He came fast... good or bad?

[Anonymous]

So I had sex for the first time with my boyfriend after 2 months of dating. It was my first time ever having sex but he's had sex before, just not in some time since he hasn't been in a relationship for a year. Anyway, he did foreplay for 20ish minutes and then we were ready to go. I then hesitated more or less cause a sudden rush of nervousness because he was experienced and I clearly was not and he was quick to comfort me telling me the experience difference is fine and even extra that he would go slow/be gentle/etc. Then he stuck it in only for me to jolt back in pain in which he went out, kissing me and fingerings me more to loosen me up I guess then when he successfully got it in he lasted a single minute. I was like wtf? First off, what does it mean when guys come fast and is it good or bad?

[Gentle1Professor]

Many guys cum quickly if they are really stimulated and turned on by the person who they are putting it in. I think what you experienced is a pretty common occurrence for many guys. I did the same thing the first time I had sex with a girl who I was really crazy about and later got engaged to. We had been having heavy foreplay for several months and I did everything except push it in her. It would rest on the outside between her legs and I would move it back and forth but would not let it slide in. Finally, we decided to go all the way, I slipped on a condom and she guided me in. It felt so incredibly sexy that I almost came immediately. The more we did it the longer I lasted and finally got where we could go for several minutes before I had to cum.

You will be fine, just relax and be patient with him if you care for him. Do lots of foreplay and maybe some masturbating to help him get more comfortable with how wonderful your vagina feels surrounding his penis.

[igioxepp]

I struggled with premature ejaculation for years and years. I probably go in about 2-3 minutes max , mostly around 1-2 minutes. So happy I found "DAP247TAP" 👍 in Google and got Dapoxetine (just found V*agra and C*alis with dapoxetine). I popped one tab at about 9 o'clock and had intercourse about 11. I had sex for about 30 mins 😊. I felt the urge to ejaculate for about a min then all of a sudden it was gone. Did not ejaculate! Lets just say i got her off 3 times. She thinks I'm a p0rn star.

[MadeInAmerica]

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He was super excited. It was tight and felt good as hell. Also he was all jacked from the foreplay and his dick had a year off of being in anything. He will go longer than a minute next time.

[vonasaurus]

if he hasn't gotten any in a long time and comes fast, it usually means he's excited... which is a good thing, because it means you're a sex goddess.

(if he hasn't gotten any in a year, chances are he's stoked to have you, rather than his own hand, lol).

[nathaliaa]

Same thing that I was gonna say Lol

[igioxepp]

I struggled with premature ejaculation for years and years. I probably go in about 2-3 minutes max , mostly around 1-2 minutes. So happy I found "DAP247TAP" 👍 in Google and got Dapoxetine (just found V*agra and C*alis with dapoxetine). I popped one tab at about 9 o'clock and had intercourse about 11. I had sex for about 30 mins 😊. I felt the urge to ejaculate for about a min then all of a sudden it was gone. Did not ejaculate! Lets just say i got her off 3 times. She thinks I'm a p0rn star.

[Selena7777]

You said it yourself_it has been awhile for him. He may not cum so fast the next time.

[AustinMan]

I suggest you tell him that since it was new and all, you give him a pass on his premature ejaculation but from now on, you get yours first.

[Radford]

1. You sucked him off for like 20min
2. Your a virgin so that must have felt right for him
3. He was turned on.
4. Holy cow a whole minute

[frozenhorizon]

I think it's a good thing at this point, it probably means he was really turned on by you. If you have sex regularly it will probably last longer. He should try drinking alcohol or taking a relaxing supplement beforehand, that always works well for me. (sometimes it makes it take too long though!)

[Gabriel498]

Vonasaurus is right.. but he also need to understand that sex doesn’t need to end when he cums

[vinchente000]

Lasting usual doesn't matter if you are both satisfied which of course you weren't here but maybe he was nervous or something. Give it time and dont make him feel bad about it. With time he will probably last longer

[Anonymous]

Get over it. Either you two will practice more or you won't. He was excited, trust me, he'll eventually get bored and sex will be no big deal and then you'll complain about that.

[Asker]

What is your deal? You seem insecure about it probably since you have the same problem yourself. I wasn't even getting angry. Obviously sex is new to me so I was curious. I thouhht it would last longer because of his experience but guess not.

[Opinion Owner]

Lol lashing out at me and calling it a "problem"? No doll, I've never been a premature ejaculator. But I know your type, you aren't hapoy unless you are criticizing someone else. Mentally ill, you are. Worry about your own behavior, you should.

[Asker]

Lmaoooooo you're being extra but okay

[Opinion Owner]

It's obvious. My first comment struck a nerve. So you attack. Textbook

[Asker]

It really didn't hit a nerve, lol. Im just wondering why you're talking so idiotically as if you didn't read the question... there was no point in answeeing with negativety seeing you're in the 30-35 age range vs my age range. Its cool, though. Picking on random barely legal girls on a teen based site. Have a nice day!

[Opinion Owner]

Oh I read both the question and you perfectly.

[Anonymous]

That depends on how you want to look at it.

You could see it as good that he's clearly attracted to you.

Or as bad that he has no self control.

[Anonymous]

Your pussy is that good lol