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I have big boobs at 14. What should I do?

I'm 14 and I have HUGE boobs. They bounce all the time and a ton of girls think I'm a slut because I sometimes don't wear bras because they're too small. On Friday, my English teacher made this hilarious joke and everyone was laughing so hard and I laughed so hard that I almost died. I noticed that everyone stopped laughing and were staring at my boobs because they were bouncing like crazy!! I blushed so hard and this one really bitchy girl whispered "look at her, I bet even her boobs are turning red" I felt awful. Lately, I had a bunch of other embarrassing boob moments like my nipples poke through my shirt, they jiggle when I walk to class, they bump into people, knock stuff over, stretch out my shirts, and everyone stares at them, even my teachers. They're insanely huge. And on Monday, I was walking to class and these sophomore boys yelled "Hey, your rack is seeeeexxxxxyyyy!" And I blushed so hard and ran to my class and that made them jiggle even more. I'm thin and I wear a 30K. I feel so filthy with my boobs, like a porn star. And I should be wearing a t-shirt and it's still slutty! What should I do? 😞
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  • There is noting filthy or slutty about having large boobs. It's just the genetics you were born with. Yes, I understand it's very embarrassing at times, but don't confuse that, with who you are, or thinking you are less than, because your boobs are large. It may help a little, if you can develop a more, "yes, they are mine, yes, they are big, and I love them, because they are part of me", attitude. Try to embrace what you have. Everybody knows you have them, so don't act like there is some secret to keep. If you knock something over with them, say oops, and laugh a little, before someone else can laugh. If you poke someone with them, they will just have to accept it, or get out of the way. They are your's, they are fine, and they need room, type of attitude. I don't mean in a rude or crude way, I mean in a practical, this is how it is way, and I will, and I can, make the best of it. Work on being confident. There is a saying, "fake it, 'til you make it." If they bounce, then they bounce, That's just the way it is, If they don't like it, don't look. Not in a cocky way, but in a confident, I'm proud of who I am way. No matter what you do, no matter what you say, there will always be some naysayers. Don't let them get to you. Be your own person. The time will come, when you will be able to have a breast reduction, but at your age, that will be a while yet. Hang in there girl, let your boobs make you more powerful, by embracing who you are, defining yourself by who you are inside, not by your boobs. Slough off what goes wrong, move on, don't get dragged down by the mistakes or embarrassing parts. The less you let yourself be embarrassed, the less you will be embarrassed, and the less others will make of it. Go for it girl!

  • You know the story of Dumbo? An elephant with big ears who was made fun off because of that but used his ears to fly? ... well, just do what he did... and fly into the sunset!!!

    • Flying boobs?

    • Yaaaas kiddo! Fly into the sunset and neveeeer turn back!!! #TrustMeImAsian

Most Helpful Girls

  • Get a good bra, if you can't find/afford one that fits, then at least get a cheap sports bra. The only place I can find bras is at Victoria's Secret, most people probably think I shop there just because it's Victoria's Secret, but I literally can't find bras anywhere else. My chest is too big and my circumference is too small to find bras at Target or JCPenny's or really anywhere else that sells bras cheaper. I have to have the double adjusted straps otherwise they won't fit and my boobs sit weird in the cups.
    The stares are just something you'll have to get used to, as you get older eventually people will be more discreet about it, but they'll still stare. I had the same problem because mine grew in the 6th grade before everyone else and I would just wear baggy T-shirts so people wouldn't stare. I'm only just now wearing normal fitted clothes and not boy's clothes because I've learned to accept that people will stare and there's nothing I can do about it besides ignore them and show them that it doesn't bother me. Just be confident with what you have if people judge you for something you can't control then that says more about them as a person than it does you.

  • Its really asshole-y of your classmates to bully you like that. But well, that's what 14 year olds are like. You could try to lose weight or lose fat and gain muscle, but that will only have limited effect. When you are older you can consider getting surgery but that's quite drastic.
    However, you could also try to accept and love them. Guys will like them, girls will be jealous but when you show your insecurities and nice personality they will understand. Best of luck!

  • Get properly fitted for a bra. Proper support is very important.

    And the best advice I ever got regarding boobs was to never EVER buy cheap bras.

    When you have big boobs, It's better to spend the money on a higher quality bra. You're boobs will sag less when you get older.

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  • Try wearing a bra. Simple as that. Maybe even a sports bra or a minimizer.

  • Get and ace bandage and strap em down.

  • Wear a sports bra... and always always wear a bra... and honestly I highly highly doubt your thin and a 30K, try not to exaggerate

  • Go get fitted properly for a bra and make sure it fits right before you buy it. Buy a minimiser bra that helps make your breasts look smaller, or get a sports bra for great support.

  • One of my closest friend used to have the same "Issue" but she grew up to love them! I mean teenagers are stupid, and they'll make fun of you no matter what...

  • well there's nothing much you can do anyways , just embrace the fact that you've got big boobs. I would suggest wearing a good bra , like sports bra or something , and try to avoid any actions that would make them bounce. Plus you should embrace yourself and be confident , that way people will start respecting you more and more. confidence works from inside out not the other way around!

  • woah ur lucky to have big boobs but if i were you id find a bra ur size (im sures thers one big enough u can get) and maybe dont show as much cleavage
    you should expect to get attention from guys when ur boobs are that big

  • Look, this is obviously a problem i know little about, but many people are recommending a reduction, i would suggest to only do that if you really want to, otherwise, don't worry, these people who are judging you are probably stating it out of an insecurity of their own, knowing that you're an easy target, and then scapegoating you, it's nothing to worry about, and they'll eventually grow out of it, all you have to do it be the better person, don't cave to the comments and get on with school, learn, make friends, have fun. lastly, don't hate those who make these comments, they're people just like you are, show that you don't have a problem with them, it might baffle them, but they might grow to like you. so all in all, don't worry, be happy.

  • You clearly need to invest in a sport bra.

  • When you are 18 go for porn you will get famous af in no time

  • You need to find a good bra. One that's supportive, preferably a sports bra. It'll help with the jiggling and all.

  • Enjoy them sweetie :)

    • Fucking hell dude this is a 14 year old

  • You can always get a reduction and save your back

  • Wear good bras.

  • Well there is nothing you can really do at your age (it's all
    In your genetics). Just get the right bra from your parents and get people to like you for you , not your boobs. If they laugh at you because of them then they are people that still got a lot of growing up to do. If someone makes a joke about them, then laught with them, that will help the solve the problem (because if you are laugh that ruins there fun). Besides some of people that make fun of you might be jealous. This is all assuming people are making fun of you.

  • wear a bra that is the rights size. as for the people, tell them to shuv off. the girls r just jealouse, that's y they r teasing u.

  • Stop lying

    • *Me singing * why you always lying... Your a 30k at 14 yeah right

  • Invest in some good bras.

  • Well, firstly it's part of who you are nothing you can do about it! And fuck those who comment and try to bring you down, the girls are jealous!

  • How big are they? If they are that big get your self some really good bras. Try going to a boutique.

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