Guys, I feel like I can't truly be sexy with small boobs?

[Anonymous]

I kinda put this in a different question but labelled it in a way that isn't garnering helpful responses so... I'm short and slim with a small bone structure. I have a dainty body with a small waist, small boobs (like big A small B) and hips, thighs, and ass that are big in comparison. That's where I tend to carry my weight. Guys compliment my thighs and ass a lot, but always point out my small boobs If I work out I can have very nice legs and a very nice ass, my tummy is already flat but it could be toned... so basically everything would look pretty damn good but.. I have tiny boobs. So I feel like its pointless to even try because I'll never truly be sexy. I can look good but I feel like guys will always have my lack of boobage in the back of their minds or they'll see a girl with big boobs and lust for her more. It's just something that really ruins my confidence. I just don't even feel like trying

[ak666]

Sounds gorgeous to me. I don't know why women have this obsession with big boobs. I want to label it as largely a female obsession because, while I know my share of guys who are into massive boobs, I also know just as many who aren't.

Look at Sharon Stone in The Basic Instinct era. She had very little going in the chest area, but she was hailed as a sexual goddess and world-wide (I've even visited remote parts of Asia where she was considered a goddess).

To me beauty is largely tied to function, health, personality, posture, etc. There are too many variables I tend to account for to narrow it down to boob size, and hopefully many men are likewise similar.

With beauty outside of function and health and as a cultural phenomena, the women who grace fashion magazines aren't exactly the Dolly Parton types. If you're blessed with a dainty figure, then that often is perceived stereotypically as eloquence and grace. You can use that to your advantage instead of worrying about boob size by somewhat embracing that cultural stereotype instead of trying to change how you look.

[Asker]

Thank you. :)

[Shaft50]

I like girls with varied boob sizes... obviously not the same girl with different sizes, but different girls with different sizes... for example, Cameron Diaz's body, Kate Hudson, Kiera Knightley, Milla Jovovich, Olivia Wilde to name a few... my current friends with benefits isn't large and she knows I also like girls with larger breasts as well... rock what you got! :-)

[Asker]

Trying

[Shaft50]

Hmmm, doesn't sound convincing... pm me

[Shaft50]

Thanks for mhg :-)

[HandsomeRaj]

My choice and preference is a pear shaped body on the girl specifically with A, B or max C size boobs with a defined waist, wider hips and bigger ass :D I find that HOT and sexy <3

[ksoma]

there are all sorts of body types, and there will always be someone who likes your type. even very small boobs can have an appeal, especially as you get older. you won't have to worry about sagging.
lastly, your body probably looks how it should. you might not look right with bigger boobs. i know i would much rather date a woman who was COMPLETELY flat chested than date a woman with implants.

[Justaskme88]

This isn't really a question :P

[OlderAndWiser]

Where did you come up with the idea that all guys want big boobs?

[Asker]

I know not ALL guys prefer big boobs but I think close to most prefer at least medium sized ones whereas mine are quite small

[OlderAndWiser]

I posted a question/poll some time ago and asked guys what size they would request if ordering their ideal girl from a catalog. Forty percent said they would prefer 34B or smaller. The big boob fascination is a myth created by Hollywood and other media.

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1592840-guys-if-you-are-in-fantasyland-you-get-to-order-a-companion-built

[Asker]

That survey is flawed for many reasons. Small sample size, for one. For another the larger cup sizes were accompanied by large band sizes which means the girl is bigger in general. Anyway, most Internet polls/questions tend to suggest guys prefer C/D cups.

[OlderAndWiser]

I;m not suggesting that a majority of guys prefer small boobs. There are three groups: A) prefer big boobs, B) prefer small boobs, and C) no preference. I think groups B and C outnumber group A. And there is much internet porn devoted to small boob girls.

[Asker]

I think the majority prefer medium sized breasts which means they don't prefer small boobs. I know there's plenty of guys that like small ones but I still feel like I don't measure up for most guys

[OlderAndWiser]

You don't need to be attractive to the majority of guys. You only need to attract one guy - The One.

[Asker]

That's nice in theory but absolutely no one wants to be attractive to just one person on the entire planet, but I don't believe in just one 'one' anyway so that notion is lost on me. I'm not wanting to be attractive to most guys but having a quality that is deemed unattractive by almost all guys is a bit of a bummer to say the very least

[OlderAndWiser]

Some guys don't like small boobs but most guys either don't care or actually prefer them. Really!

[ThisAndThat]

I have yet to ever pick a girl because of her boob size, that that will never happen, just so you know. And if a guy does pick girls based on their boob size, girls don't need him anyway.

[Berethor]

You are what you are, not any girl is blessed with an big natural boobs. You can go for the petite look, yes you are lacking in femininity compared to an girls that have an big boobs, but your small boobs may help you to look younger, for better and worse, also many guys prefer small boobs in comparison to an big artificial boobs and most girls with big boobs are taken. :P

tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/PetitePride

[DodgersGM]

Well, I'm sorry you feel that way, especially because I think you're greatly mistaken.

For example, I'm a boob guy -- always have been, always will be. But size genuinely does not matter to me. I can appreciate/lust after different types. It's really just about bring attracted to the girl more than anything else.

P. S. Some people will call BS on this, and that's fine. But this is my truth.

[Asker]

You seem like a genuine guy so I'm not doubting you. Thanks.

[DodgersGM]

Thanks for that. And you're welcome. I hope you can overcome it, because the obstacle is just an illusion.

[BertMacklinFBI]

don't sell yourself short. there are plenty of girls with small boobs that are sexy as fuck.

[Koji8123]

Intelligence > boob size any day of the week.

You seem intelligent. That's sexier that what a few ounces of adipose could give. Did you know the larger breasts are, the harder it is to transition them to infant feeding devices?

I guess if it really bothers you, you could always augment for a larger cup, but I'd like to state that natural are ALWAYS better.

[TripleAce]

Small boobs look good actually. I wouldn't worry much

[Asker]

it Just seems that most guys disagree

[TripleAce]

How old are these guys you're talking about

[Asker]

Just guys in general of all ages

[TripleAce]

Yea you're probably right but hips and booty is more important. If you have that boob size won't matter at all. If you dont have both then it becomes an issue.

[reptocarl]

Many including me prefer small tits