What do you think about a woman who had a foursome with three guys?

[Anonymous]

I am a 30 years old woman. I had a long relationship with a guy who continuously pursued me with a lot of naughty sexual things. I loved him, so I did a lot of things for him. I started to go commando more and more, i had sex in public places, i had threesome with my ex boyfriend and another girl, and a few times he asked me to give oral sex to his friend at partys or clubbings - which I did mostly being drunk. We split up, and after a short relationship i started to realize what I did. I was confused and I wanted to find out wich of the things I did was me, and which ones were due to my ex boyfriend's oppression. I found out that wearing no panties is "a way to be" for me, and I became a "full timer" commando woman. Since I stopped wearing panties I became much more self confident with men, including my male colleagues at work. I also had a few one night stands, but never cheated on anyone. Last weekend I met three very charming guys at a party (I slept with one of them after the party) and the other day they made me a proposal: they want to have a foursome with me. I don't know what to do. One part of me would like to try it, another part of me would like to turn away from all this and be a decent woman. Is it really that bad to engage in that foursome affair, or I can try it out and than just be the decent woman I always wanted to be?

[broadsword]

I'd like to thank you for being so open and sharing your very intimate private life.
It's only when we discus such matters that we can all learn about sex , sexual psychology and relationships.
You are a confident experienced sexual woman. Who enjoys sex. To many people are judgmental about sex and other people's sexual enjoyment.
I have no problem with you wanting to try this. It must be very arousing for to think these guys all want you.
However it is very important that you set some rules for them. You are to be treated with respect. They are not to spread rumours or brag about it. They are also to understand that your pleasure is as important as theirs. Have a safe word so when you want to stop they understand that as there is 3 of them you are the most likely to want to stop.
Please be safe. tell them the things you are wanting to experience but equally the things that are hard limits. The things you won't do.
This really is a gang bang scenario and the power must be with you.
Happy to discuss further with you if you'd like to message me.
Good luck.

[BreakerMorant]

You may be good for fun, but not any sort of real relationship

[Tarvold]

Firstly, fuck you for trying to shame your boyfriend with this whole "oppression" thing. You guys were dating, he suggested things to expand your experience, and you consented to those experiences. Don't blame him for your actions, especially since it sounds like he has helped you learn so much about yourself and your own sexuality. If he sexually abused you, then that's one thing, but to just throw around "oppression" labels like this is bullshit.

Now, I think it's wonderful that you are now more in touch with your sexuality than before. Back in my day, we used to call this a person's "sexual awakening". Personally, I think people who judge women who have had non-vanilla sexual experiences to be extremely bigoted and irrational, and I think men who judge women like this are suffering from severe issues of self confidence and insecurities.

There's nothing indecent about being honest with yourself to yourself about your sexual desires and curiosities.

[Anonymous]

Honestly, I don't think your sexual life is allowed to decide your decency because... Everyone has there kinks. It sounds hot but very overwhelming to me. If your interested, do it while you're still young. And never hold back because of whats socially normal. Live your life your way. Just make sure you are safe and that none of them are diseased if you go through with it! But basically, it's up to you!

[Anonymous]

Rember. if. ur. a. woman. who. dont. care. what. men. think. about. u. then. a. forsome. is. great.. rember. men. talk. just. like. us. gals. do. u. just. might. be. the. nxt. water. cooler. or. bathroom. chat.. so. girl. really. think. about. it. first.. would

u. respect. urself.. if. u. did. it.. do. u. think. thoes. men. would. respect. u. Hell. no.. thats. just. me.

[RedThread]

Why the periods?

[Paige90]

@RedThread I was wondering the same thing!

[peachblossomluck]

You might be a sex addict but I don't know you. These risky situations can turn dangerous and I hope you are in control so nothing bad ends up happening. There's nothing wrong with going for what you really want in life but I'm glad that I've kept most of my fantasies only fantasies.

[Mustachekitteh]

I'm wondering how the hell can that be done! there is only 3 holes you can put a dudes dick in. Vagina, ass, and mouth. How does the 4th one work?

[dudegrt09]

3 guys 3 dicks 3 holes... It's not that difficult

[Mustachekitteh]

@dudegrt09 nm i'm being stupid. :D My mind was automatically adding another guy. As in thinking there were 4 guys.

