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Ladies, what age were you when you were fingered for the first time? Guys, what age were you when you fingered a girl for the first time?

I just wanna know bc my boyfriend keeps hinting that he wants to finger me but I feel too young but all my friends say their boyfriends finger them and eat them out all the time. My boyfriend doesn't mind if I wanna wait but I just wanted to know what age was the average.
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Thanks everyone! You have really helped to settle my nerves :)
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  • I had a girl piano teacher. She used to massage my head ( my real head ) while she laid me on the couch. This was after 5 mins of playing a few notes on piano.
    I could never figure out what that had to do with my lesson.
    I was so relaxed while she rubbed my temples and looked forward to lessons. My bro and sis hated lessons. Not me.

    Any way one day as she massaged my temples and i closed my eyes I heard the tone of her voice change. I opened my eye and peeked. She was rubbing herself between legs in skirt with panties pulled to the side. I didn't see much. Just hairy.
    I then got a hard on. I kinda moved my hand closer to her and before I knew it she grabbed my hand and put it between her legs. I pulled away at first because it was wet. Opened my eyes then she spread wide and said its ok. You can touch it.
    So I did. I rubbed then she pushed my fingers in then grabbed my hand and moved it in and out !
    That was so much fun ! Can't remember how old exactuly but I think I was around 11 or 12 yr old.

    We continued these sessions. Later she started sucking me a bit and tought me how to lick her.

    To this day I can't play a thing on the piano but do jerk off thinking about her now and again.
    Other time I fingered a girl when I was 13 usher. She was 11 I think.
    And watched a girl finger her self when I was baby sitting at 12. She wanted to show me her hole when she opened her pussy. Very weird for me. I got a hard on but didn't touch her even tho she wanted me to touch it.
    True story's

  • I was 13 when I did fingered a girl for the first time, from what I can tell it's pretty great. :P But if you still feel like your too young then you should wait until your ready. Don't let anyone make you feel like you should do something you'r not ready for just because they all do. That's what they call peer pressure and it only leads to regret.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I was around 13-14 and my boyfriend was 14-15. You are hitting a new point in your life where you are finding out about sex and what feels good and what doesn't. If you don't feel comfortable with it then wait, if you want to try it then that's your choice, just make sure you read up on the consent laws in your state.

  • I was 15. Looking back I should've waited and not let my boyfriend pressure me into that. We eventually had sex then we got pregnant he took off after we graduated and I've not seen him since. Not trying to scare you but be careful doing what you're not ready to do. Take it from me, been there done that.

  • I was 15 when I did, I had the biggest negativity towards it but after it happened I wanted to slap myself for being so stubborn, it does feel good. And if you feel like you're not ready don't do it!!. And also make sure his hands are absolutely clean! 😋

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  • 15 or 16 (she was the same age)... but really it doesn't matter what age anyone else is. When you feel you are ready try it. Dont rush just because someone else wants you to.

  • lol I was 18

  • Looks like I'm a bit behind if it comes to this. Seems like most guys did that at 16. I haven't fingered any girls yet.

  • I fingered a girl for the first time at 15-16

  • 21

    and you are too young.

  • I was 16, she was 14 or 15. Wait until you are comfortable with fingering and oral.

  • We were in the 8th grade, she was 14 and I just turned 15. After lunch we both went into the bathroom together. I went into the stall, pulled down my shots and already had an erection. She took her panties off and then sat on my lap.
    I pushed my erect penis inside her. Only thrusted 3-4 times and had an ejaculation.

  • I was 15 when it happened.

  • Didn't fingered anyone yet

    • Keep working on it? It's beautiful.

    • @USA1960 😭😭don't make me cry

  • I was 13 years old, but if you're not ready don't let your boyfriend talk you into doing things you're not ready for😉

  • My first time was all at once , Then after like 3 weeks i got head for the first time

  • Anything over 16 I think is up to you but if you're not ready then that's your choice just don't be pressured into it

  • Sick world...

  • I was 14 and so was she.

  • 19.. I was 19.

  • As young as 14 or 15 are are saying they did. At that time I was all about Spiderman comics

  • I was 16.

  • i have sex since im 14 and i finger girls since im 13

  • i was 17 and she was 15..

  • 17 and she didn't cum

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