Answer as Anonymous. What do you think is more attractive in a guy?

1) Do you find a muscular guy's body whose muscles are defined the most attractive kind of body? 2) Do you find skinny (not thin - skinny) guys or chubby guys more attractive? 3) Do you find risk taking (to one's physical condition/well-being of others) an attractive quality? This could also include extreme sports, driving cars or motorcycles too fast, and drinking alcohol 5) Do you think arrogant guys are attractive? 6) Do you find it attractive when a guy is possessive of you and reacts violently (verbally and/or physically - say which if yes) when someone expresses sexual (not in a rape way) or romantic interest towards you? 4) Do you prefer it and/or find it attractive when a guy, as his general approach, behaves in a way that's over-confident about doing something, or about his abilities in general, -INSTEAD OF- not making a decision immediately (if he's not aware of a choice that's good enough for the situation, of-course), and wait until he has gathered enough information, so he can make a better decision? 5) Do you prefer for a guy to be wiser but less funny or funny but less wise? Let's say average wisdom and funny or above average wisdom but less funny 6) Do you find consenting rough/dominating sex, where the guy is being rough/dominating, hot? Do you think only a guy who has certain traits or views can participate in such kind of sex? If you do, what are those traits or views? 7) Do you find consenting rough/dominating sex, where the girl is being rough/dominating, hot? Do you think only a girl who has certain traits or views can participate in such kind of sex? If you do, what are those traits or views? IF YOU PREFER TO, YOU CAN ANSWER NOT AS ANONYMOUS. YOU DON'T NECESSARILY HAVE TO ANSWER EVERY SINGLE QUESTION.
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  • Do you find a muscular guy's body whose muscles are defined the most attractive kind of body?
    - Muscle is attractive, but extremely defined muscles aren't necessarily the most attractive thing to me.

    Do you find skinny (not thin - skinny) guys or chubby guys more attractive?
    - I'm more attracted to bodies with a little more substance to them.

    Do you find risk taking (to one's physical condition/well-being of others) an attractive quality?
    This could also include extreme sports, driving cars or motorcycles too fast, and drinking alcohol
    - Absolutely not. I want to be with someone who will actually survive to share a life with me.

    Do you think arrogant guys are attractive?
    - Nope. Confident, yes- arrogant, no.

    Do you find it attractive when a guy is possessive of you and reacts violently (verbally and/or physically - say which if yes) when someone expresses sexual (not in a rape way) or romantic interest towards you?
    - I love it when guys are a little possessive, because it makes me feel valued. But violence and rude behavior are not attractive.

    Do you prefer it and/or find it attractive when a guy, as his general approach, behaves in a way that's over-confident about doing something, or about his abilities in general, -INSTEAD OF- not making a decision immediately (if he's not aware of a choice that's good enough for the situation, of-course), and wait until he has gathered enough information, so he can make a better decision?
    - Being decisive and confident is attractive, but being smart about decisions is even better.

    Do you prefer for a guy to be wiser but less funny or funny but less wise?
    Let's say average wisdom and funny or above average wisdom but less funny
    - I could go either way. Wisdom and a sense of humor are both very attractive traits. But I don't need someone who is a clown all the time. Just someone who will make me laugh once in a while.

    Do you find consenting rough/dominating sex, where the guy is being rough/dominating, hot?
    - Yes, but only up to a point.

    Do you think only a guy who has certain traits or views can participate in such kind of sex? If you do, what are those traits or views?
    - I have no idea.

    Do you find consenting rough/dominating sex, where the girl is being rough/dominating, hot?
    - Not really, I'm more on the submissive side.

    Do you think only a girl who has certain traits or views can participate in such kind of sex? If you do, what are those traits or views?
    - Again, no idea.

  • 1) Do you find a muscular guy's body whose muscles are defined the most attractive kind of body?
    Not really? I like a little bit of muscle, but not a lot. I think mostly just a little arm and leg muscle is attractive.

    2) Do you find skinny (not thin - skinny) guys or chubby guys more attractive?
    Chubby.

    3) Do you find risk taking (to one's physical condition/well-being of others) an attractive quality?
    Nah.

    5) Do you think arrogant guys are attractive?
    I guess it kind of depends on how arrogant. I think a little is hot at first, but it gets old really fast too.

    6) Do you find it attractive when a guy is possessive of you and reacts violently (verbally and/or physically - say which if yes) when someone expresses sexual (not in a rape way) or romantic interest towards you?
    I think the first few couple of times might be nice in the honeymoon phase when you're like, "Oh my gosh, he really cares about me since he'd fight someone for me," but then you realize it's not a good quality and I'd probably feel smothered. Violence doesn't really appeal to me.

    4) Do you prefer it and/or find it attractive when a guy, as his general approach, behaves in a way that's over-confident about doing something, or about his abilities in general, -INSTEAD OF- not making a decision immediately (if he's not aware of a choice that's good enough for the situation, of-course), and wait until he has gathered enough information, so he can make a better decision?
    I think a lot of girls go for guys who are overly confident, but logical, sometimes hesitant guys are also really attractive and are more relationship material.

    5) Do you prefer for a guy to be wiser but less funny or funny but less wise?
    Wiser and less funny.

    6) Do you find consenting rough/dominating sex, where the guy is being rough/dominating, hot?
    Yes.

