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Ladies, why do you touch and feel on guys muscular arms?

Is it a sexual thing? The same as when guys touch and fondle girls breasts or butts?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Initially it is because they're visually pleasing and draw you to touch them and then when you touch them they feel harder stronger and different than mine which makes me feel the difference between us. he's really muscline while i'm feminine which attracts me and turns me on. My instincts would tell me I'm safe with him and also I'd get lots of pleasure being with him. But honestly my preference isn't the arms but the abs and the pecs although I still love muscular arms and big hands too hmm

    • I'm trying to put myself in the girls shoes and compare it with how I would feel when I see a girls bodyparts. When I see a girls bodyparts, I am instantly turned on, and feel a strong SEXUAL URGE to touch, caress, and fondle. That's not quite the case with women viewing men is it? Based on what you said, is it accurate to say, the desire to touch is driven more by curiosity instead of lust? And only when you do touch and feel how hard they are and realize how manly he is, do you start getting horny?

    • If I find the guy attractive, his body would look admirable and attractive to me visually AND a slight sexual urge -caused by this image or his scent- is the thing that pushes me to touch him (see? if it was just admiration and nothing sexual I'd have touched a girl the same way). Once I touch him this feeling accelerates accompanied by the feeling of safety between his arms. So you have to understand that girls aren't really as visual as guys. while the image of your body might trigger the onset of the urge, it's nothing if I don't get to hear words whispered in my ears, touch and get touched communicate with eyes and emotions. If you give a guy a photo of a naked girl he would be able to orgasm using it but for a girl it's not that easy. It's not like it's an immediate thing but a gradual arousal, that's why women need more time for them to be aroused and even more time for them to orgasm.

    • Thanks so much, that's really insightful, and very well described. Most helpful answer so far. As a guy, I like it when a girl touches me too.. but my stronger drive is to touch her all over her body.. I'm guessing for girls it's the opposite way? They like touching, but when they are horny, their stronger drive is to be touched all over?

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  • I don't think it's sexual, its just admiring. For me, it's like the same thing as checking out a pretty smile. Stroking a guy's hair is a lot more sensual for me

    • Whatabout when girls touch and squeeze guys butts... is that just admiring too? Or is it sexual?

    • Pretty sure that's sexual :P and the arm thing might be sexual for some girls, just not for me. If I'm admiring the pecs or the abs though *blush*

    • haha, you like pecs hey? :D So would you say that touching a guys pecs is the female version of a guy touching a girls breasts? Coz when I see my girls breasts, I just get the urge to feel them and when I do it, I dont think about anything, except how amazing they are, and how great they feel, and I start getting an erection. Is it the same when you touch a guys pecs?

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  • It can be a sexual thing, yes. A lot of womrn are turned on by muscular arms. I like a guys arms, shoulders, and back so those areas are where I touch a lot.

    • Cool.. I thought maybe it's just a curiosity thing, like when I was younger I'd squeeze my uncle's arms to see how hard they felt.

    • haha yeah, well that could be the reason for some women :)

    • I see, well for me, as a guy, what happens is: I see hot girl >>> I get turned on >>> I get strong sexual urge to touch. Is it the same with women? Or with you at least? Because based on most replies it seems more like: Woman sees hot guy>>> Woman appreciates manly body and wants to touch >>> Woman gets turned on after touching ^ Is that true? If that's true, do you see the difference between men and women? Men touch because they are horny, but women touch because they are curious not because they are horny, and only when they feel the hardness might they get horny.

Most Helpful Guys

  • It isn't necessarily sexual. They all do it. All (adult) ages, all situations. Even female family members will do it. Honestly I think they do it because they know we won't mind, they can totally get away with it, and they think it's fun. That's the bottom line. Goes back to prehistoric days, I guess.

  • It was weird: a boss of mine goes to poke me in the stomach and felt how built I was.

    He goes "oh" and pokes me again to which I replied with a head nod.

    Had another boss (female) grab my arm and responded with an "oooh" and proceeded to grab it again; definitely admiration right there.

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  • I generally like to touch the guy I like cause I like him and touching arms is appropriate

    • The reason I asked the question, is because I was wondering if women's urge to touch their object of attraction was the same as a man's urge.. because it seems to me, that women's sexual urge is more to BE touched, while a man's sexual urge is to do the touching.. for example, guys like to fondle breasts, girls like their breasts being fondled. So I was just trying to understand when women are the ones doing the touching, is it the same as when men do it? Is it a sexual urge? Or something else?

    • I like and want to touch a guy I like, mostly cause I feel close to him and am attracted to him and wanna be near him. And connect with him in every way. But touching his arms doesn't scream sex in my mind. It's more like a hug, like expression of caress. I have the need for a guy I like to touch me, but I also have the need to touch him too.

    • Hmmm.. I think I understand now.. interesting answer. So what about when you ARE sexually turned on, what is the stronger urge, do you want more to touch him or for him to touch you?

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  • Nice arms are nice to feel, just like breasts/butts for guys.

  • I just like touching. Everywhere

  • It turns me on making me wanna bite it ;)

    • You wanna bite his arms! Haha, damn you're aggressive

    • Nah im not ;_;

  • I rarely do that XD and if I do it, I don't feel any sexual pleasure.
    Touching the leg is a turn on for me, but touching arms.. Meh.

  • With me, I think they see my arms and just want to check to see if they are as hard as they look. Other than that, I think girls just like masculinity, so big arms, feet, etc go along with that, though I've never had a girl come up and touch my big feet.

    • So you think it's more a curiosity thing rather than a sexual thing?

    • Oh I don't know, I think it's a bit of both.

  • Pretty much 💪💪💪💪💪

  • Its just like a power and secure thing

    • Yes, definitely this

  • You bet its sexual thing

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  • Just another way for me to feel small. I can't wrap my hand around his arm so I feel like I'm small and he's huge. In my mind I picture guys also like the sensation of having someone small grab them and having their hand be tiny compared to his arm.

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