My advice is to NOT rush out and broadcast the fact that you're bisexual (or bi-curious) to the world right now. A few reasons...
- At your age, lots of things are going on and your feelings and sexuality are probably in a state of flux. The cement is still wet, it hasn't set yet, and it's sloshing around. Maybe you are bisexual and will be for the rest of your life, but it also is possible that right now you're having bisexual feelings and in a few years those feelings won't be nearly as strong. There's nothing wrong with being bi (I'm bi, too), but don't rush to make a formal announcement about it. There's simply no need.
-You'll probably get a reaction from whoever you do tell... Your family may or may not accept this part of you, they may tease you or hold it against you. Or they may love you just the same and respect it. It could go either way. You might lose some friends who aren't mature enough to understand what it means, and who are worried that you're going to try and sleep with them or have feelings towards them that you don't. Most will probably be fine, but there probably will be some who aren't.
Same goes for classmates at school.
Lay low for a few more years. Don't try and hide who you are or be someone you aren't, but don't make a formal announcement to people who are so involved in your life (family) at your age when you know that they will most likely react in a way that doesn't work out well for you.
If they happen to notice certain things and can connect the dots themselves, fine, but don't be in a hurry to make a big announcement when the whole family is sitting around the table for Christmas dinner.
Don't go renting a billboard to let the whole city know that "LolliesChan is Bisexual"
Explore who you are, date guys and girls, have fun and embrace this part of you, but don't make a big deal out of it, ya know?
Good luck!1 1 0 0This is really helpful, thank you! I will take everything you said into consideration and take it with me in thought! :) h
First off you're born that way, just like you're born straight, and there's nothing wron wig being gay and or bi. Especially now that it's legal to marry as a gay person, which I'm very proud that we've finally gotten that. It was a real stepping stone for the states to do that. Anyway, the reason why it felt weird to come out was that you're now letting your same sex friends know that you could develop feeling for them and that if they want to stop being friends with you because you're bi, it allows them that ability without being caught off guard. It was a very noble thing of you to do by coming out. Now all you do is just hope that your family can accept that
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0 2Fuck what other people think, just be who you are and enjoy it. If anyone in your family has a problem with you because of your sexual preferences they can't be that good of a family member... also enjoy some humor.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EkFewRm_YC41 0 0 0Its ok. I love bisexuals and im sure there are many others like me
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