My boyfriend has a lactation fetish but I have small breasts?

The other day I had the most uncomfortable sexual experience. My boyfriend was getting frustrated that he kept getting soft. I am not curvy and I don't have much "junk in the trunk" or big breasts. Basically I feel like I have not much to offer him sexually. He told me he has a lactating fetish where he sucks milk from womens breasts but I am flat chested. And that's what I told him. The sex was so bad he just stopped and left. I feel like that was the end for us. Why would he mention something like that when he knows I can't give it to him? Made me feel even more incompetent in bed. I don't know what to do. He has mentioned that he had sex with an older woman before and that he had no trouble having orgasms.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Unless you was faking your breasts size, it's more his fault then your's, he should had already that you are flat chested, even without seeing you topless, I am totally understand yours boyfriend lactation fetish and big breasts preference, but if it's so important he should not be in relationship with an girl with an small breasts in the first place.

    • Exactly it hurts so much to have sex with someone who clearly doesn't want you/would rather be with someone else.

    • Even as an guy that prefer an big breasts, I can tell you that your boyfriend is too obsessive about big breasts, I mean you still have an young body and vagina, so why can't he have sex with you? he is even preferring an old woman with big breasts then an young woman with small breasts, so it's obvious that you two didn't have an compatibility.

  • Size doesn't matter cause it has nothing to do with lactation

    • I'm not pregnant or lactating. I barely have any breast tissue around my nipple so why mention it during sex?

    • He was probably just pissed cause he couldn't get what he wants

Most Helpful Girl

  • What does that have to do with you and your size?
    Besides, you can only lactate at the end of pregnancy and as long as you're breast feeding. Which you are capabke of as long as you have nipples.

    • How am I supposed to enjoy myself during sex when I know he's thinking about other women? Women who are older with big lactating breasts. I am young, flat chested, and not lactating

    • Did he even tried to suck your breasts or did he ignore them completely?

    • @Berethor He did but he got bored

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  • This is a very tough question. I'm having difficulty deciding, is he more of limp-dicked fetishist or more of a stupid asshole? It's tough! I'm know! He's both!

    • by the way, its his problem, not yours. Tell him to fuck off and die!