Letting my girlfriend sleep with whoever she want?

You and her were really good friends for a while first she had a boyfriend but he broke up with her because she cheated. And I told her if she was my girlfriend I would let her do whatever she wanted. She agreed to date we have been together for a year now and have not had sex yet. But yet she has lots of sex with a few other guy's. It's kind of frustrating but yet I still want to be with her
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  • Wrong girlfriend. Find another, then tell gf#1 you're dumping her. You'll have two girlfriends. Then your problem is which girlfriend is better and most likely to stay with you. I'd suggest you tell gf#2 that you just want her so you can tease gf#1, but make sure you have sex with her too. If she likes, then let gf#1 know about gf#2.

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  • I wouldn't settle its not like you get turned on by watching her fuck other people (because that's a fetish) you're just sacrificing your want and needs for hers that has nothing to do with you. She's not sleeping with you but other guys for a reason

    • She said with them it's just sex. I'm the one she wants to be with but i have to marry her before I get sex

    • I doesn't make sense to me, so she'd rather fuck other people than fuck someone who she wants to marry. Sounds like she's feeding you bullshit

    • . . . and how could you ever trust her to be faithful to you?

  • So how is this a relationship? You are with her for a year and no sex, but she is sleeping with other people? Dump this girl, or make your relationship official.

  • Why would you set that standard for your relationship? It's too late now...

    • Cuz I was crazy about her and willing to do whatever it took to be with her

    • But she's not crazy about you...

    • Maybe not but at least we are together

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  • Maybe she wants to be cherished and coveted.

  • I don't understand how that's a relationship?

  • You deserve better than what sounds like a two bit hoe sorry to be crude

  • Do you think she respects you, or is she taking advantage of you? How can you feel okay knowing that your "girlfriend" is out there with some other guy's face between her legs, getting her warmed up for the main event?

  • Wow... So.. Why are you with her?

    • Cuz I love her

    • Well... I don't know how u can call it a relationship, especcially if she is getting sex elsewhere... Are you even sure she has feelings for you? U should at least try to sleep with her..

    • She said not till we get married

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  • Well really the only thing for it is to tell her you want to change the parameters of your relationship and accept it may be a deal breaker for her. But don't put yourself through the torture of her sleeping around if it really bugs you.

  • Need to get away/dump her.

  • She's cheating on you and you want to stay with her? Did this everything she wants include sleeping with other guys? Well, it's your life, do whatever you want, but I don't think you can trust this girl.

  • Get some self respect for yourself and cut her loose.

  • It's just a delusional fantasy eh

  • How can you even call that dating? she's probably just letting you take her on free dates and using you like that.

  • I wouldn't but if it makes you happy then go for it

  • Sorry to say dude but your first mistake was telling her that she could do whatever she wanted instead of laying down some ground rules. Because if you ask me, after being together that long and you still haven't had sex with her while she's sleeping with other guys, sounds to me like either she's using you or she's really a whore.

  • Are you her doormat or simply a companion?

  • why would you agree to this

  • That's weird as fuck.

  • l really don't see the point of dating someone when they're having sex with everyone but you...

  • You're a fool. You are allowing yourself to be used.

  • Ya thats fucked she wants you as a friend its call being friend zoned bra

  • so pretty much you are her suggar daddy? no sex but take care of her, not a good look bro

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