Would you rather be the fling guy or the relationship guy?

[KENKONG]

Fling Guy

- Guy girls will give up sex with on the first night
- Guy who can walk out with a girl from a bar/club almost consistently everytime.
- Guy they really want to sleep with and open to do anything sexual with (anal, ass to mouth, sptting, whatever)
- Guy who is usually seeing multiple girls at the same time and passing on STD to them.
- Guy who girls will say is an asshole and talk shit about to their male and female friends but still fuck with if given the chance.
-Guy girls sometime cheat on their boyfriend with when they are in a different state.
- Guy who is looked at as the party/cool guy.
-Guy girls will have short fling/short term relationship with.
-Guy girls will not nag and have low expectations towards
- Guy girls will not see a future with, but have fond memories of fucking when she's masturbating.

VS

Relationship guy

- Guy girls would not consider having sex with on the first night and make you hold out for months paying for date until they feel like you've earned the right to have sex with them.
- Guy who cannot walk out with a new girl everytime he visits a bar/club. Very rare chance it happens.
- Guy who girls kinda wants to sleep with you. Your basically good enough for a lay.
- Guy girls will withold sexual acts upon because they don't want you to view them as sluts in relationship or think less of them.
- Guy who girls will talk wonderful things about to their friends and families.
-Guy who is not seeing multiple girls at the same time and most girls see him as a friend.
-Guy girls see for LTR and companionship. See a future together with you and having kids.
- Guy who girl holds to a higher level of accountab

[katiesmuff]

Not the greatest perspective I have ever seen for comparing guys for sure. I when younger admittedly was the girl who went after and got the fling guys, but I was also the fling girl who was not looking for any kind of relationship. I was just interested in fucking him and go our separate ways. STDs as you state was never passed back and forth and that was without condoms ever used. It was a wild and crazy time in my life.
When I did wake up and realized I was going nowhere with this lifestyle the good luck fairy put this wonderful guy in front of me. Five years later he is my husband of two years and the love of my life.
I managed to come through the wild side unscathed fortunately but I don't regret the time. Everybody got what they wanted no strings attached. That said entering the relationship portion of my life it is so much more refreshing, fulfilling, loving and caring. Would never ever trade this for the old life. I should mention that my relationship began with Mark and I having sex after our 1st date and blossomed from that point forward through some very challenging moments.

[SweetHomicidalQueen]

If I am in a relationship with a dude, I'm gonna do all the kinky shit he wants with him! I'm not 'holding out' to have sex but when you want a relationship, sex shouldn't be priority number 1. Also, he'd be able to have any female friends but if she does anything I will fuck her up.
If I was a dude I'd rather be the relationship guy, not the fling guy. Relationships tend to be a lot more happier than flings when done correctly. Happy relationships are better for your self esteem than multiple flings. Flings aren't gonna get you anywhere. Besides, if I was a dude I'd be lucky enough to have ONE woman wanting to fuck me let alone multiple. So I'd definitely go with relationship guy.

[Alej27]

Very funny comparison. Let be fair a girl likes a confident guy and we all have different preferences. So a shy gu y can be a fling and vice versa. They really are no rule and also u can have sex one time and catch an std with your boyfriend etc... so here again it doesn't mean that a relationship guy is safer or a fling guy has an std.
But yes of course there are times in your life where you want someone fun not an asshole. Someone u can laugh with and nice. At the end you want a mate not a sex addict that's not the point. Sex is part of the relationship

[BuchitaBuchys]

You make the relationship guy sound like crap. In reality, he gets to go home and have crazy sex with the woman who loves and values him and not some random, disease ridden fluzy.

[TwistedLogic]

It is 50/50. Each situation has its pros and cons.

[Investigator]

I agree with the other posters. I would rather be the fling guy and be able to choose a relationship or a fling (though I would probably go for a relationship; I'm, unfortunately, sort of the jealous type and I don't like to my woman with other guys). I live by the principle "better to have it and not need it, than bed it and not feed it." Wait, that's not right…

I would prefer to know she wants me like that, than have to guess. That way, I know she is being honest and not just putting up a front. Even if I want to sleep with her, I want her to want me to sleep with her. If only I'm wanting it, then I can't enjoy it.

[JSmuve]

Well when you put it that way... the fling guy. It seems like the relationship guy is just getting worked over because he's safe and not worth being with. Basically someone to be her emotional tampon while she waits for someone better to come along. I've got more self-respect than that.

What I'd really prefer is a combination of the two. I want a relationship with a girl who sees me sexually as the fling guy.

[bomba78]

you have a very wrong and biased view of relationships. If you are with the right person and both are on the same page. both are secure, intelligent and independent people, then you don't have any of the shit of bad relationships.

