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I've been dating this girl for 5 years (on and off relationship). We are the type of couple that as you can say, freaks. Before dating this girl, when we were "talking" we were physically playful. We had broke the touch barrier LONG before. She lets me hug her, smoothly touch her face, cuddle with her, bite her cheek, but never kiss on the lips. Not until I actually started kissing her. After getting together for the first time and her coming over my house the first few times. We ended up in my room because my computer tower was in my room and I had on my PC. When we were in my room we casually left the door open and we just sat looking at the tv watching the movie. However, when we started kissing she immedietly got on top of me and started dry humping me and making out with me. I didn't mind because I love this girl. Overtime and everytime she came to visit, it became a routine of her dry humping me and making out with me. We gradually got closer and things got more intense. We started to make love (intercourse is excluded until now because we are both virgins). And our emotions also got too intense. We got to know each other, and she slowly but surely started opening up to me telling me her ex cheated on her, she got molested as a child by her uncle (just touching her), and her father being an alcoholic and verbally abusing her and kicking her family out of the house. She told me that all these experiences effected her badly. I try to help her as a partner, and try to move forward. She seems to take my advice as motivation and starts to study and do well in school. However, in terms of physical intamacy we never got past the dry humping, breast caressing, butt grabbing, and vagina massaging (outside of the jeans of course). She tells me her past haunts her, and she is afraid to get hurt. Although, I always comfort her by telling her my intentions are different. Cutting to the point, recently she's been physically
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she’s been avoiding our physical intimacy (including making out). I asked her why and she said “I’m just scared of getting hurt, and all these experiences have had a huge effect on me” Even though I reassure her, she still doesn’t budge. In my mind, as a partner I am thinking negatively thinking she fell out of love already and is tired of me. What should I do?
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I had movies on my PC* Typo sorry!
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