Why does my boyfriend want a threesome?

We've had sex before multiple times and next thing I know he randomly (drops a hint) that he's always wanted a threesome. The thing is is that I don't want to with another girl so he suggested a guy (his friend) and I agreed to it meaning that it happened but why would he really want one? What's so special about it and I thought he would think it was kind of weird with another guy doing stuff to me but he actually loved it... Thoughts please? (Yeah my profile says under 18 I never got that fixed I'm definitely older.)
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Most Helpful Guys

  • i hv done threesomes. but its MFF. why? because it gives a lot of pleasure and its fun.
    But all 3 must agree and maintain some rules they agree. i'll never force or coax my girl to it if she has slightest hesitation.
    The experiences i had suggest that girls also love it. But its best if the other guys is a stranger or "one off" person u would do it only once u pick from a club or etc.
    So, apart from thinking weird, did you enjoy it? did you feel you are so loved or sexy?

  • because the relationship is over and he is trying to bring excitement into a relationship. or he wants to fuck the other woman and just won't finally break up with you. if you love someone you never want them to have sex with someone else, and you sure don't want to go through having sex with someone else. if you desire it, the relationship is done. or your a scumbag.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Some guys really like this.

    There is cuckholding, and the "hot wife" fetishes..

    then there is just straight up voyeurism or MFM

    How did you feel about being with the other guy?

    • It was weird because 1. It was my ex and 2. I've had sex with him before and he still likes me... My boyfriend even knew that he was my ex and I've done stuff with him. My ex would be like "Not gonna lie but I kinda missed you." and "Oh m/n you always tease." What's even weirder is that my boyfriend freakin interacted with him and agreed with him on a lot and I got so confused and was like "Really guys?" But after my ex left my boyfriend was like "... I think he still likes you m/n" and I brushed it off as a no and he's like "He wouldn't of left like that if he didn't... I really think he still likes you."

    • so, did you enjoy having sex with someone else while he watched? Did it make it hotter? awkward? How did your bf's reaction make you feel?

  • Yout boyfriend is definitely not the rype of men i would date! He doesn't even care about sharibg you with other men? Smh...
    But to each their own...

  • its a common fantasy and turn-on for some guys.

    Many other guys would go for FMF, but freak the heck out if MFM is ever mentioned.

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  • To each their own I guess

  • So how was it? Did you like it?

  • Well many of you want an MMF, and yes your boyfriend is really weird, for sharing you.

  • Because he is an animal.

  • It turns some guys on. For me, if she was getting an extreme amount of pressure from it I would love it even more! Hope that helped.

    • sorry for the info but I know I got a lot haha

  • Some guys just have the fantasy.

  • I shared my girlfriend before we married. I loved seeing her enjoy another guy inside her. She offered the first fmf threesome and we eventually did mmf. I loved it.