[AustinMan]

I wanna be a relationship guy on an ongoing fling and it's possible: I've done it.

[Bvroon]

I'm really a relationship guy, its just how I'm made, I used to get mad at fling guys, until I realized that is not who I am, and even if girls threw themselves at me, I wouldn't take advantage of them because that is not who I am, and I'm okay with that. Fortunately for me my wife is also very okay with it too. ;-)

[GirlsLie]

Oh look another guy who idolizes shoving his dick in anything with a hole. Such a rare sighting.

[BuchitaBuchys]

Lol for real.

[GoodDogNigel]

Actually if you read the descriptions, he's pretty negative about the fling guy. The poster has problems, but that's not one of them.

[GirlsLie]

Well I was talking about some of the guys answering also lol but you're right, it's not flattering to either.

[RamCharger_D]

Relationship guy for sure bro, but you make it sound lame AF! lol fling guys don't get to take their females on wheeling adventures or have the fun romantic things only couples get. Besides, 99.9% of us don't have the club going up on a Tuesday, or any other day of the work week lol, wanna come home to some dudes or your girl? That's my.02$
:D

[Felinegirl]

Lol guys are exactly 50/50

[NJ_Casanova]

Always end up being the Fling guy, even thought I go in trying to be the relationship guy... Oh well... It is what it is;-(

[ClassicRocker]

I'd rather be the guy that gets Zooey Deschanel

[Agrojag]

In reality, neither of these but between these two extremes I will take the fling guy no doubt. I've had enough experience with girls to realize how overrated relationships are and how often they fail so quickly.

[DodgersGM]

I'm surprised this question has stayed up for so long.

I'd rather be the relationship guy with a relationship girl.

[Bluemax]

I think your characterizations are on the simple side.

[BeMuse]

Just because a guy is attractive and able to pick up girls, doesn’t mean he has porno kinks, hasn’t heard of condoms, is willing to be a home wrecker, is exempt from nagging, isn’t seen as a potential future boyfriend, doesn’t have girls falling for him emotionally and talking about him to their friends, or that he’s incapable of a relationship or responsibility dude. Come on get real.

[LoveLikeRockets]

Neither.

The fling guy more than likely isn't deemed good enough for a relationship and the women who go for the relationship guy usually do so because they're tired of servicing multiple dicks and want to settle down. Both options are shitty.

[Metlahaed]

Both, you get to have your cake and eat it too!

[BelleGirl21]

Wouldn't give a player the time of day.

[Prof_Don]

I'd rather be the fling guy, becauae I know for certain that she is genuinely attracted to me physically.

If you are a relationship guy all the time but never a fling guy, you don't know for sure how attracted the girl is to you. But If women constantly want to casually fuck you, then u are 100% certain those women are attracted to you. #RealTalk

[Bandit74]

Id rather be the fling guy but without the stds or seeing multiple girls at the same time.

[walkthelinexx]

That first pic is not appropriate for gag

[idkwtftoputhere]

YEAH @OFFICIALCHADWHITE FROM INSTAGRAM

[katiesmuff]

@idkwtftoputhere Why do you think the pic is NOT appropriate for GAG? We are on a site that has adult material on a regular basis in the two adult sections. This is not a pornographic picture by any standard which would be prohibited. Point is this: You have choices here and if this offends you so much I guess I can't see why you would even be on this section of the GAG site.

[walkthelinexx]

@katiesmuff i never said it offended me. Personally I don't care. But there are little kids on this site so maybe if posts like these are going to have nudity they should be flagged (explicit) or something

[alphadoggystyle]

@katiesmuff technically considering the guy posting it is a pornstar, im pretty sure that first pic he posted in this question is taken from a porno shoot. but i guess because technically can't see anything then the picture is fine.

[walkthelinexx]

@alphadoggystyle you can see her nipple :/

[idkwtftoputhere]

@katiesmuff what the fuck are you going on about, I was just calling out Asker cuz he's an obvious catfish lmfao

[Katy16]

Relationship is always way better

[ConsultantIsBack]

the guy that is holding the naked girl, i want to be him. whatever he is, i want to be him lmaoooo

[ConsultantIsBack]

But for real, below age 23 everything is a fling anyways, mid 20s and up its relationships.

[akadatank44]

I'm calling your girl rn to tell her to do that for you 😉

[ConsultantIsBack]

@akadatank44 in pure public like that lol nude piggy back ride!!

[akadatank44]

You want me to give you a pick back ride nude? 😨😨😨😱😱😱... alright 😏 haha #nohomo

[ConsultantIsBack]

@akadatank44 no not you, no offense, unless you have tits n pussy?

[akadatank44]

Haha nope! If I had a dick and a pussy you think I'd be on here? 😂😂