My girlfriend is scared of getting pregnant, what do I do?

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Basically me and my girlfriend want to have sex but she is scared of getting pregnant, this has gotten to the point where we ditched school and upon arrival at my house she decided she was too scared, I don't care about not having sex but she really seems like she wants to, even more than me so I want her to feel as safe as possible. I have condoms and she knows this, also we have discussed those "morning after" pills. Any Advice?

Peter0 · Accepted Answer

IUD.

Or the implant - it's more effective than getting one's tubes tied.

If she's not up for those, oral sex, anal sex, and manual sex (handjobs etc) are awesome, too.

YOU will have to wait until the FDA finally approves male contraceptives :p

(morning after pills are really for emergencies, where something else fails... they can make her fairly sick for a day, so if you can avoid needing them, it's better).

truthbeknown · Accepted Answer

Why not just enjoy oral sex for the time being? I really recommend her getting on birth control pills. Those plus condoms when properly used will work just fine.

__hello__ · Accepted Answer

This was a problem for me and my boyfriend also condoms r a great start but get her on the pill do that way u have 2 methods of protection and a very small chance of getting pregnant which is where the morning after pill comes in

Cmasterson · Accepted Answer

Well tell her to get on birth control! Ans use a condom and yes the morning after pill. You can tell her, there's always a risk at getting pregnant, but there's contraceptives for a reason to minimize the chances.