I have a really weird penis?

[Anonymous]

I know that also the question it's weird, but please, this thing really puzzles me And yeah, i'm obsessed with my penis My girth is around 5.5 inches (14 CM) in the thickest point So the diameter is about 4,5 CM I've also read that i could be slightly above average, if we are talking about girth, but, the problem is, that i see it very thin, even if i've a normal girth or a normal diameter I notice it especially when i see it from the side In fact, i think that my penis is flat. I mean, it doesn't has a roundish form or a cylindrical form, but, like i've said, it's flat and if you see it from the side looks thin, even if i have a normal girth or diameter like i've said So, my penis looks thin, even if i could have a girth that is slightly above average I've tried also to compare it with object that has my same girth (for example a deodorant), but this one looks like much more thick than my penis, despite they have the same girth Oh and i've measured it a lot of times and correctly. With an extreme precision So, my question is: Having a flat penis it's like having a thinner one? People lie about average? I don't know what think and i'm obsessed with this thing and i hope you answer

[Peter0]

What, is it actually wider leftright than topbottom?

That would certainly make different positions feel mightely different for your partner (and you)! So you get more variety built in.

But really, don't worry about it. Being huge around doesn't do it for everyone, and it definitely means you'd get less oral sex. You're well within normal bounds; your partners will be fine.

[Asker]

So, it's a bad thing? Because of this my penis would be considered thin or normal?

[Peter0]

I'd say variety is good. I certainly wouldn't say it's a bad thing.

[Asker]

My fear is that a woman could find it thin despite i've a normal diameter and, from what i've read on web, the diameter it's more important than length

[Peter0]

//nod// An understandable fear, but you really are fine. Women are going to find that quite sufficient. (and keep in mind that a willingness to use a vibrator on her clit during sex is way more important than girth in terms of satisfying her) Did I mention less oral sex the wider you are? Also anal. And for some women, PIV intercourse (not all women like it thicker. Some do, of course. I approve of premarital sex just to make sure things work out ;) )

[Asker]

So you're telling my that my penis is too wide? 4,4-4,5 cm of diameter in the thickest point can make a woman reject oral or anal? To me looks normal..

[Peter0]

It all depends on the woman. If she ahs a small mouth, YES. If she has a big mouth (literally) and lots of practice, then you wouldn't be a problem at all. But the bigger you are, the fewer will be comfortable ;) It's not a black-or-white thing; women want different things. You'll be quite good for some women, but others won't be interested. That's true of every guy! So don't worry about it. ... actually, thinking about it, having a slightly flat penis probably makes oral easier while still providing lots of thickness for intercourse... but then, I've not given oral, so I may be wrong ;)

[Peter0]

The takeaway is that you're fairly close to normal, most women aren't goin to complain (and if they do, you don't want to be with them!), and once you have sex a few times, you'll find it easier to stop worrying so much.

[Asker]

Well, i don't lie: if a woman could find problem to do oral or anal because my penis is too wide that could really helps my ego! Maybe you don't understand that my fear is that a girl could find my penis thin, no too wide! Lol like i've said, i would be very happy if a girl could find problems to do something because my penis is too wide. That really would help my ego...

[Peter0]

//nod// Don't forget the vibrator ;) Thick penis inside + vibrator on clit = very good for many women!

[Asker]

Ha ha i wouldn't use object on women ;) it's for self esteeme. That would make me feel useless So i would like to do all with my hands and my penis :) xD...

[Peter0]

I hold the opinion that Real Men are happy to use tools if it makes their partners have more fun ;) Bit of advice: don't let your focus on your esteem keep you from giving her a good time. Most women can't get off from intercourse, no matter what the penis is like. If you've got a lovely penis inside her AND a vibrator on her? Well, my girlfriend has never come so hard, and she regularly asks if we can have sex like that. Besides - holding a vibrator is a heck of a lot less trouble than getting a good angle with a hand, while you're also thrusting inside her.

[SarahsSummer]

Having a flat penis is not like having a thinner one. It's simple geometry. At 25, have you ever had sex? If so, What kind of responses did you get? regardless, I think you should focus your attentions on much much more important things. But if you insist on continuing here, rename your question. I was hoping to learn of a truly "weird" penis Yours is not.

[Asker]

I'm 22 years old (i don't know why i can't choose my age) and yes, i'm virgin And yes, it's because i'm worried about my penis (form, girth, length, etc)..

[SarahsSummer]

Does it have a head and a shaft and a tiny hole at the end? Does it get hard? Does it shoot white stuff when you play with it? Yes? not weird. Your fine. Focus more on finding and taking good care of a girl than your dick and you'll be fine.

[Asker]

But unfortunately not all women think like you I think that i'm rightly worried about it and doing surveys (yes i'm the guy who write it like two times a week, it's the only thing that i can do)..

[SarahsSummer]

Then read the poll I took a couple days ago.

[Asker]

I can't.. the activity or your profil is private so where i can find it?