual tension makes me feel better and often helps me sleep better at night. I've been in a committed relationship for a year now, and I'm not sure how my girlfriend would feel about me watching and jerking off to porn. We've never discussed it, and frankly, I'm embarrassed to. Sometimes when I can't sleep (after my girlfriend has gone to bed), I'll go the other room, watch some porn, and jerk off for a few minutes. I've always wondered though, what would happen if my girlfriend caught me jerking off to porn? My sex life with my girlfriend is great, and I would prefer sex to jerking off, but sometimes she's too tired, or I'm too tired, and jerking off to porn takes less work and time. What would you do if you caught your boyfriend/husband jerking off to porn?

[samhradh_leannan]

While I don't have a problem with my boyfriend watching porn once in a while, I'm a little uncomfortable with being presented with the evidence of it. I understand that most guys watch porn, and I'm totally okay with that. I get that it doesn't affect his feelings about me or what he wants from me (if it does, that's when it's a problem).

However, I don't want to hear about it or see him doing it. I expect that to be something that happens when I'm really not around, not when I run out to the grocery store for ten minutes or when I'm sleeping in the other room. There's never a time when I wouldn't prefer for him to get that release from me. If it was something he really needed and sex really wasn't an option, fine, but I don't want to walk in on it.

[SarahsSummer]

Been there done that. He got mad I caught him and At first I felt insecure that I wasn't pleasing him enough but we discussed it and he said largely what you said. I've told him Im available for his pleasure any time he wants but if he prefers to jerk off, I can help if he likes. now, it's just something I know he does. Sometimes I'll even ask to see what he watched his last time he did it which opens up a great session for us together. My thoughts are as long as it doesn't negatively impact our mutual sex life, it's what we all do. I've got my toys, he's got his (Hand and iPad)

[ShaunaM95]

I wouldn't do anything. I don't see the problem in guys watching porn in a relationship at all. It's a much better option than them going out and cheating in my opinion.

[chopper1977]

Occasionally, I would initiate sex with your girlfriend from time-to-time, even if she is asleep. At least give her the opportunity to decline. I don't have any issues with my husband viewing porn unless it takes away from our sex life. I'm always up for sex, so I was kinda pissed when I found out that my husband had masturbated.

[Imbadatcoolnameslol]

I'd kiss him and whisper "hey sexy" in his ear... I may join in if I'm up to it, or if I'm not on the mood/tired I'll let him finish

[Tinkrr]

I'd ask if I could watch it with him... if you're both tired then getting off on porn is a nice alternative... besides the girls in those videos are unattainable your girlfriend is the real deal... hell if it was me I'd ask him if he'd like any help 😏

[NormaTavish]

lol, why the hell wouldn't you lend a hand?

[nymous1234]

I honestly would back away, pretend like I did not see and go about what I was doing and maybe let him know at some point just so I wouldn't be like a total creep who was accidentally spying lol :P
Basically I would not care. Would just want him to clear his browser history in case I get too nosey about what he secretly likes lol :)

[fauchelevent]

Ehh, not a big deal. If I'm there in the house, I'd much rather he come and tell me that he's horny, but if I'm not there then it's not really a problem if I'm not there and I come home and walk in on it.

[art_of_sin]

Watch for a few and possibly help out. I think it's perfectly natural 😊

[Pallavi_M]

I don't have any problem if he does it when iam not available

[JennieF]

I'd take off my clothes and jump on top of him.