    Do you think only a guy who has certain traits or views can participate in such kind of sex? If you do, what are those traits or views?
    No, I think people can be different in the bedroom. It doesn’t necessarily have to do with personality.

    7) Do you find consenting rough/dominating sex, where the girl is being rough/dominating, hot?
    Yes.

    Do you think only a girl who has certain traits or views can participate in such kind of sex? If you do, what are those traits or views?
    Not necessarily.

    • "... overly confident, but logical...", do you mean that they are overly confident but are also logical? The punctuation made me somewhat unsure of what you mean And by "logical" you mean they don't make a big deal of something that's not true or accurate? Do you mean that they already have a sense of what a good decision would be? Something else?

    • A lot of the guys that I have dealt with who are overly confidently aren't the best decision makers, so yes, a logical guy with a sense of what a good decision would be is much more attractive.

    • Thanks.

  • 1) no, too much muscle is a turn off
    2) I dislike skinny
    3) ah... not much. moderate risk is nice. extreme risk will make me worry about the person.
    4) arrogant is a turn off
    5) violent possessive is a turn off
    6) it's better when the person makes an informed decision whether it's immediate or if it takes him time. I like men who know what they want and don't need much time to sort things out... I like realistic people, pragmatic...

    • 2) - Are you able to explain why? 3) - What's extreme risk? And if you're able to, explain what you meant by "moderate risk is nice". What's "moderate risk"? And by "nice" do you mean not a must in a guy to be attracted to, but OK if that's the case and it's kind of attractive? 5) - To you, why is a remark attractive (if that's what you meant)? 6) - To clarify: You DON'T mean you'd prefer and/or think it's attractive if they do what they see fit to serve their interest, while not willing to seek a more right/correct way?

  • 1) no, muscular but not too lean
    2) something in-between would be best, just something healthy
    3) definitely, as I do that myself
    4) no, not at all
    5) wiser - as in intelligent, right?
    6) yeah
    7) I like my partner being rough either way (bisexual)

    • Wiser may include knowledge about things the majority of people don't know (more like things you go to study), but the meaning was more about arriving at what seems probably right or correct

    • Like your view of something (for example, an ethical question, a person, a situation)/a decision you make is right and/or correct

    • Yeah gotcha

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  • Ima answer this for you if you talking about above 8/10s Tall jacked and pull more in hour than these nerds in all their life

  • Ugh.. Does he lift. Only question that needs to be asked here lol.

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  • I find someone that can let loose and be fun and be serious when they need to is attractive. If they love to laugh be goofy and a kind person that's what makes me attractive to someone.

  • Yes
    Skinny
    No
    To a point
    HELL YEA
    No
    Above average wisdom
    Kinda
    Yea

    • 2) - Are you able to explain why? 3) - What's extreme risk? And if you're able to, explain what you meant by "moderate risk is nice". What's "moderate risk"? And by "nice" do you mean not a must in a guy to be attracted to, but OK if that's the case and it's kind of attractive? 5) - To you, why is a remark attractive (if that's what you meant)? 6) - To clarify: You DON'T mean you'd prefer and/or think it's attractive if they do what they see fit to serve their interest, while not willing to seek a more right/correct way?

    • Mistake, wasn't meant for you.

    • Regardless, thanks a lot for answering

  • Answered yes to everything

    Skinny over chubby

    Funny and less wise over wise and less funny

    Only a girl with more submissive trairs can have sex where she is out of control or she wouldn't like it. The same goes for men

    • The meaning wasn't being tied or, like, also strap-on stuff for guys (I'm saying because it's uncommon that straight guys would be anally penetrated, in a perhaps painful way), if that's what you meant by out of control. I don't think you necessarily did mean that, just clarifying.

    • *The meaning wasn't only

    • I didn't mean that, but more straight guys than you'd think are into anal play.. Except not the painful kind

  • 1. No. It's not an unattractive body, but not most attractive to have super defined and muscular body.
    2. Probably skinny/slim, but chubby guys are also cute.
    3. No
    4. Gather the info first before making a decision.
    5. Funny but less wise. Both of course would be great.
    6. Sometimes, not all the time. No to the second part.
    7. It depends. Again, I don't like it all the time, but sometimes if I'm in the mood for it, it can be hot.

  • 1, 2, 3, 5, 6, 4, 5, 6, 7? Do you not know how to count?

    • Alright, just saw the update.

  • You numbered these wrong, but I'll just go in order and put what number u said it was
    1) yes
    2) skinny
    3) no not really
    5) I'm attracted to their confidence
    6) NOOO
    4) not really I don't know
    5 again) funny
    6 again)
    7)

  • 1 No, skinny guys are most attractive
    2 ^
    3 Sometimes a little if it's only minor, but drinking not really 'cause I don't drink - I don't care if the guy drinks it's just not something that'll attract me to him, and I kinda worry about being judged for being teetotal
    4 No I like guys who are shyer and more cautious
    5 I s'pose funny but less wise
    6 Only if it's mild, and I prefer to be the dom tbh
    7 Nope, if it's what he wants, we can do it
    8 ^ but with different pronouns

  • 1) no
    2) chubby
    3) yes but no drugs/alcohol/smoking
    4) I don't like overly confident guys, my first instinct is to not trust them
    5) funny over wise
    6) yes I find it extremely hot and every guy can do it, no specific traits needed