Have you ever had a one night stand?

I'm 20 and have never had a one night stand with anyone I'm not really the "one night stand" type of girl I have only had sex with people I have been in relationships with but im curious to see if any of you have? Or would you ever have a one night stand?
Yes, I have had a one night stand
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  • I would if I was on a vacation or staying a short time in some really foreign place and I knew I would not see the person again and the person was okay with it being a short lived thing :) But only if it was like a normal guy, not some dude who does it like often, cause then he would probably have something and that is not sexy lol
    But then again maybe what I described isn't a one night stand :P
    I would try it once, if i felt comfortable enough, but I never liked the idea of having sex with someone once and never again, I would want the sex to keep going lmao ;)

  • I have! I was on vacation in the Tampa Bay Area. I hadn't had sex in about a year. So yes, I was on the prowl. He was drunk that night so he passed out and we didn't have sex. We had like this deep and awesome convo in the morning. He was an attorney and had a bad boy side to him though. He invited me for a date the next night. My last night in Tampa. We went bar hopping. We had sex that night. 6 months later I moved to Tampa and we dated briefly. So yes, the one nightstand was quite memorable for me :) I would t do it again though.

  • I would not I don't know I just feel like I get struck in my shell because of this I have a hard time trusting people and I almost had a one night stand I couldn't do it and I loved the guy but he just wanted the sex he broke my heart. To this day I will never have a one night stand I will never let my guard down for someone like him to come and gain my trust in order to break my heart.

  • I have had a couple one night stands. The first one was with a guy that I really liked and was hoping for "more" with, but it turned out that he didn't feel the same. The other one was just a one night stand. I knew nothing would come of it and I was more than okay with that.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Oh my. What a shocker. Females largely say "Omg that's disgusting," or "I would NEVER do that," and males say superficially the same thing, because they're trying to look good for the girls or are delusional; or "I would totally have a one-night stand."

    Who could have known.

  • I've had quite a number of one night stands. I've never had relationship sex.
    I think if you like sex, and you can separate sex from emotions/feelings, ons are pretty cool. You get to have fun and be a little crazy without dealing with problems from relationships.

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  • I have had 2 one night stands which happened when I was 19 and went out every weekend but now im really not "into" that stuff

  • I had a single one night stand in about 1988. She picked me up at a bar. I had a good time with her. But afterwards I found that what was missing was greater than what was gained. I've only had relationship sex since then.

    One experience, as positive ass it was, let me know that casual sex wasn't for me.

  • No, I have never had a one night stand, and I don't plan to.

  • No. I probs could if I wanted to, but I ain't got time for that.

  • no, and id never do that.

  • I wouldn't do it again. Well, either of them again. It isn't like sex with a known partner, where you encourage and arouse each other. It's quick and empty.

  • I have had quite a few :)
    It has always been lots of fun

  • I haven't and I don't know if I ever will or not.

    But I know this... I won't judge anyone for making that choice of that's what they choose to do.

  • NO and I will never do it.

  • I've never had sex but I've met people in concerts or nightclubs, oral sex and bye bye.

    I'm okay with the ons thing.

  • I have. They are great for guys. I'd imagine girls are less enthusiastic about them, though..

  • I've had them. If I'm single, he's down and I'm down, why not? 😈💋

  • I have not but I definitely would.

  • No I have never had one and it is too late for me to have one.

  • Well I wasn't in relationships with either of the people I slept with. But I did know both of them.

  • Nah, I don't like that...

    • @AleDeEurope I know you downvoted me :P

    • I did not, why would I do that? xD

    • @AleDeEurope I don't know, to tease me? :P

  • I have had one, it was awesome to be honest, i love them and will do them again :)

  • Vote A = soooooo many times = serial dater right here who luuurves sex but gets bored easily.

    • well it could be worse you could get bored of breathing or something!. lol. maybe you are afraid of commitmet for some deep rooted reason?

    • @supermerd99 (smiling) I dont believe in monogamy and tbh would prefer death to any type of committment.

  • The door of opportunity opened and I took it. Not sure if these count as one nighters though. Both were presented by my then S/O. The first was a birthday gift. (ladies do this for your guy. Hell appreciate it) the second was a threesome.

  • I haven't and don't plan on it. Its too soon and too risky, even with a condom. I want to see dem test result first :p

    With that being said Id be open to having a friend with benefits. Im way behind most of the girls in my dating pool and getting a fuckbuddy might be a good way to gain some experience. I don't really want to end up settling down with a girl and having her be my first and only when I'm like her 9th.

    :/Im undecided though.

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