Actually there's no guarantee that he has REALLY never had to wait for more than 2 weeks to have sex. It's much more likely that he's lying and just saying that other girls have had sex with him a lot sooner, in order to pressure you so that you'll give in. He seems pretty desperate, so it's not unlikely that he's trying to get in your head. Don't fall for it. I also encourage you to cut off contact with this guy, he doesn't respect you.
I had a friends with benefits for a while. I had sex with him for the first time about six months after we had talked about hooking up. I think that's pretty much how long I'd want to wait with a boyfriend, too. It takes a long time for me to warm up.
I said the same thing he was just using that to get in my head. Why you say he desperate?
He's desperate because he feels the need to pressure you. If he wasn't desperate, he'd respect your boundaries and go at your pace, or not say anything about sex at all if this isn't what he wants.
The sex thing came out the blue. He hasn't said anything until yesterday. I think also it's possibility he probably is testing me because it came out the blue.
Tbh if he's pressuring you to have sex and calling you "uptight" for not then he sounds like a dick anyway, if a guy really cares about you he would wait as long as it look for you to be ready. If he's not willing or making you feel guilty or in the wrong for not putting out so easily then I think he has already showed his intentions towards you, of course sex is a big part in relationships but it's not the only thing. I admire you for waiting and not doing it just because he wants to. Find a better man darlin you are worth more. Good luck x
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Well if it happens when I hope it'll happen, it'll be like a year and two months. But that's only because of outside circumstances. If possible, it would've already happened. Also I don't consider him a partner, though. Just someone I've been wanting to fuck lol
The quicker you give in and give men sex the less attracted we are to you.. yes it may be us that push.. but once we get what we originally wanted... let's face it... we move on. Get to know the guy first. Take as long as YOU need.. and then if you still havnt had sex with him and he just gives up and goes away.. then you know
Anywhere from a week to 4 months. Personally, love it if a woman wants to wait, but I am more of a romantic. It's totally hot. I definitely respect a woman more if she waits. I think it is very attractive if a woman wants to wait for marriage but I never found one of those unicorns. Maybe I am the strange one.
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It's obvious you're trying to date a douche bag, don't start shaming other women because you don't want to put out for your new love interest, it doesn't matter when they put out. You do what you gotta do and drop people who pressure you into stuff. The guy sounds like a total prick.
To answer the question though, longest I waited was two weeks. If I know I like someone then I like them.
6 years exactly
I waited 2 years with my boyfriend. He was totally fine with it.
Well this guy seems a bit pushy. // Usually I wait a couple of months probably. Sometimes sooner. // I was dating a woman for about a week once and she woke me up from an afternoon nap once by giving me a blow job. But that was a rarity. LOL...
Sex is known to be "on the table" starting on date 3. Of the women I have had sex with in the last year it was on dates 3,3,1,3,3,4
If you have barely seen each other at all in those two weeks, like maybe once or twice, then I can understand your argument. But if you see each other frequently and you're still not having sex, then that's where I draw the line. And another thing, if a guy is spending two weeks of his time, attention, resources on you, then it is a long time to us. It may not be a long time for you, but it is for us because 9/10 times we are the ones investing in you first, and at some point, he's gonna wanna see a return on his investment. In other words, he's gonna want sex from you eventually.
Longest was a month. Get much beyond that and you start to wonder how much they are actually into you.
depends how experienced she is. if she's a virgin then i could wait till marriage if she's a ho she's got about six hours tops.
yes this is why i dont want to commit because even if she changes her ways it doesn't change the past. so id be insulted for her not giving it up fast and id be disgusted by her in general when i think about spending a life with her.
The earliest was probably like a few months. It takes a while for me to trust someone. This guy sounds manipulative.
Yeah he is being manapulative. It's not working though but he also is saying he not want to wait that long. He don't mind waiting... he also is saying that he doesn't take me serious.
Find a new man then he isn't worth it.
My fiancée and I will have waited three years when we get married later this next year.
Not more than a week usually...
Longest wait was fir my first true love girlfriend.
8 months
If a girl doesn't put out by date three, I assume she isn't interested in me and I stop talking to her.
I have found if we have more than three dates without sex it never happens, though I have dated without sex for as long as four months before breaking up (still without sex). I would never pressure a woman for sex or expect sex but also I don't regard a relationship as exclusive without sex. I would never propose to a woman without see what sex with her was going to be like first.
If she waits longer than a month it is a matter of attraction and not conviction. At that point I leave and find a woman who is actually sexually attracted to me.
Where we actually ended up having sex? 5-6 weeks but we were getting each other off within a week.
I waited longer then that other times, but actually, it wasn't waiting, becuase it never happened.
Waiting a long time happens when you're 16 year old virgins who aren't actually ready for sex yet.
People who are ready for sex, and just need to get comfortable with the partner? weeks to months for intercourse, other stuff quicker.
by the way, these timelines are from actually dating. I know you single people do a lot of 'talking' now, but i actually don't know what the hell talking means.
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