I filmed my friends girlfriend naked and she knows. What do I do?

Question

So I hid a camera to see my friends girlfriend naked and I did, but I'm pretty sure she found the camera and turned it face down. So now my minds racing. Did she not see it? Why would she not stop the recording or erase it? I found it laying in plain sight so I can't imagine she didn't notice it. My friend would snap if he knew so I'm pretty sure she won't tell him but now I'm stuck thinking how it's going to affect mine and her relationship I love her. I don't know if I love love her but I'm around her almost every day I guess the idea of seeing her naked got the best of me I don't know why I gambled so much on seeing her naked ugh i feel horrible inside about it all. So do I approach her about it and confess and hope she forgives me? Or do I let it pass and hope she forgets it as well? Or just lie even tho it'll be hard to convince her I wasn't filming her :/ 
me and her have talked about things her and her boyfriend would never discuss we have a deep friendship and I feel like I totally threw that out the window and betrayed her privacy. If you were the girl here would you hate me forever or forgive me since we're so close friends? I'll do anything to get past this and have her friendship I don't even care if he knows I just want us to be ok I know I'm sounding selfish and narcissistic but it's how I feel right now. Proactive advice please don't act like you never wanted to see someone naked, I just acted on my urge I know I'm disgusting you don't have to tell me I feel it deep inside like everyone can tell the awful deed I done :/

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Awesome job on coming forward. No you are not a creep. Doesn't seem like you have share the recording with anybody, it was clearly for your own pleasure.
Have you watched it, what did she do? how did she react after she found it?
If you don't know, well she still put it back and did not get angry at you?
Maybe she just finds it a bit creepy, but she understands and she lets you have your little pleasure this way.
Maybe the fact of being filmed by you turns her on, and he lets you have your pleasure on purpose.
Maybe she is a bit kinky, and this could lead to more.
But what ever she though about, she did not come forward about finding it, so maybe act like you don't know that she knows.
Don't tell her about it, unless you both have already become way more than just friends. Like after you had sex with her.

And the fact that she got a boyfriend might not mean anything at all. It might also be the reason why she doesn't tell.
She probably knows already from before that you fancy her, but she is taken. Maybe this is just all she will let you have of her.

Nicolás25 · Accepted Answer

Its ok man everyone makes mistakes and everyone has something that isn't pretty inside of them it doesn't mean that that's who you are nothing labels your actions aren't who you are hour much more than that with that being said it was wrong and you need to promise yourself to not invade anyone's privacy like that and to not allow lust to control your actions learn to develop self-control as for what you should do its up to you but might i say that she doesn't sound interested in you she has a boyfriend and you are that one friend that wants her but won't tell her stop letting you fears stop you from telling girls you like them I'm afraid it's too late now but with other women you might like make it obvious flirt joke show you want more than a friendship or else you will be that guy that is just a friend and have been that for so long its impossible for her to see you differently

lolasmith23 · Accepted Answer

You should tell her the truth. You're probably gonna be single afterwards but that's karma for what you did. I don't know if her friend can press charges but if the girl was underage and someone finds out that could be considered child pornography.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

um well you deserve to get the shit kicked out of you for trying to film someone without their knowledge or permission. "don't act like you never wanted to see someone naked" not without their consent, creep.

truthhammer · Answer

if you're my friend id beat the fuck outta you. its your boys girl. you must be a white guy

Dred1614 · Answer

Is it possible for you to leave the camera and never attempt to retrieve it? That would be the best option. I can't resist: What the hell was going through your head when you did this?