[dudegrt09]

Whoa you're dirrrty ;P

[Mustachekitteh]

@dudegrt09 Not really I have a learning disorder. So sometimes I end up understanding something wrong. lol

[dudegrt09]

Mmmm I like this disorder which makes you dirrrty LOL

[Mustachekitteh]

@dudegrt09 Not really just means I get numbers and other things mixed up sometimes.

[dudegrt09]

Oh I thought it was a good joke, not so much now I think lol... mega fail :D

[Mustachekitteh]

@dudegrt09 lol it's okay. I was being serious about the learning disorder. :D

[dudegrt09]

Yes I know, I saw your opinion once where you said you had a learning disorder... it's cool you just assumed a foursome to be fivesome, not a big deal mamacita ;P

[Mustachekitteh]

@dudegrt09 lol more like I didn't count the chick in with the 4 some. So I thought the 4 didn't include the chick. I don't know why I thought that. :D

[dudegrt09]

Four guys in a foursome... that's so wild mamacita :D

[Mustachekitteh]

@dudegrt09 I was thinking the chick being there was a given. So then having a 4 some was like having 4 guys having their way with her. That's why I was wondering how would that work.

[dudegrt09]

Well I think that can always work... she's got two hands too so even can handle five guys at once if you ask me

[Mustachekitteh]

@dudegrt09 Yeah I could never do that. To many people and I can't multitask. My focus couldn't handle so many things at once. :D

[dudegrt09]

Yeah I don't like sharing my woman with other dudes too, and especially I don't like seeing other dicks around when I'm fucking a girl LOL

[tinyclit]

Nice fantasy, but if I were you, I'd keep it as a fantasy and NOT do it for real.

[Taurus1992]

I really don't want to sound insulting... because I'm honestly not judging... If you want to have a foursome because you want to that's just fine. But don't do it because its what your used to from your last LTR and you may be feeling a little lack of restraint or self worth...

[Berethor]

I see no way for you to have foursomes and be an decent woman, but your going commando is kinda sexy. By the way your ex boyfriend was an really weird guy.

[TheBootyChest]

It all depends on your idea of a decent woman. Why can't you be a decent woman in public and yet be who you want to be in the bedroom behind closed doors?

Tell me what your idea of a decent woman is.

[Paige90]

I think a large percentage of girls have done the same thing. If they haven't they would do it if no one knew they did it.

[LoveLikeRockets]

I would think she has some kind of mental disorder.

[sean1234]

Girl, it's F-ing crazy and INSANE!!! cache4.asset-cache.net/.../...n-an-gettyimages.jpg
Dont do it, never talk to them again!!! NEVER!!!

[sean1234]

Oh one more thing... What do you think about a woman who had a foursome with three guys? ... that she got raped and should call the police.

[abundantlyrich]

I hope there is an emergency button you can press when these seemingly normal looking strangers start behaving strangely towards you.

[Bandit74]

I wouldn't want a relationship with her

[drewtacular]

go for it. 3 guys.. 3 holes.. seems like a perfect fit!

[dragonslayer1516]

Well you have to think about how your going to think about yourself afterwards and what those guys are going to say to there friends about you. Because I can almost gerentee that they will spread the rumor that you're a whore/slut and your easy

[maddfunn90]

I don't think anything at all is wrong with it... sex is all about pleasure and as long as you are turned on by the thought of doing it then I say go for it! Great sex is one of the greatest pleasures in life! And yes I think u will still be a decent woman after having a foursome 😊

[dudeman]

well i wouldn't seriously date her. even the stuff you described would put you in the fuck zone not wife or girlfriend material.

[RedThread]

I say do whatever the hell you want in life. Be safe and responsible.

[Shaft50]

Wow... quite a confession, but I think your ex-boyfriend helped unlock some of your inner sexual desires and you are enjoying that aspect of your personality. Enjoy it and experiment a little... see what you like. Just be careful that you don't put yourself in harm's way. Will you be all by yourself with these three guys?

[Jeniffer98]

They are using you
Making you a slut

[raj2022]

A open minded mature women

[gobsmacked3]

If you indulge in a foursome why do you think it precludes you from being a 'decent woman'?

Women are allowed to be sexually free like men, so, go for it and enjoy every second

[zagor]

Just make sure there is no video camera in the room, unless you don't care if it's on the internet.

[PizzaGuy22]

haha wooooooowwwwwww

exactly that