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Why won't my boyfriend have sex with me? Or even let me do anything to him?

So we've been dating for 6 months now. We're both 18. We've gone quite far, but only on me. He has done up to oral on me. However, the farthest I have gone on him is kissing. He won't let me touch his dick under the pants, give him a handjob, or blowjob. He keeps pushing my hands away and saying "later babe" or "im not hard yet" when he clearly was. Once we were making out, and he took off all my clothes. But when I tried to take off his clothes, he stopped me. He wouldn't even take his hoodie off. And recently we were talking about sex. And at the beginning of the relationship he said that he'd lose his virginity before marriage after I said that I would. But now he keeps saying "maybee later" and avoids the topic all together. So I asked him why he didn't want to have sex now, and emphasized the point that I don't care and that I am perfectly fine with not having sex. And he didn't really reply, so when I asked him if it was because he wasn't emotionally ready and didn't want to make the relationship so serious, he said "pretty much". But then, in other context he calls our relationship serious. Also, when we sext, he always asks for pictures, and I send them. But he never sends me, and always says "next time babe". The most he has ever sent is a shirtless picture. I am so genuinely confused here, and hurt to be honest. I don't know if he doesn't like me enough or just doesn't find me desirable. But he tells me that I'm sexy and that my pictures turn him on and help him. And he keeps asking for them, and he loves doing stuff to me. Please help guys !
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Most Helpful Girl

  • I think he's very insecure. Probably of his body too but most definitely his dick. Its probably small or at least he thinks it is. You just need to make sure he knows how badly you want him.

    Have you had sex with other guys before?

    • noo I'm also a virgin. But the thing is, I am also very insecure about my body. And he knows that, but I was able to open up to him. And I let him know that I love him no matter what.

    • I dunno what you can do to make him open up. You could tell him that he can't do anything to you unless he let's you do it to him too.

Most Helpful Guys

  • He is worried about something.
    You should ask him what is wrong.
    Or
    Maybe he needs help over coming shyness. Next time the mood, time and place are right, tell him to get undressed, like a mother would tell a naughty child.

  • He probably has a short sausage in his shorts and feels very inadequate about it. Perhaps he is afraid that you will laugh or reject him.

    Maybe there is some other explanation but this is the first thing that comes to mind.

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  • "He's" a she, and she's got you fooled!

  • I think he has a small penis or at least he thinks he does. That's the only reason why he'd always turn you down that I can think of

  • He probably has a very small and/or ugly dick... he's too ashamed to let you see it

  • Huh well either respect him or move on

  • He is probably testing you...

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